This was made because I'm sick and tired of my online parent getting attacked for having boundaries.

First of all, how is it bad that they don't want ANY arlecchinos or dottores to int unless it's already someone they know and are comfortable with? Isn't that a completely normal and fair boundary? Why are you so intent on finding something wrong with it?

Second of all, to the accusation that they're ableist for not wanting arlecchino introjects or dottore introjects to int: as a system myself, I have introjects who people are not comfortable with, including a dottore. Do I let him front near those people or use his skin near them? No! Because I'm not a boundary ignoring dickhead! (Not that he'd be interested in interacting with random strangers anyway but that's beside the point)

Thirdly, do you not realize that the very reason Mouth doesn't want those introjects to int could be because they're fixated on arlecchino (as they have already stated) and it would cause them distress to see a person who is a version of her that isn't true to source or true to how they perceive her? Or maybe out of fear that dottore introjects could have the same worldview and behaviors as their disgusting source?

Just because Mouth's DNI was poorly worded(?) and they haven't interacted with many systems does NOT mean you get to ignore their boundaries or say they're invalid. And anyone who does so on purpose is a piece of shit. Lol. Anyway I've said my peace bye

made by Amanda, host of the Facet System

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Pub: 06 Apr 2024 09:33 UTC
Edit: 06 Apr 2024 09:55 UTC
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