zee's boundaries & yume list

zee. | she/her | 22+ | (always) tired infp virgo | bi, ace | fulltime ymj, part time artist, often time an irresponsible spender for my oshi's merch.

current status: in deep and too invested in fictional gay and queer hockey players aka Heated Rivalry and the actors.

for more detailed list about my oshi(s)/otp/notp lists click here


apologizing beforehand because it's quite a long list ahead.

contents and byf

this account contains

  • yume and fandom stuffs (obv), all in "friend only" albums you can hide/unfollow on your own.
    this include untagged spoilers, nsfw, and bl stuffs.
    some of my yume also contains explicit and sensitive topics, and dd:dne, tho i won't delve deeper/talking a lot about it here.
  • art comms related (pricelist, samples, etc).
    may contains your doubles as samples, hide/unfollow the album yourself.
  • shitposting and random share.
  • merch posting and oshikatsu with friends
    might include your doubles or someone you're not comfy with.
  • irl stuffs including face reveal (yes i overshared a lot idc).
  • rants, vents, cursing/harsh words, keyboard smashing.
  • sharing posts/talking about important issues happening in this shitty country.
  • hating and cursing current's govt esp that stupid fat delusional old fart with hero/saviour syndrome chosen by 58%.

byf

  • doutankyohi/no sharing both as yumeoshi or regular oshi for those mentioned in my main yume¹ (check on additional note below).
  • doutankyohi/no sharing leaning to very, very selective sharing strictly for yume purposes and selective/more lenient sharing as regular oshi (it'll depends on your characterization of them) for the romantic ones other than my main oshi(s)² (t&c may apply, check on additional note below).
  • selective/conditional sharing for the platonic ones.
  • i know a lot of fandoms but will be noisy only when talking about my current fandom, chara and yume hyperfixation.
  • i often post (in a separate album)/share BL content from manga/manhwa/movie/series (from a fanpage), other than that, most of my yume (other than with my OCsona) are BL.
  • not NSFW free, and sometimes will contain BL and/or yume talks/content that involve problematic or questionable troupe/k!nk/fet!sh. which, all are FICTIONAL ONLY. most of the time it's posted on the comment section.
  • i like seeing other people's yume but has vvv low social energy/battery, so mostly interacting through reacts.
  • that being said, i'm not the "i hype you, you hype me" type of person, which means i interact at will both for yume and general posts, because my social energy is very limited and usually on low mode due to real life and working on comms. don't add me if you're expecting me to always hype your content 24/7.
  • if i don't reply to your comment(s) or messages, esp if you see me interacted with other people before it, please don't take it personally. it's either my social energy/battery suddenly depleted to non-existent or is at its lowest, i forgot to reply because i got distracted, or there's no notif at all.

additional info

regarding oshi

  • i don’t and won’t label myself as riako since i have an irl partner and i also like more than one character. however, i never do yume (especially not for my main ones) just for fun. i take it very seriously, and i consider my feelings especially toward my kamioshi (Ashu Yuta) to be very real. i can’t differentiate between fiction and reality when it comes to my feelings for him, and i regard him as my beloved (one i share only with my ocsona, Hiroi) even in real life. (yes, my irl partner knows about this, and yes, he doesn’t mind. he even jokes about being his rival.)
  • my lovelang towards my oshi(s) is words of denials. you’ll see me saying things like jamet, jelek, annoying, i want to bonk them, etc. but all of that is said affectionately or because i’m lowkey flustered from looking at them. even so, i will never use genuinely rude or insulting curse words to refer to them unless they're being vvv annoying, but it's still being said (((affectionately))).
  • i often say things like, “ugh, (my oshi's name) oim,” or “i’m being gatekept by (my oshi’s name),” or other similar lines. they all refer to this running connotation that the universe supports my oshi loving me so much that they’re basically gatekeeping me (they are:p) and also fighting among themselves, lol.

regarding oc(s)/sona

  • HiroiWilde is essentially me, and i am her. about 95% of her traits, personality, likes, and dislikes are the same as mine, and some of her lore and trivia are directly based on myself. other parts that's not fictional are shaped by “what-if” scenarios or alternate outcomes that could have happened in my real life. even though she is essentially me on the inside, i still view and refer to her as my daughter, not as myself. because of that, i’m not comfortable being referred to as her, or her being referred to as me, unless i say so first.
  • all of my OC(s) are referred to as my children (most of them being my sons). each of them still carries fragments of me within them, but in much smaller pieces, allowing them to have their own distinct traits, personalities, and identities, separate from me and from HiroiWilde.
  • i identify myself as an ace (meaning I don’t experience sexual attraction if you don't know what that is), but i still create and enjoy NSFW content both from fandoms i’m into and from my yume. once again, even though HiroiWilde is me and i am her on the inside, i still view her as my daughter or as a separate being from myself. i see myself as an outsider or viewer of the content, even when HiroiWilde (as my ocsona) is involved (i think this falls under the term aegosexual).

dni and warning

dni

  • basic DNI criteria.
  • 02 voters/current gov's supporters.
  • zionist/neutral about isntreal genoc1de.
  • queerphobic/hating or making jokes on the LGBTQ+ community. i don't mind or care if you're neutral/not supporting it, but i won't tolerate any hateful words/comments/jokes towards it.
  • if you have any similar aspect(s) with my OC(s)/sona, like name, looks/visual, clothing pieces, etc.
  • seeing someone who has 'fidelity' list as selfish or a bad thing/person when they have their own reason to do that 🤷‍♀️. while i do have one, i will never ask others esp my friends to do the same nor limiting or forbid them to befriend anyone they want.
  • if you do yume in wind breaker using fem OC/sona and you put her in Furin as a female student (not disguised as a male). Furin is an all-boy school in the first place, so i don't want to see the canon worldbuilding being bent for the sake of yume on my timeline. i'm (not) sorry, it's just a personal preference 😬.
  • if you have a close friend who does yume with my main oshi(s) that you often do “double dates” or collaborate with, especially on projects/collab that visibly showcase my double’s yume (particularly art or other visual content). i will never limit or forbid who my friends can or can’t interact with or post in their own acc, and i’ve definitely already blocked my doubles first. however, if you post that kind of content on your own account, it will inevitably show up on my timeline and jumpscare me. so it’s best for all of us to stay in our own lanes and not cross paths at all.
  • karbit. you're someone who easily hoards and/or claims characters as oshi or for yume, especially if you immediately put them under 'no sharing' category without digging deeper into the source material. or in short, you put in no effort to actually get to know the character or the fandom and only claim or hoard them because of their looks.

warning

  • do not bring "karbit" jokes to my post(s), especially on my yume content(s), unless we're close friends and have inside jokes about it. i'm taking the yume matter very seriously by having done a lot of digging on the media and even dished out art(s) once i set my eyes and mind on a certain fandom/character(s). bringing "karbit" jokes to my post feels like you're mocking my time and efforts i've put in, and i take it very offensively.
  • DO. NOT. EVER. take any reference (that isn't a bandwagon/trend) from or project yourself or your yume onto my yumeship and/or oc/sona. while it's true that no idea is purely original, as everything is influenced or inspired by something or someone, i WILL NEVER allow my yumeship and/or oc/sona to be used as one, even if you ask.
  • that being said, do NOT trace or copy any aspects of my OC(s)/sona and/or yume such as their design, lore, and/or the ship's dynamics. i've spent a lot of time and resource(s) in creating them, so i take this matter very seriously and personally. be creative and don't be a cheap rip-off of someone else.
  • and also, do not ever fckin mentioning other ship name (cc x cc or other people's yume with the said cc) on my yume/oshi yapping post. i ain't gonna be nice by reminding you through pm anymore and won't hesitate to block you immediately. there's also a big fat chance that i'm gonna hate that ship and the other cc.

info

due to personal reason(s), i won't be accepting any more romantic yume (casual oshi/platonic without any lovemailing OK) with characters listed below:

  • bsd: Fyodor Dostoevsky
  • bnha: Todoroki Shoto
  • genshin: Wriothesley, Flins
  • haikyuu!!: Sawamura Daichi, Miya Osamu
  • hsr: Sampo Koski
  • sakadays: Asakura Shin
  • tokrev: Kazutora Hanemiya
  • windbre: Endo Yamato, Hiiragi Toma, Suo Hayato, Togame Jo, Umemiya Hajime
  • wuwa: Brant

additional note

regarding yume

  • ¹ i DO NOT and WILL NOT accept any friend request if you do yume or just oshi-ing characters mentioned in the main yume. for Yuuta, i don't mind if you're a THRIVER, or liking/praising the unit or the songs as whole (bcs i need friend in this lonely graveyard fandom </3), as long as there's no spesific lovemailing towards him. if i found out you're doing/going to yume with them be it publicly or secretly, i'll block you immediately, no matter how close we are.
  • ² i don't mind being mutuals even if we have the same yumeoshi/oshi, as long as it's not the same as my main ones. just kindly exclude me from your yume album that contains the same yumepair characters, or keep in mind that i will not interact with said yume content because I'll hide the post(s).
  • ² if i added you first when fully knowing that you do romantic/platonic yume with the character(s), it means that I'm okay sharing with you.
  • i’m not really the type who easily adds or makes new yume, or picks up new oshi (whether from a fandom i'm already in or from a completely new franchise) mostly because i’m too lazy to do so and my oim main oshi(s) already got me in a tight chokeholds. at most, i'll just think/say, “oh, they’re neat/pretty/handsome." that's all. no lovemailing or freaky/horny/gws posting. and for a character to be considered as my konomi, they’d have to check off a very long list of criteria and, on top of that, have the guts to “challenge” my oim main oshi(s) first, which is something that happens extremely rarely. so yeah, you don’t really need to worry about us suddenly having or sharing the same oshi (especially if you’re a non-sharing type) even when there's a new character that gets released or revealed.
  • outside of my yume list, my OC(s)/sona usually have platonic relationships with most (or even all) canon characters. these relationships can range from enemies, rivals, acquaintances, superior–subordinate dynamics, admired figures, friends, close friends, or familial roles such as mother/father/brother/sister figures. none of these should be interpreted as romantic unless i explicitly state otherwise. when i label a relationship as queerplatonic, it means they share a very deep bond that transcends typical platonic relationships, but it is still not considered romantic.

regarding breaking mutual

  • if you or your friend who might be wondering why you/they got muted/restricted/unfriended/blocked by me, it's likely due to one of the following reasons: you're a double, you're on my DNI list, you're closely associated with someone i dislike or have had issues with, you're someone problematic (whether i found out firsthand or through consistent testimonies from multiple people), or simply because i don't like you or i feel somewhat uncomfortable with you for a variety of reasons. which reason applies? i'll leave that up to your interpretation.
  • and yes, i don't and will not answer any question on why i muted/restricted/unfriended/blocked you even on private message. i already mentioned the possible reasons why i'm doing it above.
  • i'm a chill person in general, unless you did 'something' first to me or my friend(s).
  • do i care about what you think of me just because i muted/restricted/unfriended/blocked you? not really. this is my safe space, i set the boundaries here. don’t like it? that sounds like a you problem. go ahead, the exit door’s right over there. feel free to use it.
  • i'm intimidating? why yes thank you for noticing. i just recently embracing this part of me.

  • fandoms are sorted alphabetically
  • highlighted ones are my main oshi(s) and yume
fandom oshi oc/sona type yumepair note status
B-Project Ashuu Yuuta Hoshizora Hiroi HL; Romantic YuuRoi idol-the units' head costume designer, married in the future Active
BNHA Hawks/Takami Keigo Asterism/Hoshizora Hiroi HL; Romantic Hawksterism/KeiRoi - Dormant
Genshin Kaeya Alberich Wilde Artemia HL; Romantic KaeWil dancing around each other Dormant
Genshin Bennet Wilde Artemia HL; Platonic BenWil self-proclaimed adoptive siblings Inactive
Haikyuu!! Miya Atsumu Hoshizora Hiroi HL; Romantic TsumuRoi osananajimi; neighbors to lovers to exes to 2nd chance lovers to married in timeskip Semi-Active
Haikyuu!! Miya Osamu Hoshizora Hiroi HL; Queerplatonic SamuRoi osananajimi; neighbors, exes; fake/pretend dating and short term unrequited crush from Osamu in jhs, in-laws in timeskip Dormant
Haikyuu!! Sakusa Kiyoomi Hoshizora Hiro BL; Romantic OmiHiro mixed signals, hot and cold Dormant
Haikyuu!! Hinata Shoyo Arnav Belmira-Thiago BL; Romantic HinaAru - Dormant
Game Changer/Heated Rivalry Universe Ottawa Centaurs + Harris Drover Wilde Artemia/Hoshizora Hiroi HL; Platonics The Cens and Staffs the anxious socmed intern with her chaotic found family Active
Honkai Star Rail Dan Feng/Dan Heng Li Qiang/Wilde Artemia HL; Romantic FengQiang/DanWil reincarnation with happier route in current life Inactive
Honkai Star Rail Gepard Landau Helio Icarius BL; Romantic LioPard have a yumechild octp in ABO AU Dormant
MCU Bucky Barnes/Winter Soldier Wilde Artemia/The Huntress HL; Romantic BuckWild/Winter Huntress - Inactive
Sakamoto Days Nagumo Yoichi Hoshizora Hiroi HL; Romantic NaguRoi ragebaiter x ragebaited fwb who both catched feelings but do nothing about it Active
Wind Breaker Kiryu Mitsuki Hoshizora Hiroi HL; Romantic MitsuRoi slow burn, still testing waters Active
Wind Breaker Tsubakino Tasuku Hoshizora Hiroi HL; Queerplatonic TsubaRoi sister figures Active
Wind Breaker Tsubakino Tasuku Hoshizora Hiro BL; Romantic TsubaHiro - Active
Yumekuro Link Wilde HL; Romantic LinkWil - Inactive; unreleased

status explanation

  • active: ones that i still actively talking about, often got new contents (arts, etc) as well.
  • semi-active: rarely being talked about as of now, but still being mentioned or getting a new content from time to time.
  • dormant: even more rarely being talked about and/or being mentioned, though there's a chance that i'd randomly post their content out of nowhere.
  • inactive: almost never being mentioned, and most likely won't ever get a new content.

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Pub: 11 May 2023 09:30 UTC

Edit: 12 Mar 2026 16:13 UTC

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