TW BEFORE HAND THIS RENTRY IS GOING TO INCLUDE STUFF ABOUT S.CIDE/ SELF HARM AND MANIPULATION!!! PLEASE BE WARNED

SERIOUS UPDATE NEAR THE BOTTOM

Right so off the bat I want to say, I have been dealing with this person ever since I started this game which was around last year April/June. I was apart of a group and this person was added to the group and they had done some.. things

The person goes by Lumi (Formerly known as Kai/Ven/Goldie). They are a common player on the 18+ server and have a history of manipulating people to get what they want.

I will be calling them Ven in this rentry because thats the name I know them most commonly as and that is the name I confronted them with

Ven has a tendency to start drama, Now not the shitty little haha funny drama I mean full blown group shut downs because they cant get what they want. For an example, My first friend group was split in two because Ven had stalked us for two months after being removed from the party because they had made several members uncomfortable. They liked to sit quietly in the corner and keep to themselves, Seems pretty harmless yeah? Well no. When we found out they were sending guilt trip messages to one of the main leaders and gaslighting them into letting Vens friends join our group only to ruin what was going on then it became a problem. If Im not sounding clear then let me elaborate. Ven. Sent. Suicide baiting. Texts. To. Our. Friend. They'd do it all the time. If I still had the proof I was given I would show them but the friend (who I will not name for their own safety) deleted them after we split. Ven would manipulate this friend into doing erp with them saying if they didnt they werent a true friend, Forcing this friend to marry them in rp and have children with them in rp. I had asked this friend if they were comfortable with the idea and they had said "They had no choice".

Ven had made our other friends uncomfortable as well, Clinging to this main friend and getting nasty when others would come near them to talk. On one night a fight broke out with one of Vens friends and a friend of our own which left things very awkward, Not just that but Ven would ALWAYS force this specific person away from our other friend. Yk to make things easier im going to call the friend being manipulated A, While the other friends name was X. X was very close with A and when Ven had joined into the group they had forced X away from A by keeping A with them at all times. This made X upset and uncomfortable, Refusing to interact with anyone else in the group.

Mildly getting off track but I wanted to put their patreon here so you can be weary of them https://www.patreon.com/user?u=64257871 they have a tendency to change their name and fluctuate from IRL to Kin To FICT back to IRL. They had pretended to be a system to get with our friend K and then as soon as that friend rejected them they changed to IRL. In which case they are NOT a system nor do they have psychosis. Even if they tried to get diagnosed for some form of psychosis they wouldnt be able to get a proper diagnosis because they fluctuate too much between different things and do not actually see themselves as the person they think they are. Thats not just all they have lied about being transgender to get with people.

Other cases of Ven has been with my partner and them trying to mimic and copy them because they were jealous that she was getting more attention than they were.

Ven has a TERRIBLE habit of lying and not being able to defend themselves when being called out for the stuff they have done, They pretend to be sassy if you even TRY to reason with them. When I had tried to talk to them about how they were stalking me and my friends they pretended like it never happened when there is clearly proof from numerous people that they have.

Back to the A person. This person had told me that Ven had sent photos of them self harming and sending it to them for reassurance that they wont leave them, Now if that isnt clear manipulation I dont know what is. People have also agreed with us that Ven does manipulate people with suicide and they do not actually care for their friends, They just see them as.. Chances I guess you could say.

There is another incident with a friend, Their name will be placed as KA, They were good friends with Ven at one point, Ven had developed feelings for this person despite previously calling them a parental figure which is gross in its own they also said stuff about the group I was apart of to these people trying to make us seem like the villains when in reality Ven has been stalking us or by what they say "observing" us for far too fucking long. See Ven falls for people they're friends with and they lies and says that those people liked them first when it's really not the case, Lying about people's feelings is one thing but lying about a large group of people in general is another.

The system that Ven had tried to get into relations with (pretending to be a system themselves to get with this system) also got messages from Ven at some point of them saying that they know our secrets??? Knowing stuff about us and then not giving away said things, Probably trying to manipulate that friend into talking with Ven more because thats what they do. I do remember that day or the day after I myself went up and told them to stop talking crap and outted them. So they are AWARE they are in the wrong however they refuse to back down and leave us plus friends our friends alone. Recently sending people out to stalk friends of ours and harass them making them not want to stay on the 18+ server.

Edit 15 July 2022; Ven has recently attempted to get with an Aether IRL (Ven who claims they are Lumine IRL). Manipulating and leading this person on. Turning them as well as other friends against each other. When confronted about having feelings for this person + another person they got shot down which they proceeded to become depressive. They called this other person , that also had feelings for Ven, A dickhead and became aggressive with them purely because this person said they were polyam but respected their monogamous partners wishes.

Update 27 August. This Person has been found out to be dating a minor!! Ven also goes by Mari now claiming to be her IRL. Ven is what we remember to be above the age of 18. They have been also very possessive and manipulative of their current partner (Who is a minor) as well as stopping them from interacting with close friends and controlling other aspects of their life!

All in all please be careful of this person and their friends!! They usually sit on the 18+ server. Otherwise there are other skins they have linked below at the end

FEEL FREE TO SHARE THIS AROUND I KNOW ITS NOT THE BEST BUT THIS IS ALL THE INFORMATION I CAN LIST OF WHAT THEY ARE DONE!! AS STATED I HAVE LITERALLY DEALT WITH THEM FOR OVER A YEAR AND THIS IS GETTING OUT OF HAND BECAUSE THEYRE ATTACKING OUR FRIENDS FOR NO REASON SO PLEASE DO BE CAREFUL OF THEM!!!

Some of their skins, more will be added eventually added when as they are seen: https://imgur.com/a/v2Ts4ba

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Pub: 19 Jun 2022 03:22 UTC
Edit: 27 Aug 2022 08:20 UTC
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