BYI+BOUNDARIEs
- Our fictive's aren't their source don't treat them like it(being more hostile towards them/making fun of them bc of source/making fun of source trauma etc), it makes us really uncomfortable, we don't support any problematic media we may introject from.
- We talk about our QPPs and friends A LOT we love talking about the people we are attached to.
- Please be patient we may be a little slow at times/not immediately understand what you mean.
- Uncomfortable with heavy/directed towards us sexual jokes(No sexual/suggestive jokes near our little's and Partygoer's please)
- Won't speak in VC's because of our selective mutism so please don't try to force us to.
- Tonetags/direct communication would be greately appreciated especially if you're serious about something.
- If any of us upset you in any way please let us know as we won't be able to tell otherwise.
- We block freely If we weren't close, don't ask us to unblock you by friends or alt accounts, I'll just make us not want to unblock u more.
- Very mentally unstable might overshare(if we do and it makes you uncomfortable please tell), distance ourselves and engage in dangerous/self destructive behaviors.
- English Is not our native language.
- Most of the time we don't feel comfortable/like talking about source memories or personal stuff about the system, please don't pressure us, google is free and you can always research about the subject yourself, we aren't a professional either so we aren't always right/don't know everything about what we have.
- Our memory can be very bad sometimes we may forget important dates/things/events/stuff we do if not reminded about it, please do remind us though, reminders are greatly appreciated, we don't do it on purpose/to upset you.
DNI
- basic dni criteria.
- People who call strangers slurs.
- Anti recovery people + who glorify any disorders,SH,SA etc.
- NSFW account's, or just don't bring it anywhere near us.
- Pro/comshippers(🌈🍖).
- Please don't use very heavy typing quirks(even if it's not on purpose and ur just fast texting to the point it has a lot of mistake's) (without translations) we struggle reading/deciphering it.
- Endogenic 'systems' and supporters. (see why)