By big on it i mean like mentioning it a lot, calling anything a reference to them, send images of them, hate on izuchako while shipping it, repost content of them a lot. Yea stuff like that.
But it is worth mentioning that I will still be friends with you, interact, etc if you're just a casual shipper! I'm not that chronically online.. 🎼 and, well, some ship isn't that serious to me 🤍