Updated response. My friend had sent me this post and I thought I'd address it:
https://alterspring.org/@songoku/a/114827871662137956
Archived in case she goes back on her word: https://web.archive.org/web/20250710081153/https://alterspring.org/@songoku/a/114827871662137956
Breaking down each point.
- Nevi:
so my reasoning for perm banning Alex/pup/jirian is because they are weird, I'm pretty sure they banned invaded because one @ was jirian and the other was @pup, they keep condoning joking about grooming/being friends with a actual pedophile because i said "COVID"
I did not ban evade. Pup had been my main account for a while and was made way before you were even active on the site. I do not condone jokes about grooming or pedophilia, I stated that I actually am fully against those jokes and that I didn't find them funny or let alone engage with them. Regardless of the situation, what you said was racist. There were many other ways of responding, but that wasn't one of them. Your relationship with people who are asian or chinese does not matter in the slightest, you are just using a classic "Gotcha" card that every hidden racist uses.
You didn't just say "COVID", you said "No wonder you guys caused COVID 19" to a Chinese person. You are promoting harmful stereotypes about an entire race because of a singular person, and you have harmed an entire community.
- Nevi:
I feel triggered as someone who has been sexually harassed and groomed MANY TIMES and even sexually abused that someone would defend awful stuff that's happen to me or others over me saying something stupid when I was 17. i'm not apologizing because that guy is friends with a pedophile.
I am sorry to hear that you were groomed and experienced sexual harassment, I can empathize with you in that aspect, but do not accuse me of being friends with someone who has inappropriate relationships with children. I do not associate myself with pedophiles, groomers, etc. Me defending an entire group of people who have experienced racial discrimination because of a myth that people from China caused COVID does not equal me defending a pedophile.
You started this entire thing by making false allegations about me being a stalker because you were upset over a fairly lighthearted joke that really meant nothing outside of what I made it mean. Rules said no bigots → you made a bigoted comment → "Wow they really chose the best mods". You could've just shrugged it off and moved on with your day, but you are quite literally accusing me of MULTIPLE crimes and being friends with literal scum.
my ban reason
written by @jirai/@pup on Alterspring.
My response because this is actually a little insane. This has been going on since March and I'm too old to keep going back and forth consistently with this person. This will be my first and final response.
Hello, I'm Sebastian—I'm one of the headmates in Alexs system. Nevi (@Songoku) is the person who's currently accusing me of stalking and harassing her, which is not the case. In case you aren't aware, stalking and harassment allegations are actually extremely serious and shouldn't be taken lightly.
She accused me of stalking her around 9-10 hours ago (I believe). I only found this out because of a comment section under one of @Toms post. ← You get notified if someone replies to a post you commented on. Her profile seemed familiar so I clicked on it, only to find she was accusing me of stalking her.
- The proof she provided:
My other posts that are considered "Stalking" in the eyes of Nevi:
https://tetratto.com/post/201569686943432704
https://tetratto.com/post/201572348229320704
Keep in mind I had posted this before I even considered checking her account. She posted about her receiving the mod position on a public timeline. If I were actually stalking her as she states I am, I would've been posting about her or going through her account frequently—which isn't the case. Clearly. My comment was made because she is known for generally not being a good person. (Her racist remarks towards people who live in China. Keep in mind that I have never platformed the 'allegations' against her being a pedophile, and I have never found those jokes to be funny.) I found it ironic that she was hired considering one of the guidelines on the site is to not be bigoted in any way and that was the only reason I posted that. As a matter of fact, she is quite literally banned off of Tetratto (If I recall correctly, I may be wrong.), so in order to find that post she either:
- Knew my account and checked it.
- Has a hidden alt.
or - Had a friend screenshot and share my post privately.
- Here is her admitting to the racist comment within her own doc.
- ss provided by @kitten on Tet.
It was entirely on me for letting one of my headmates live post the argument between me and Nevi, in which I would like to apologize for that. However, that does not mean that I should be accused of stalking or harassment. Nevi has a history of making herself and her past actions known and then acting surprised when people call her out on it. She did this on Revospring, Frag, and now Alterspring.
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There are more details that I would prefer to discuss in private. Overall, Nevi has thrown around false allegations to multiple users instead of focusing on what they actually did wrong, and now she is doing it to me.