Boundaries this absolutely will update at some point
- I am not tolerant of refusing to communicate. Tell me if I do something wrong or if something relating to me is making you upset with me. I will listen. I will not be mad. I will not be upset. What WILL upset me is completely refusing to try. I don't want to be friends with someone who won't treat me like a friend they can trust and feel comfortable talking to. It's fine if you have to voice concerns in some subtle way just please do it
- Do not rely heavily on me. Do not consider me your #1 person to go to when you need to vent about anything heavy. I'm not your therapist. Don't go to me for absolutely everything wrong ESPECIALLY if it's going to be incredibly frequent. I'm not a vent bucket. I'm not a therapist. I'm not someone to look up to, I don't want to be the #1 person on your mind at all times. I'm a 15 year old on the internet. I'm a person. Treat me like one.
- maybe without the 15 year old part if it means belittling me at all I fucking hate that
- do not vent to me if we aren't close. Not sorry, I'm not who you wanna go to
- I don't like excessive use of tone indicators. Don't overuse them for me, honestly preferably only use them for me if I ask for one or I make it clear that I misinterpreted your tone.
- keep mentions of underage drinking away from me. Depictions are iffy But sometimes ok? NEVER TALK TO ME WHEN YOU AS AN UNDERAGE PERSON ARE UNDER THE INFLUENCE!!! I WILL NOT WANT TO TALK TOYOU! I don't Care who you are
- apparently I)m trypophobic watch out for That I suppose
Stuff To Note About Me
- I'm not very consistent. Emotionally, mentally, nothin. Which also means I can't promise you I'll be continually emotionally available or willing to socialize. If I don't reply to a dm, I'm either busy or don't feel like answering right now. If you aren't close (you will know if you are), I suggest you not spam me. If you're close, you can give me 99+ notifs and I won't mind so don't worry LMAO
- It's probably not at all personal if I get angry with you over something unserious. Like a game or some random thing in-conversation? I'll stop caring about whatever I got snappy with you for very shortly after Ok? Ok it's ok
- I am autistic and may come off with a tone I don't mean to sometimes. Try to assume my words in messages are meant to be literal and I'm not trying to insinuate anything or come off rudely. I'll tell you if something is genuinely up, like directly. It won't be something I imply in my words. At least not on purpose or anything. And at least not in-text. If I sound angry verbally that's probably on purpose, I'm very conscious of my verbal tone a lot of the time
- I can get kinda easily annoyed by jokes being overdone or things being too repetitive in general. You'll know if that happened if I just kinda stop laughing at something I used to laugh a lot at. Basically that just means stop saying that thing around me or tone it down before it gets irritating
- i'll also just probably tell you if something has gotten old