Boundaries: As stated before, do not use she/her to refer to us unless given explicit permission, or if you're specifically referring to the alter that uses those pronouns (Tourmaline).
- I do not mind if you call me your friend if we're moots, interact with me like we're friends, or try to start up conversation with me & reply to my posts (READ DNI FIRST PLEASE!). Also note that when you talk to me, I may misinterpret your tone if you aren't using tone indicators, and I generally try to use them if I think my messages may not be clear enough. I don't mind if you don't use them @me btw! Just know I have a tendency to misinterpret tone.
- Collectively, we like to use umbrella terms to refer to our identities, since it's a lot easier because some of our system identifies differently than certain microlabels. Generally we say we're queer, or trans & gay. However, we may also say we're poly, queerplatonic, demi aroace, nonbinary/transmasc.
- I am currently dating two people, Tom (@CR0WQUE) & Alfie (No Twitter).
- If we are close: some of the alters are really platonically affectionate, as well as make up sweet nicknames or use sweet nicknames (such as honey, sweetheart, baby, etc). For some, it's a platonic or parental affection. However, we will ASK if we feel we are close!
- Some alters are also really flirtatious, but we try to keep this checked
- Additional Info: There are gaps in my memory, and I may genuinely not remember certain conversations or events, but sometimes it only takes a key word to reopen a memory for me (sometimes trial and error for the key words).
- Almost/All alters and host are nonhuman, but we do not mind being called/referred to as human.
Triggers: For sensitive topics, please ask before mentioning them to be. Generally, I don't mind a lot of stuff, but it's best to ask first because sometimes I am in the worst mental space and am not equipped for such discussion.