A pink bow pointing to the left A wall of shame for all the misogyny that gets sent my way. A pink bow pointing to the right.

An image of a tall frame with torn paper like outer edges, and a pink bow at the bottom. In the frame is text that reads While I agree we don't need a man/masc alternative to damselpunk I think it's really fucking insensitive and low-key transphobic to accuse those who don't want femininity or womanhood to be applied to oneself as somehow being misogynistic. No, I don't have a problem with femininity being applied to me because I hate woman, I have a fucking problem with it because it gives me dysphoria you ableist dick. It causes me extreme fucking distress and saying that that somehow says something about me or how I view women is really fucking gross and guilt trippy. This is what people are talking about when they say masculinity is demonized in the queer community. Those who are masculine and don't want to be feminine or don't want to be associated with or called feminine are accused of misogyny or secretly hating women, when we simply are just not feminine. Men or masc individuals shouldn't have to be feminine or align with womanhood to be seen as "good" I shouldn't have to make myself dysphoric every time I go to a queer event because I know if I'm too masculine or look "too much like a man" I'll be looked at with fear or disgust, that I'll somehow be making people uncomfortable because Satan forbid someone dares to not align with femininity or womanhood. I've been a feminist for 20 years. My mom took me to feminist events and protests and rallies ever since I was able to walk. I've done so much advocating when it comes to feminism and women's rights. None of that is erased or lessened simply because I am not feminine, aligned with womanhood, or because someone androphobic thinks me wanting to be comfortable in my own body is somehow misogynistic. I've been following and been so supportive of the conversations around misogyny in the MOGAI community, because yes, it is a problem and is something that needs to be addressed and fought against. But you can do those things without being an ass to men or masculine or generally not feminine beings. And ex follower. The pink bow covers up some of the text of the last paragraph.
An image of a white picture frame. In the frame is text that reads "I'm very interested in your experience as a nonbinary gendervague woman and I want this wonderful space to be safe and comfortable for women of all kinds but you kind of sound like you have something against masc-aligned people which doesn't seem helpful as feminism benefits all people, not just women. "
An image of a polaroid frame. In the frame is text that reads "Really gross to platform and promote a person who faked being transmasc that is now demanding trans men/transmascs be comfortable with being feminine or associating with femininity, that person is transphobic. Full stop. Or at the least transandrophobic. I'm super disappointed that they're allowed to spew transphobic rhetoric and get away with it by shielding said transphobia behind "feminism" As a masculine individual it makes me feel extremely unwelcome/demonized/uncomfortable in this space. Please do better. This is not gender equality nor feminism.
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Pub: 23 Dec 2025 00:30 UTC

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