Before you interact:

As seen on my main rentry page, I have low empathy. I probably won't pick up on certain social cues and I'll say things that sound extremely mean or targetted without actually meaning to hurt you or sound condescending.
I am very uncomfortable with the notion of shipping in general. Please don't talk to me about ships, whether I know them, ship them, or don't care about them: just please don't. There's some people I make exceptions for, mostly due to trust or a heavy agreement with their ships.
I have lowered personal boundaries when it comes to sharing info and I am very unaware of other people's informational boundaries. I may accidentally out you or tell someone about something I didn't understand was personal or private. Please be patient with me if you find out that happens.

This page does not get updated often. I am nuanced in many of my opinions. I understand that "proship" does not mean "problematic ship". Do not engage in discourse with me, including syscourse.



Please, Do Not Friend:

This is mainly for Ponytown players. I can, in no way, stop you from interacting with me, but this is a list of what I'd rather not be friends with.

Very sorry that this is long, I don't want to be too general as to make anyone scared that their label falls under something I didn't elaborate on. I do this because I get scared myself. Note that these don't apply for passing conversation.

My Typical DNF information:
  • Bigots.
    • Transphobic or intersexist.
      • TransMed/Truscum.
      • Anti AFAB Transfeminine/AMAB Transmasculine.
      • Anti Xenogenders, Neopronouns, Neogenders, non-neutral NB genders.
      • Anti Multigenders.
      • Anti He/Him Women or lesbians / Anti She/Her Men or gays.
      • "Tranny" without being trans in one way or another.
    • Homophobic.
      • Anti Mspec identities (i.e Pan Gay, Gaybian, Straightbian).
      • "Fag" without being queer, "Dyke" without being lesbian,
    • Radfems/TERF/TIRF.
    • Racist.
    • Sexism towards ANY gender.
      • Transandrophobia and Transgynophobia/Transmisogyny deniers
      • "TMA"/"TME" (Transmisogyny applicable / exempt)
  • Profic.
    • Proship.
      • Darkship.
    • Ship & Let Ship.
    • "Fiction does not affect reality".
  • RadQueer.
    • Cis/TransIDs, especially of disorders. Does NOT include transspecies.
    • MUDs (Medically unrecognized disorders).
    • "Pro contact" of harmful paraphilias.
  • SysExclus.
    • SysMedicalists.
    • Anti Endogenic, Spiritual, or Created systems / Headmates.
      • Considers Endos to be Traumagenics who "do not remember their trauma."
      • Thinks Endos cannot have a CDD.
    • Fakeclaimers of any sort.
    • Generally weird towards plurals specifically.
  • Anti Otherkin/Alterhuman/Introject
    • "Introjects are always their source" / "-are never their source"
    • Anti Factkin/Factfolk
    • Anti non-human Humantype
    • Disrespectful towards Fictionfolk.
    • Parasocial towards Fictionfolk/Factfolk for their source/types.
    • "Kinnie" (please don't call yourself or others that. I know it's cute, but it started with anti kin and is a play on "Tranny")
      • "Kin For Fun / KFF" *

* Disclaimer, I am not mean to KFF. It's part of your identities too. Please just read a bit more on Otherkin & Hearttypes and decide if this is what you are.

  • Ableist
    • Misuses "Delusional", "Psychotic", "Psychopath", "Sociopath", "OCD", "Intrusive thoughts", "Narcissistic".
    • Uses the R slur (idgaf what you have).
    • Fonts/Typing quirks with no translation or plain text.
    • Forgets that there are more neurodivergencies than Autism and ADHD.

(can you tell I'm chronically online and super woke)

Fandom DNF information: *

Vivziepop media,
Bungou Stray Dogs,
The Coffin of Andy and Leyley,
Yarichin Bitch Club,
Anyone unable to look at characters with nuance. (Looking at you, Demon slayer fandom.)

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