ok yes, huge wall of text! I'm sorry! I think a lot of this falls under "common sense" / certain subject related and some parts may be repeats just worded differently - our huge interests are at the bottom :3
we are heavy shippers, yes we turn men gay, men can't just be friends anymore. yes we turn women lesbian, women can't just be friends anymore. (joke)
we do make kms / kys / jump jokes to friends in protected / private servers, if we see you as a friend, we may have that slip from unmasking
we yumeship and have non sharing, just don't mention having a yume we have as non-sharing yume we have around us and we're chill they can be on your lists! you can mention like "oh I have {character} as a yume", we don't care.
we do not fuel delusions of being characters in real life, we will say it jokingly or go along if a bit / inside joke but we do not want to fuel delusional states of IRLs.
we don't interact willingly and knowingly with non-trauma systems and disorder abuse believers ("narcissist abuse" as example)
we have heavy time blindness and DO have horrible memory issues, do give us time if we don't recall / give vague replies
we don't use tonetags and not much like them, /j or /silly is okay, we may give tone indicators however like these = (joke) (JOKE) (playful) (silly)
if you have doubles dni (IRL / Fictkin / Introject), just dni with us, we do not believe in there being doubles.
just because we are mod ≠ we need to interact, we do sometimes ignore people due to discomfort
we are not "doubles" of any source, if we say we are a double, it's IN SYSTEM only or as a joke.
we HEAVILY mask, we may be incredibly different in dms than in servers
we are ping avoidant, you likely will be ignored for a bit if we get pinged.
we often don't like friend requests or dm requests unless we know you.
we use slurs we can reclaim (mainly on ourselves or fictional characters)
we appear mean to our friends, my friends just have better filters.
we DO bring up Naruto a lot, we are heavily neurodivergent.
please don't interact if you self label as a yandere, thank you.
we may avoid / take a GOOD while to read walls of text
we do have parts who make source character jokes.
we may be blunt, we CAN clarify tone, do just ask.
under 15 PLEASE stay out of my dms :)
we can be clingy to extremely friends
we block over fonts
idk more to come ig
chill with most? meet our boundaries? we will listen to yours! don't like slur usage? we can avoid using slurs. don't like kys/kms/jumo jokes? we'll hold back! if you're willing to respect our boundaries, we will work to also make yourself comfortable too! :)
we really love Minecraft, Hermitcraft, The Life Series AND Naruto, we do have parts who struggle with being normal about these interests. we do also like bugs, frogs and Cookie Run (specifially kingdom and tower of adventures) !!
we do have other interests but they likely won't often be mentioned
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