Boundaries

There are a LOT of unsafe/possibly triggering words, remember this is a DNI list. This was originally formatted for Discord so triggering words will be surrounded by ||

Discord Status Codes

Just a guide on who can talk to us and when
(Lorena is probably the exception to all of these just due to her nature and how long we've known her)

DNI(Do Not Interact) - Do not interact, there is only one person we are stable enough to talk to in this state and we have told this person directly who they are.

DNIUC(Do Not Interact Unless Close) - Here are some people that can talk to us with this up; Loki & Ikol, Dave, Sky, Lorena, Vintage System, and mods in my server. If you do not know if we are close, don't talk to us. Ask when the DNIUC is gone.

IWC(Interact With Caution) - Only a few people can casually talk to us like this and those are the people listed in the DNIUC. Everyone else is allowed to but please just watch what you say and don't get mad if I'm short with you or I say something rude. I most likely do not mean what I say and I am not thinking clearly at all.

IWEC(Interact With Extreme Caution) - This usually means we feel unstable or extremely angry with something. Try to look at the rest of our status to determine which.

If you see us on Do Not Disturb it’s best just to not dm us unless you’re an extremely close friend

If you see the ⚠️ emoji, this is a "please talk to us we need help" code, but only towards the people listed in IWC

DNIs

Endogenic/Tulpa "systems"

Bodily white systems that use closed names

Toxic fans & antis of any fandom

Toxic shippers

Proshippers, Darkshippers, or whatever else y'all like to call yourselves

MAPs (aka ||pedophiles||)

Transmed people

Bigots (homophobes, transphobes, racists, ableists, xenophobes, and misogynists)

Meowbahh followers, supporters, and apologists

Dream Team apologists (NOT directed towards factives/fictives in systems)

c!Dream apologists (NOT directed towards fictives in systems)

Wilbur Soot/Lovejoy supporters, apologists, or fans

Autism Speaks supporters

Victim blamers

Zoophiles

Fakeclaimers (of anything) without any proper research or who's "evidence" is screenshots/recordings of legit symptoms

"System hoppers"

People that think ||rape|| jokes are funny

People that make fun of tone tags or purposely use them incorrectly

Anyone that genuinely believes that neopronouns "set back the trans rights movement" or who think that people that use them are not actually trans

People that fake serious disorders and medical conditions (please just talk to a therapist)

People on subreddits for NSFL (Not Safe For Life) content, making fun of people or mental disorders

People that train dogs with the "Alpha theory" or agree with that style of training

NSFW age regressors/caregivers (people into dd/lg, dd/lb, etc.)

Hunter, Finch, and Toby/Tobias (or whatever you go by now). You know who you are and what you did.

"Nonpolitical" queer folk

More will be added…

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Pub: 17 Mar 2023 13:59 UTC

Edit: 13 Jul 2025 17:26 UTC

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