Before you interact:

We have low empathy. we probably won't pick up on certain social cues and we'll say things that sound extremely mean or targetted without actually meaning to hurt you or sound condescending.
We are very uncomfortable with shipping. Please don't talk to us about ships, whether we know them, ship them, or don't care about them: just please don't. There's some people we make exceptions for, mostly due to trust or a heavy agreement with them.
We have lowered personal boundaries when it comes to sharing info and we can be unaware of other people's boundaries. We may accidentally out you or tell someone about something we didn't understand was personal or private. Please be patient with us if that happens.

This page does not get updated often. None of these are triggers. We are nuanced in many opinions. We understand that "proship" does not mean "problematic ship". Do not engage in discourse with us, especially syscourse.

Please, Do Not Friend:

This is mainly for Ponytown players. We can, in no way, stop you from interacting with us, but this is a list of what we'd rather not be friends with.

Very sorry that this is long, we don't want to be too general as to make anyone scared that their label falls under something we didn't elaborate on. We do this because we get scared ourselves. Note that these don't apply for passing conversation.

Our ‎ ‎ DNF information:
  • Bigots.
    • Transphobic or intersexist.
      • TransMed/Truscum.
      • Anti AFAB Transfeminine/AMAB Transmasculine.
      • Anti Xenogenders, Neopronouns, Neogenders, non-neutral NB genders.
      • Anti Multigenders.
      • Anti He/Him Women or lesbians / Anti She/Her Men or gays.
      • "Tranny" without being trans in one way or another.
      • H-slur (which I shouldn't write down) without being intersex.
    • Homophobic.
      • Anti Mspec identities (i.e Pan Gay, Gaybian, Straightbian).
      • "Fag" without being queer, "Dyke" without being lesbian,
    • Radfems/TERF/TIRF.
    • Racist.
    • Sexism towards ANY gender.
      • Transandrophobia and Transgynophobia/Transmisogyny deniers
      • "TMA"/"TME" (Transmisogyny applicable / exempt)

You are darkness! Flowers only wilt in a world without light!!

  • Profic.
    • Proship.
      • Darkship.
    • Ship & Let Ship.
    • "Fiction does not affect reality".
    • Lolicon, Shotacon, etc.
  • RadQueer.
    • Cis/TransIDs, especially of disorders. Does NOT include transspecies.
    • (on thinnest ice possible) MUDs (Medically unrecognized disorders).
    • "Pro contact" of paraphilias.
  • SysExclus.
    • SysMedicalists.
    • Anti Endogenic, Spiritual, or Created plurals or systems & Headmates.
      • Considers all Endos to either be Traumagenics who "do not remember their trauma" or faking.
      • Thinks Endos cannot have a CDD.
    • Fakeclaimers of any sort.
    • Generally weird towards plurals specifically. (See this link for examples)
  • Anti Otherkin/Alterhuman/Introject
    • "Introjects are always their source" / "-are never their source"
    • Anti Factkin/Factfolk
    • Anti non-human Humantype
    • Disrespectful towards Fictionfolk. (See this link for examples)
    • Parasocial towards Fictionfolk/Factfolk for their source/types.
    • "Kinnie" (please don't call yourself or others that. I know it's cute, but it started with anti kin and is a play on "Tranny")
      • "Kin For Fun / KFF" *

* Disclaimer, we are not mean to KFF. It's part of your identities too. Please just read a bit more on Otherkin, Hearttypes & Synpaths.

  • Ableist
    • Misuses "Delusional", "Psychotic", "Psychopath", "Sociopath", "OCD", "Intrusive thoughts", "Narcissistic".
    • Uses the R slur (idgaf what you have).
    • Fonts/Typing quirks with no translation or plain text.
    • Ignores or demonizes neurodivergences that aren't Autism or ADHD.

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(can you tell we're chronically online and like... woke... or something.)

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(anyways, we made it super long because we suck at communication. there's things here we're lenient with ((for example, kff, respectful anti-endos or anti-mspec identities...)) but most of these are hard boundaries.)

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Pub: 12 Jan 2025 06:44 UTC

Edit: 14 Jan 2026 14:43 UTC

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