my sexual / gender identity changes quite frequently, so i will try and update this when necessary.
currently, my preferred pronouns are they / he but i also like xe/xem and it/its. any other neopronouns are okay too! please dont use she/her on me unless i give express permission. however, i am sort of okay with some fem terms as long as they are not overused. ex. wife, girl (jokingly)... but i generally consider myself male-aligned overall and i appreciate being referred to as such.
i also consider myself on the aromantic spectrum, but i am allosexual. i dont really have an exact label that i like to refer myself to on the arospec, so i prefer to just use that :) additionally, im gay (i think) and i am attracted to people who identify as male / nonbinary (cinthean)
um im not strictly monogamous either!