Before you interact:
As seen on my main rentry page, I have low empathy. I probably won't pick up on certain social cues and I'll say things that sound extremely mean or targetted without actually meaning to hurt you or sound condescending.
I am very uncomfortable with the notion of shipping in general. Please don't talk to me about ships, whether I know them, ship them, or don't care about them: just please don't. There's some people I make exceptions for, mostly due to trust or a heavy agreement with their ships.
I have lowered personal boundaries when it comes to sharing info and I am very unaware of other people's informational boundaries. I may accidentally out you or tell someone about something I didn't understand was personal or private. Please be patient with me if you find out that happens.
This page does not get updated often. I am nuanced in many of my opinions. I understand that "proship" does not mean "problematic ship". Do not engage in discourse with me, including syscourse.
Please, Do Not Friend:
This is mainly for Ponytown players. I can, in no way, stop you from interacting with me, but this is a list of what I'd rather not be friends with.
Very sorry that this is long, I don't want to be too general as to make anyone scared that their label falls under something I didn't elaborate on. I do this because I get scared myself. Note that these don't apply for passing conversation.
My Typical DNF information:
- Bigots.
- Transphobic or intersexist.
- TransMed/Truscum.
- Anti AFAB Transfeminine/AMAB Transmasculine.
- Anti Xenogenders, Neopronouns, Neogenders, non-neutral NB genders.
- Anti Multigenders.
- Anti He/Him Women or lesbians / Anti She/Her Men or gays.
- "Tranny" without being trans in one way or another.
- Homophobic.
- Anti Mspec identities (i.e Pan Gay, Gaybian, Straightbian).
- "Fag" without being queer, "Dyke" without being lesbian,
- Radfems/TERF/TIRF.
- Racist.
- Sexism towards ANY gender.
- Transandrophobia and Transgynophobia/Transmisogyny deniers
- "TMA"/"TME" (Transmisogyny applicable / exempt)
- Transphobic or intersexist.
- Profic.
- Proship.
- Darkship.
- Ship & Let Ship.
- "Fiction does not affect reality".
- Proship.
- RadQueer.
- Cis/TransIDs, especially of disorders. Does NOT include transspecies.
- MUDs (Medically unrecognized disorders).
- "Pro contact" of harmful paraphilias.
- SysExclus.
- SysMedicalists.
- Anti Endogenic, Spiritual, or Created systems / Headmates.
- Considers Endos to be Traumagenics who "do not remember their trauma."
- Thinks Endos cannot have a CDD.
- Fakeclaimers of any sort.
- Generally weird towards plurals specifically.
- Anti Otherkin/Alterhuman/Introject
- "Introjects are always their source" / "-are never their source"
- Anti Factkin/Factfolk
- Anti non-human Humantype
- Disrespectful towards Fictionfolk.
- Parasocial towards Fictionfolk/Factfolk for their source/types.
- "Kinnie" (please don't call yourself or others that. I know it's cute, but it started with anti kin and is a play on "Tranny")
- "Kin For Fun / KFF" *
* Disclaimer, I am not mean to KFF. It's part of your identities too. Please just read a bit more on Otherkin & Hearttypes and decide if this is what you are.
- Ableist
- Misuses "Delusional", "Psychotic", "Psychopath", "Sociopath", "OCD", "Intrusive thoughts", "Narcissistic".
- Uses the R slur (idgaf what you have).
- Fonts/Typing quirks with no translation or plain text.
- Forgets that there are more neurodivergencies than Autism and ADHD.
(can you tell I'm chronically online and super woke)
Fandom DNF information: *
Vivziepop media,
Bungou Stray Dogs,
The Coffin of Andy and Leyley,
Yarichin Bitch Club,
Anyone unable to look at characters with nuance. (Looking at you, Demon slayer fandom.)