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@all_purpose_bunny

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BASICS

INTRO
Hello! I collect a lot of names, but the main ones people know me by are Gloomy, Teivel, and Fanta! My @ on most platforms is all_purpose_bunny, those that aren't will be named that soon! (im rebranding lol)
I'm 17, and use every pronoun under the sun, including neos and xenos! Depending on my mood I may have preferences!
I collect genders, pronouns, and all sorts of labels for funsies, but you can typically say im a genderfluid lesboy bisexual-lesbian :PP
I like gloomy bear (duh), making cute websites regardless if its rentry, carrd, standard HTML CSS or Java, and drawing and writing!
I'm here to recover from conformity, share my story, kick ass, have fun, and be a better person.

STANCES

  • PROSHIP/ANTI-ANTI: Being Proship is when you believe that people should be able to enjoy whatever ships they like in fandom spaces, regardless of the content of these ships or regardless of if you personally dislike them. You believe that what people enjoy in fandom spaces should never warrant them being harassed, shamed, or endangered. The opposite of Antiship. Unanimous with Profic/Pro-Fiction
  • PROFIC/PRO-FICTION: Being Pro-fiction is when you believe that people should be able to create whatever fiction they please and enjoy whatever fictional content they please, regardless of the content of the fiction. Fiction does not affect reality on a 1:1 ratio, and being profic means you know trying to re-enact certain types of fictional content is irrational, risky, harmful, or downright illegal. Unanimous with Proship/Anti-Anti
  • DEAD DOVE, DO NOT EAT: A term used in fan-fiction that means read the tags carefully for tags you may dislike before proceeding, but it can be a stance too. You believe that everyone is responsible for cultivating their own online experiences, and that if people see content they dislike or find content with tags they know will upset them, they should block it instead of making it other people's problem. You also believe that people should properly tag their content so that people have the choice to block your content if they decide they dislike it. Unanimous with Proship/Anti-Anti and Profic/Profiction
  • PRO-KINK/KINK TOMATO/YKINMK: Being Pro-kink and agreeing with "Your Kink Is Not My Kink" or "Kink Tomato" is when you believe that people should be allowed to indulge in whatever sexual fantasies, desires, kinks, and fetishes they please. As long as said indulgement is done in safe environments with 100% consenting partner(s), and people involved are not being harmed/not being harmed in a way they didn't consent to, they may do whatever they please.
  • PARA STANCE: I am personally supportive of paraphilic attractions (nonstandard erotic attractions that are just as intense/more intense than normophilic erotic attractions) and those who have them, paraphiles. I support all paraphiles right to exist, and find healthy, safe, and consensual outlets for any risky, unethical, or harmful/illegal attractions they may have. I support disordered paraphiles (paraphiles at risk of acting on dangerous ideas and fantasies from their paraphilias) getting the help they need, and do not believe in demonizing paraphilic disorders (paraphilic attractions that are dangerous to those who have it or beings around them), or harmful encouragement/engagement.
    • After some consideration, I've decided to stop calling myself "Pro-Para", as depsite my beliefs possibly alligning with its original definition, I think there are too many people misusing it for harmful ideations for me to feel comfortable labeling myself that way. I also believe that contact stances do not properly convey the seriousness of the topic at hand, and are thrown around almost like fandom terms, or worse, dogwhistles, which is why I will not label myself "anti-contact" going forward either, despite some of you may feeling as though that label fits my beliefs. Additionally, I would like to emphasize the importance of recognizing that engaging with content that feeds into any paraphilic disorder always has the potential to be dangerous, and while I cannot police how people choose to cope with or engage with these attractions, I do not always fully support engagement, and heavily encourage most engagement be done with the guidance of a health professional and proper support team.
  • ANTI-RADQUEER: A stance that is strongly against the encouragement of radqueers, "queer" communities that believe that people can transition into different races, transition into disabilities by intentionally disable themselves/wish to disable themselves, transition into different ages often at the endangerment of real life children, and commonly encouraging harmful paraphilic disorders and their attractions.
  • ANTI-ISRAEL/PRO-PALESTINE: Being Pro-Palestine is the advocacy for Palestine to be decolonized by the Israeli government, who has been censoring an ongoing genocide in Palestine for over nearly 75+ years under the guise of a "Civil War". Being pro-Palestine is the acknowledgement that the state of Israel was created on the grounds of murder, rape, and racism, that Hamas is a resistance group and not a terrorist group like Israel propagandizes it to be, and that Israel itself a terrorist state in every sense of the word, guilty of multiple warcrimes over the years that demand justice NOW.

BYF/BOUNDARIES

  • I am occasionally prone to some really bad paranoia and irrational thinking. When these things happen I'm usually able to calm myself down after practice so I don't need any sort of assistance with that unless I ask. But if you see it, simply being kind and patient means a lot to me <33
  • I am terrible at reading the room, and terrible at telling tonality over text at times, so I may occasionally say things that come off as rudely blunt, or bring up uncomfortable topics! Please be upfront with me about these sort of issues! I am not a mind reader, and I'm never going to know unless you likely tell me. Healthy communication is key to a long lasting friendship.
  • I am okay with dark jokes as a general, but I really dislike when those jokes are made towards me as a person, and would really appreciate if those jokes weren't thrown my way, as I don't ever make those jokes about others as well! I am completely fine with those statements being made about fictional content though.
    • ex 👎: I'm gonna rape you, I'm gonna touch you)
    • ex 👍: I wanna rape (insert character), I'm gonna touch (insert character)
  • Platonic flirting is okay, but I am not looking for any sort of partnership at the moment. Serious flirting will make things awkward and I might not be so polite about it.
  • To my lolicon friends, moots, and oomfs, I respect your ability to enjoy whatever content you'd like as long as it is done safely and soundly, but please know I personally do NOT wish to engage or see that content. Please do not send it to me or expose me to that content intentionally. Lolicon or just any fiction containing the endangerment/predation of children is so triggering for me, if this boundary is crossed I will be incredibly rude about it.
    • to clarify, this partains to sexual content. I'm capable of enjoying them non-sexually and showing me non-sexual content is fine! Also the general mentions of lolisho isn't upsetting either and I'm capable of handling non-sexual conversations about it.
  • You may see me interacting with or even befriending people in some pretty controversial groups, such as ED or SH spaces. While you're free to turn away from that, I personally will never deny someone companionship for struggling. As someone who used to be stuck in those groups myself, everyone deserves a friend.

DNI
Antis/Antishippers (barely make exceptions to this unless you're a long time friend who's willing to put aside differences or have civil discussions)
Radqueers
Transphobia (includes any hatred towards neopronouns, xenopronouns, neolabels, xenogenders, gender identities that "don't make sense", or "contradictory gender identities")
Homophobia (includes any hatred towards sexual orientations that "don't make sense" and "contradictory sexual orientations")
Racism (includes any sort of holocaust denial/support, any sort of genocide denial/support, any harmful use of racial stereotypes, and any disrespect of closed-cultures and their beliefs/practices)

What constitues as interacting? Truthfully I cannot stop anyone from interacting me, as I rarely ever block people unless they really piss me off. However simply liking, commenting under, or reblogging/tweeting posts of mine doesn't count as big interaction I care about. I consider interaction activity that directly involves me, such as following me with the intent of being mutuals or friends, @ing me in posts, DMing me for longterm conversation, etc.. But regardless of how you interact with my accounts, please be aware that if you are on my DNI, We are not on equal understanding of things I find very important, and I'm not enthusiatic about our interactions.
This DNI doesn't always apply too depending on the platform of communication. DNIs mean nothing in a private Discord server where I chose who the community is going to be lol.

FUN STUFF

FICTIONAL TROPES I LIKE

  • Lightship/standard stuff
    • friends to lovers
    • childhood friends
    • coffee shop AU
    • bookstore/library AU
    • amnesia AU
    • fantasy AU
    • time loops
    • slowburn
    • fastburn
    • comfort and fluff <33
    • occasionally indulge in some Y/N and self-insert friendly fiction
  • Comship stuff
    • young man x older man
    • young woman x older woman
    • hero x villain (all might x stain frfr)
    • monster x human
    • boss x employee (its here bc possible power imbalance)
    • toxic yaoi/yuri (and i mean TOXIC)
    • enemies to lovers
    • lovers to enemies
    • maybe arranged marriage if its drama heavy and cold and they cheat on wach other 80% of the time
    • may also occasionally indulge in some filthy ABO (anyone fw beta x beta)
    • angst/hurt
    • WHUMP WHUMP WHUMP I FUCKING LOVEEEE WHUMP
    • unreliable narrators give me life
    • emotional dependence
    • emotional CO-dependence
  • Darkship stuff
    • noncon
    • grooming
    • emotional incest (i love exploring broken family dynamics so much)
    • Stockholm Syndrome
    • Lima Syndrome (opposite of stockholm)
    • trauma bonds
    • most forms of abuse are really fun for me to explore honestly
      • reminder all of this stuff only applies to adult x adult, once again I do NOT fuck with lolicon or children being harmed, not in fiction and ESPECIALLY outside.

FANDOMS/SHIPS I ENJOY

  • Spooky Month
    • Dexter x Bob
    • Dexter x Frank
    • Dexter x Richard x Carmen
    • Dexter x Kevin
    • Dexter x Radford
    • Dexter x Skiddad
    • Dexter x Moloch (can you tell who my favorite character is)
    • Lila x Jaune
    • Lila x Patty
    • Lila x Carmen
    • John x Jack
    • Radford x Robert (my friend got me into this, its a guilty pleasure my inner anti hates me for 😔)
    • hatzgang polycule + susie
    • Skiddad x Mayor Evermore (listen to the vision, just LISTEN)
  • My Hero Academia
    • Shoji x Tokoyami
    • Tokoyami x Shoji x Kota (fuck i love polycules)
    • Toga x Uraraka
    • Mina x Jirou
    • Jirou x Momo
    • Kamikiri x Bakugo (reread that it does NOT say kaminari i hate that mf)
    • Awase x Momo
    • Tsubaraba x Tsuyu
    • Honenuki x Shihai
    • Manga x Kamakiri
    • actually all of 1-B should be dating each other fuck you
    • Eraserhead x Present Mic (fun fact this was my first ever OTP i was crazy about this shit)
    • All Might x Stain
    • Shigaraki x Dabi
  • Steven Universe/Steven Universe Future
    • Blue Diamond x Yellow Diamond
    • Pearl x Volley (MEGA PEARL)
    • Pearl x Bismuth
    • Amethyst x Steven
    • Pearl x Pink Diamond (doomed yuri </33)
    • Peridot x Lapis Lazuli
  • Monster Prom
    • Liam x Vera
    • Liam x Damien
    • Liam x Moss Man
    • Liam x Dimitri (found family incest... save me...
    • Liam x Oz
    • Brian x Oz
    • Zoey x Liam
    • Miranda x Vera
    • Miranda x Polly
    • The coven is an open polycule because i said so

F/Os!!! (I'm sharing always!)

  • Dexter Erotoph (Spooky Month)
  • Brewster (Animal Crossing, New Horizons)
  • Liam De Lioncourt (Monster Prom)
  • Brian Yu (Monster Prom)

GENDER/LABEL HOARD!!!

hover over the flags for their meanings!
SEXUALITIES/SEXUAL LABELS
demisexual: A sexual orientation where people only experience sexual attraction after forming a strong emotional connection with someone. For me, it can me months, or even years to consider someone sexually attractive.‎ ‎ ‎ touch-me-not: A person who wishes to be solely dominant and dislikes being touched during sexual encounters. This is a term more commonly used in lesbian communities, however the term can be used by anyone who fits the title and this flag was made with the intent of being inclusive for all!‎ ‎ ‎ Bisexual Lesbian: A Bi-Lesbian is someone who identifies as both bisexual, biromantic, or otherwise bi- and a lesbian. Some use the term to convey they may feel one form of attraction to two or more genders and another form of attraction to women or non-men. Others may use lesbian in a historical context, the term used to apply to any non-man who was in a relationship with non-men. For me, I use lesbian in a historical context and I am capable of being attracted to all except for cisgender men!‎ ‎ ‎ Erofucked: Someone who consider themselves to be fucked up sexually, whether this be due to having weird kinks/fetishes, being an s/a survivor, having hypersexuality, being asexual, having complex feelings about sex, etc.. For me its literally all of these :VV

GENDERS / GENDER EXPRESSIONS
genderfluid: a gender identity where someone's gender identify may feel fluid, capable of fluctuating between multiple genders, whether it be male, female, masculinity, femininity, or other! For me, I'm never male or female, but I still fluctuate between femininity, masculinity, other non-binary identites, and some days I feel like I don't have a gender.‎ ‎ ‎ agender: A state of gender identity where one doesn't identify with any gender or rejects the concept of gender, or feels as though their gender is little to non-existence. For me, I both reject a lot of norms related to gender, and i genderfluidity allows me to occasionally find myself feeling agender!‎ ‎ ‎ varioformic: A transgender-adjacent umbrella term for those to physically alter their body (transition) in uncommon, partial, or otherwise non-standard ways in relation to gender identity.‎ ‎ ‎ Altersex is a catch-all adjective to describe primary and secondary physical sex characteristics or a combination of that do not align with typical arrangements. This term is not made with the intent of mimicking those who are born intersex and focuses on the internalized view of their desired altersex body or identity, rather than just individuals who "physically" have said altersex body, but intersex people are allowed to use the term if they feel as though they yearn for characteristics that fall into altersex category.‎ ‎ ‎ phantasex: A term for sex figurations that do not occur in real people or meatspace or bodies that can only exist in fantasy, and body plans that are not physically viable or possible. The term is meant to represent the fiction-based original aspect of altersex individuals who may identify with ideas like having alien-like/fantasy/mechanical reproductive organs instead of typical human reproductive organs
Lesboy: A gender-identity for lesbians who feel connected to being a boy or the experience of manhood in some way shape or form. For me, I am capable of experiencing lesbian attraction and it is my primary attraction, but I'm still genderfluid, and my experiences with masculinity and manhood are important as well!‎ ‎ ‎ Vulturegender: A xenogender relating to vultures and picking the scraps off of carcasses.‎ ‎ ‎ Techweargasmask: A term under the -gasmask gender system related to techwear and gas masks, techwear themed gas mask, gas masked techwear, etc.‎ ‎ ‎ GloomyBearic: A xenogender related to Gloomy Bear, It can be related to the aesthetic/vibes the character, animated series, or merchandise line gives!

DISABILITY PRIDE
ADHD: A pride flag made to represent ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder), a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by persistent patterns of inattention, hyperactivity, and/or impulsivity that interfere with daily functioning in multiple areas of life. I am diagnosed!‎ ‎ ‎ OCD: A pride flag made to represent OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), mental health disorder in which a person gets caught in a cycle of obsessions and compulsions. Obsessions are unwanted, intrusive thoughts, images, and/or urges that cause distress. Compulsions are repetitive, ritualistic behaviors or mental acts that those with OCD engage in to relieve anxiety caused by obsessions. I am diagnosed!‎ ‎ ‎ OCPD: A flag made to represent OCPD (Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder), a mental health disorder in which a person has an excessive obsession with rules, lists, schedules, and order; a need for perfection that interferes with efficiency and the ability to complete tasks, as well as interferes with interpersonal relationships. I am undiagnosed!‎ ‎ ‎ C-PTSD: Complex post-traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD, cPTSD, or hyphenated C-PTSD) is a stress-related mental disorder generally occurring in response to complex traumas (commonly prolonged or repetitive exposure to traumatic events. I am diagnosed!

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MY FRIENDS!
work in progress...

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Pub: 14 Jun 2025 20:25 UTC

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