A CALLOUT RENTRY ABOUT ASHER.
This rentry is created by Hero or Kai, pastly aka Heroinne and by Rei. We wanted to share our, and not only ours, but of other people's experiences with someone called Asher / Jayden (which we will only refer as Asher). Asher is a friend we (Kai and Rei) knew for a quite time already. However, he turned out being very toxic and stubborn for certain things.
DON'T START DRAMA WITH THE PEOPLE THAT ARE MENTIONED AS ANONYMOUS. Talk to us instead.
- First of all; this rentry is being used to warn PONYTOWN players about the user "HERO_OFTHEYEAR" / "YAOIGOR3" (or now known as "Vamptfi" / "Over karma system", since he created a new "identity" to run from the drama he created himself); made to point out the mistakes of someone who IS toxic and can possibly hurt other people.
- Second of all; This rentry is made with the objective of WARNING people; and not harassing.
WE ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THE ONES WHO ARE GOING TO HARASS THIS PERSON, as we cannot control what other people do. We just wanted to warn everyone possible to be careful around this guy. - Third of all; "Why are you making this rentry?" Cause all of the people here that wanted to share their experience with Asher are tired of this guy. Also, he did not want to listen any tips or hear about what he could change in himself to make things better, so... we got here.
- Lastly: To make it easier for everyone to read, we decided to split the rentry into chapters; the 3 first about personal experience of people who have known or still know him. (Let's update this when we have all chapters done)
CONTEXT
Context for some stuff we might talk about:
- Asher trauma-dumps A LOT, so it may be possible to trigger/discomfort some people.
- Asher lied about his age; he said that he is 19, but he is really younger. Since we don't want to be foolish, we're not telling his real age.
- Asher changes nicknames/profile pics sometimes, so it might get confusing. The one mentioned in the start is his new "identity" (Probably trying to run away of the stuff he has done. It got created right after he said he'd quit ponytown.)
- When Asher goes to explain what happened in an argument so someone, he distorts the whole thing, and makes it looks like everyone is against him and all.
- All the other personal experiences that are besides mine and rei's had the permission of the person to be shared. All of them are going to be anonymous since we do not want to involve them in more dramas.
- EXTRA: Our apologies if our english is bad, english is not our first language (kai speaks portuguese, and rei, polish) so in case there is something wrong in our writing, please tell us.
CHAPTER I; Rei's personal experience
- I was Asher's friend since about the start of april 2023. We were good friends since the start, and soon, he became my dad figure; basically I was calling him dad, even though we always had more like siblings than parent-kid relationship. At first he wasn't trauma dumping or venting to me, at least I don't remember that. He was rather a cool guy to have around, that I could joke with or talk to about everything if I just wanted to. But then, what I remember, is that he took someone's OC, and just said it was his. I named it KRALIE, since I wasn't aware of him doing that, and he needed a name for the OC. It didn't catch my attention that the OC was (according to him) 6 years old and didn't have a name, since I thought that he wouldn't lie to me back then. The original artist drew this in october 2022.

Since I found out about his stealing of the art quite recently (because I randomly remembered about it), I decided to ask him about it.
(if you're curious about the thing that I apparently forgot about, I will be talking about it later)
- I think that was the first thing that I remember that he had done wrong, not counting the lies. If I remember correctly, he had an argument with Person 1 later, about their name (see Person's 1 experience for more info) During the whole argument, as well as before and after it, he was complaining about his (old now) friend group; for being (according to him) mean and toxic towards him, and he was feeling like a left out with the friend group, which what he has told me was the reason he has left it (and also being tired of the friend group? I'm not sure). He said that they're mad at him for reminding them about Person 1's partner (see Person's 1 experience for more info) by sending some screenshots that were making fun of Person 1's partner. We made fun of a lot of people, back then and after that, for example Person 1 and their partner (which I am sorry for, I shouldn't made fun of people I don't even know, or actually make fun of people in general), and also my old friend. He was black, and he did a lot of bad things, which I will not talk about for a lot of reasons. But Asher back then said this; which I didn't really react to, but I should've said something. I'm sorry for not reacting, I didn't want to bother him.

- After that, he revealed that he is actually not 20, but 14, and that he was lying about LOTS AND LOTS of things, like, for example, his nationality. He said I was the first person to know about his "real" identity, and encouraged him to tell everyone else about it. He also revealed that he lied about some stuff in arguments (I don't remember how much exactly, but I remember of one situation, which I will not talk about.) It was rather weird, but I didn't pay much attention to it; I tried to be a supportive good friend, since I thought that it would be something he needs; and maybe it was, or maybe I was just naive. I have noticed that people are starting to either feel uncomfortable around him or are just leaving him. I thought that's sad, as I didn't understand back then why would that happen; I was not fully aware of what he has done, as I thought he was just a silly goofy friend. That was the time he started to vent to me a lot too; he was traumadumping me, and he was NEVER asking for a permission to vent. He was talking about rather personal things, like his addiction (I will not say it since I respect him), about how he cannot get a therapist, even though he claimed to have some mental illnesses diagnosed, apparently? It turned out that he doesn't have those mental illnesses all diagnosed, according to this screenshot:
(I don't think these are diagnosed, but I can't really tell. This is a screenshot of his old rentry that is no longer up though.)
- The fact that he was venting to me that much made me really uncomfortable, same with his rather dry texting, so I decided to confront him about it. The whole conversation is HERE, but I will shorten it here; I made a whole paragraph about how I am annoyed by the way he talks to me, how he vents to me all the time, how we don't do anything else than just talk about his problems, that I feel like his vent doll (someone who you use only to vent about your problems) and all that stuff. I did it; out of random, yes, without warning him, but in the most sincere way I could say it; I don't like to sugarcoat my words and usually when I'm mad at someone like this I tell them that by insulting them all the time, being mean, etc., which I really tried not to do in the paragraph, but anyways, he got mad, said I was super mean, that it was out of pocket, and that he doesn't even vent that much in the first place. I argued with him, and on 31st august, he has hidden me, and I said we will talk on monday (4th of september). I wasn't online for personal reasons for 3 days, came back on 3rd. Though, if I remember correctly, he had messaged me on 2nd of august (or 1st, but the date for me was already 2nd, so I'm just gonna refer to it as 2nd) that he is sorry (on obimy btw, since he has blocked me on discord), I told him that we will talk on monday, but he totally ignored me, sent "?? ok??" and started to I guess vent? I won't share the screenshot, but it was about someone hiding him. I said "like i said, we will talk on monday" and he stopped talking about it.
- On sunday we started talking again, thanks to one of our friends. I told him that I want him to change, and help him change, but he was just like "mhm, okay" if I remember correctly. I didn't save the messages, but we got back together. Since then we started to argue a lot; I found out about his stolen art, we were arguing about his friends that left him, and other things, one of those was whitewashing Kim. Kim is an omori character, which originally looks like this:

While his version of Kim looked like this:

it caught my attention, and so I asked Asher why is his Kim so white, and I got this reply:

- On the 8th of September, he has messaged me with "Rei, I think we should stop contacting each others", and so we did. He said that he will be leaving ponytown and left my party.
- But he apparently didn't; I found him sitting one day with one of my friends, so I talked to him why did he say he's leaving. He pretended not to understand, claimed that it is his classmate, apparently. I confirmed that it is his account thanks to Heroinne. I was rather mad at him, and I was pressing on him to finally say that it is actually him. He didn't, and after a long talk, I stopped talking to him and hid him. He hid me too, which I know since i unhidden him. From then on, I haven't interacted with him directly, only got info from friends, so that's the end of my side of story.
CHAPTER II; Hero's personal experience
MOST SCREENSHOTS I HAD ARE GONE, SINCE MY DISCORD ACCOUNT GOT DELETED FOR PERSONAL REASONS. If possible, I'll bring them here again.
- I'm friends with Asher for some months already.. since april, just like Rei. He wasn't like that too, he wouldnt really vent out to me and all stuff. But suddenly he started to be negative around my friends, cutting completely the happy mood.. which yeah, it is worrying, but you cant just do that a lot. It affects other people and all.
- Asher would argue with my friends for.. dumb things. And then he'd go complain to me instead of just talking to the person he argued with and try to make up things, then he'd guilttrip and make me apologize of what he did cause i had no other choice.
After Asher and some of my friends argued, he left the groupchat he used to be and started to shittalk about my friends in public, saying that it was toxic as hell and all, when we didn't give a shit about him (aka we did not talk about him in public and just rarely in private). It didn't take long to I realize it, and I even could sometimes see by myself him doing that. Took me a while but I finally got the courage to talk with him.
The whole conversation isHERE, since it is long.
- In that conversation, Asher accused my friends of """betraying""" his whole system. THEY DID NOT betray his whole system. He mocked them and they decided to "attack" back by just blocking him; and they warned him about what he was doing of wrong before they even did that. Asher also said that I "don't know what are anger issues and how they feel like"... I never said that I don't know what anger issues are, neither said that its dumb or something, and you can't just tell that I don't know how it is to have anger issues since I have those too. He also tried to change topics a lot of times by traumadumping and stuff, which im not really surprised.
- Recently, after all the drama he has been, Asher said he would quit ponytown.. But that's not why i'm writing this. Suddenly, after like 2 days, someone else joined without having any social media linked to their skin and the style really alike Asher's...
- Example of skin comparing are here.
- I could make sure that the person who joined IS Asher cause, in that time, I had Asher hidden. When rei told me about how that person weirdly looked like Asher, I joined ponytown to see if they really were there but.. apparently they weren't in my point of view? So I unhid Asher and wow! that person suspiciously appeared! What a coincidence.
- Also, the person's github was created in the same day he apparently "left" ponytown..
- With that, we could make sure that Asher created a new "identity" to run away from drama.
- Asher also created a new rentry (and github as you just saw), and on his rentry, he says he "possibly has DID"
(sorry for bad quality, even if i think it is still possible to read this)
You cannot seethison his rentry anymore cause hecoincidentallyremoved this info!
- for me, someone who met Asher as a SYSTEM, someone that made sure that he himself HAS DID, this is fucking weird. If you possibly has DID, why you said you were sure you did have?
CHAPTER III; Other's personal experience
PERSON 1's personal experience
- In a while ago, PERSON 1's friendgroup had an argument with ours, but then we made up and everything is okay now. There is no more arguments about that topic. But recently.. Asher was invited to our friendgroup some months ago. Since we trusted him and wanted to give him context, we explained about the drama that happened and that the argument was OVER, that it was RESOLVED. But guess what Asher did; Asher proceed to tell about the drama to his friends, and harass PERSON 1's partner. Asher also added those who argued with us in his dni list, when they didn't even know who Asher was. Me (Kai) and my friends asked for Asher to don't spread the case cause it took months to be over and that it was tiring, and then he got mad and distorted all of what we said, saying that we "leave him behind" and that we "don't listen to his side" when we just asked something basic.
- PERSON 1 used to have a nickname that was "(NAME)oftheday" but they changed it after some time. Once, PERSON 1 decided to use that nickname again. Asher saw it and, since in that time he had the nickname of "HERO_OFTHEYEAR.", he created a whole drama cause of that. Cause of a nickname that seemed like his. And instead of just trying to make up things and respectfully ask if PERSON 1 had inspired on his name, he just assumed it and hid him. PERSON 1 HAD proof that they have that nickname for a long time already and did not inspire on him, but Asher did not want to listen.
PERSON 2's personal experience
- For context, PERSON 2 has a comf character, which they really love to talk about. Asher started to make jokes about that, getting to the point of calling PERSON 2 delusional, when he didn't even have any intimacy with PERSON 2. PERSON 2 asked for Asher to stop joking about that, but he wouldn't. Asher would say that he stopped when PERSON 2 asked, but he didn't. When PERSON 2 gave up of giving Asher chances, they hid/blocked him. However, Asher would keep saying that PERSON 2 is the blamed for doing that.