OVERVIEW
This list serves as the Anomaly Eight System's DNI and BYI, as well as an explanation on our stances and a quick guide to some quirks we have in conversation. We publicise this to make it abundantly clear who we are and are not comfortable talking to, and so that others can decide if we happen to be someone they would like to try talking to . We do not debate our beliefs. We aren't afraid to block people either.
Please just be respectful.
DNI
Do Not Interact
- Basic DNI
Racists, Xenophobes, Sinophobes, Islamophobes, Ethnocentrists, Antisemetic, Neonazi, MAGA Republicans, Pro-Trump, Pro-Billionaire, Pro-ICE, Pro-Blue Lives Matter/All Lives Matter movements to overshadow others, Anti-Black Lives Matter, Pro-Isreal, Anti-Palestine, Pro-Genocide, Zionist, AI Users/Supporters, Shouta/Lolis, NSFW/18+ Agere or Petre, MAPs, Proship, Comship, Darkship, Anti-Anti, Pro-Contact Paraphiles, “The Big Three” Paraphiles (Zoo, Necro, and Pedo), Incels, Misogynists, Pro-Life/Anti-Choice, TERFs (Trans-Exclusionist Radical Feminists), Radfems, Homophobes, Transphobes, Truscum, Transmedicalists, Anti-Nonbinary Identities, Ableists, Anti-AAC, Anti-Self Diagnosis, Fakeclaimers, “r/SystemCringe”, Pro-Harrassment, Doxxers, TCC, ED or SHtwt, Anti-Recovery, etc. etc. etc…. This list is non-exhaustive. Please use common sense. - Slur Users who can't reclaim them
Being straight and using the F slur, being neurotypical and using the R slur, being non-black and using the N word, etc. None of these are acceptable. - Queer Exclusionists
Anti-Neopronouns/genders, Anti-Xenopronouns/genders, Anti-Contradictory Labels (Lesboys, Transman Lesbians, Turigirls, etc….), “LGB without the T”, etc. etc. etc….** - Non-Traumagenic and “Willed” Systems
Willogenics, Endogenics, “Tulpamancers”, "Non-Medical" OSDD/DID/P-DID/System, etc. etc. etc…. Any "system" that claims to have formed (as a whole, not including specific alters) due to situations that are not traumatic in nature to a child. Also any system that claims to have formed fully in adulthood, especially in cases in which this system seemingly forms suddenly with no reason it could have formed previously. - Romanticisers, Infantalisers, or Demonisers of Mental Health
NPD or “Narc” abuse believers, sums down those with mental health issues to their symptoms, assumes all things about those with mental health are their symptoms. “That’s so autistic of you!!”, “I’m so OCD”, etc. etc. etc…. Also includes memes or jokes with mental health involved. “Touch of the ‘tism”, "Delulu", etc….** - Non-Informed Self Diagnosers
Self Diagnosis should take months, tracking symptoms consistently for at least a year and fitting into medically accepted diagnosis requirements. Non-informed self diagnosis looks like identifying a single defining symptom and claiming a disorder, not reading medical documentations such as papers about symptoms or case files, glorifying some information while brushing over others in order to make them seem “more” fitting of the disorder, etc. etc. etc…. Also looks like never interacting with those who do have the disorder in order to learn, as well as those who claim that all their faults and issues sprout from that diagnosis without being fully sure of them having it or without the proper knowledge to say as such accurately. - Harmful Radqueers
Transabled, Transrace, Transharmed, Transharmful, etc. etc. etc.... These identities invalidate others who genuinely struggle with those issues. - Religious Supremists
"My religion says I can't support (any marginalized identity (etc. LGBTQIA+ identities, trans folk, etc...)", being disrespectful of other religions, forcing beliefs onto others, "Love the sinner, not the sin" in the context of queer or marginalized identities, etc. etc. etc....** - Misandrists
"Men can't be victims", "All men are evil", generally believing that men are the root of evil or can't suffer under patriarchy. - Yumeshippers of our Fictives' Sources
While not an issue for all alters, the few fictives that are uncomfortable with interacting with yumes are very uncomfortable with it. We ask for our personal comfort that you either not discuss that aspect of yourself with us, or that you don't interact with us at all. This is specifically true in romantic yumeships, platonic ones aren't an issue. Familial yumes are a dicey topic but also free to interact. - Non-Sharing Yumeshippers
Yumeshippers in general are an uncomfortable topic for us. We believe that nonsharing yumeshippers specifically add another level of discomfort and supposed delusion to that to a point where we are extremely hesitant to talk to them. - 18+/NSFW People, Blogs, or anything of the like.
We are a MINOR. This should be common sense. We do not interact with content like this, so please don't interact with us! - Adults outside of our Age Range.
We, again, are 16. Please do not interact with us if you're not nineteen or under!* - Pre-teens, or really anyone under the age of 14.
If you are in middle school, we really don't want anything to do with you ^^' The same is true for freshmen in high school.
THIN ICE
- Non-MAGA Republicans
We personally don't agree with many conservative views at all, but we believe wholly in giving most people a chance. As long as people aren't actively disrespecting of any marginalized groups, we're willing to talk. - "Non-Harmful" Radqueers
Transspecies, Transaesthetic, anything that doesn't claim to be a marginalised community to appropriate it for assumed aesthetic or social credit. Includes people who use non-harmful radqueer identities while not being a part of the community. While we will never judge anyone for any label they use so long as it's not harmful, the ice is ESPECIALLY thin here. - Yumeshippers
While we try to be accepting, we just wholeheartedly believe that quite a few cases of yumeshipping buy into delusional beliefs, and while we are accepting of the concept, we in general prefer to distance ourselves from these communities. - Endo Neutral Traumagenic Systems
We believe that the topic of endogenics is an important one to discuss, howeverm, we also realize that not all systems are able to interact with the discourse for their own mental health and respect that, but ask that they don't bring up the topic either if it's an issue on their part. - People who Avoid Politics
While perfectly okay with those who avoid politics due to the mental strain of certain topics, we fully believe that everyone should be at least minimally informed in what is going on around them.
BYI
Before You Interact
WE ARE AFFECTED BY:
- (Hc-)DID
We will switch, we will forget things, and we will have large changes in personality. This is more frustrating for us than it is you, and thus we ask that you please deal with it as we are as well. You are almost always able to request other fronters if it's an issue, and it's never long before someone else is in control. - Cluster-B
We have NPD, BPD, and have symptoms of ASPD. As such, we will act like it. There will be times where we come off as selfish without purposefully meaning to, there will be times where we'll take offense to certain things being compared, there will be times where we have major issues on our end that might not make sense to other people. Please remember who you're talking to. If you aren't prepared to talk to someone because of their diagnosis, then you shouldn't make it their problem by handling their symptoms horribly. You don't have to talk to us at all, please at that point just walk away, since it's obvious you aren't the kind of person who we would enjoy talking to regardless. - Avoidant-Anxious
We're not really ever looking for new close friends, and if it happens we might have struggles to maintain that friendship. However, we still love meeting people, and adore knowing people outside of our pack (primary circle), even if it isn't a very close bond. We expect people to be up-front with us about needs and wants, and are happy to compromise if it would help anything! - No Empathy
We feel some levels of sympathy and compassion depending on the situation, but cannot feel empathy for anyone except our Favorite Person. We instead tend to compare situations that we have been in to try and piece out how someone might be feeling, in order to at least attempt to understand what others emotions are like. If we seem insensitive about a situation, there's a good chance we quite literally do not understand the struggles you're going through. That isn't something to blame us for, if that's the case then you should most likely abstain from interacting with us or choose to distance yourself until we're both in a place where we would benefit from communication again. - Paranoia && Anxiety
There are some days where this will get bad enough that we have delusions, especially of being watched or not being alone. Please be patient. We won't ever make it anyone's problem if they do not want to, but there are situations where we won't realize it and might say something unnerving at first. This is especially true also because we are suspected to have OCD. - Distractability
Aside from general brain fog, we have ADHD and also have issues with focusing when not motivated, which is hard especially in times when we're hyperfixated on something. If you need something from us, please remind us so that we can get it done if it seems we've forgot about it. There's a good possibility we have. - Sounding Blunt
We will tell people up front if we have an issue, and don't believe in hiding things like that. We expect real change when it's promised and will remind others if it's not. We don't sugarcoat it if we don't like someone either, and are not afraid to step in for a quick correction if someone messes up. - Being Prone to Coming off Mean
We don't mean to, but have been told that we have a resting mean tone along with a resting mean face, and our lack of social cues tends to.... emphasise that. As such, and going with the point above, we make it a point to make it clear that unless we tell you we're upset, we are most likely not.
WE BELIEVE IN:
- Alterhuman Acceptance
- Queer Rights
- Land Back Movement
- Major Reforms and Abolishment of MULTIPLE political and corporate structures
- 141/Anti Deforestation Action
- Protests, even nonconventional ones.
- Accepting "Cringe" people
- Total Equality
- Free Nessecities (Housing, medical, food, hygiene, etc...) for all
- Equal Medical research for all races and genders
- Fiction affecting reality
- ALL Deserve respect
- Animals are Intellegent and Deserve more than Minimum Care
- AI is stealing and ruining the environment
- All Cops are Bastards by remaining in the system that harms others.
- Power to the People
- Harm Reduction over All
ELABORATION
Explination of Beliefs Above
Are there any other groups on your DNI that aren't mentioned?
As stated multiple times, yes. We ask that when elaborating on our list, people use common sense.
Why do you have Misandrists listed on your DNI? Is that not misogynistic?
If feminism requires men to be pushed down and discriminated against, then that is harmful and not an idea that we agree with. We, as someone who largely identifies as a man, will not talk to people who talk down on men, ESPECIALLY if that hate is only applied to cisgender men, because we then believe also that you're indirectly being transphobic to trans men by not viewing them as equal. We do not talk to anyone hateful, regardless of whatever group that hate is directed towards. All that comes from misandry is further seperation of genders, and an environment that pushes men into spaces that turn them into misandrists. It's a well-known fact that masc-presenting people are forced out of certain areas that we tend to inhabit, especially cisgendered straight men. If you're one of them, please kindly leave us alone and realise you've only become the thing you hate.
What do you mean by saying Fiction affects Reality?
We believe that the fiction that one consumes can say a lot about their moral values. While reading fiction that portrays negative topics such as those glorified in Com, Dark, and Proship communities is important, it is also important that your reaction to that information is also important. If someone only interacts with contact that glorifies and romanticises problematic topics while not being critical of them at all is harmful and will eventually warp their worldview. We believe that while people have the capability of interacting with harmful content with this warping not being an issue, if you're personally taking offense to this point in particular, you're probably the person this is about ^^
What do you mean when calling Yumeshipper culture delusional?
Yumeshipping is an evolution of Oshii culture, also called selfshipping, but the prime difference is the belief that the love is reciprocated, even externally in the world where those characters are fictional. This is a denial of reality in favor of a not-accurate truth (the thought a fictional character can reciprocate romantic feelings) which falls, in our mind, under the idea of a delusion. We interact freely with people who do it for fun, but will not support delusion and want to make it clear that we view the insistance on that love and appreciation being "canon" or accepted strange, and will not lie to others to placate them in a belief that just isn't true. In general, most of the community that we've seen has been uncomfortable, pushy, rude, immature, and overall disheartening.
Can you elaborate on your views on Radqueers?
We would like to make one thing EXTREMELY clear: we do not support the radqueer community nor ANY people who heavily associate with it, and while we can admit it's most likely an extremely mentally ill space, we still believe everyone in there should be correctly critisized for their actions. HOWEVER, we can also admit that it's a source of SO many diverse identities, and as such has produced quite a few NON-problematic terms as well. For the complete sake of clarity: We are Radqueer-negative, and use a case-by-case basis on who we do or do not talk to in this situation, but use the labels themselves as the deciding factor instead of the source they originate from. If someone uses a radqueer transspecies term, we do not think that warrants a DNI mention. But transabled, race, or any of the other plethora of topics that are harmful to others are NOT okay to us and we WILL block if we see you interact or support those terms.
This is essentially an FAQ of the beliefs above. This will grow as we continue to be asked questions.
Other Things to Be Aware of:
- Don't apologize to us without being prompted to.
It's a personal pet peeve of ours. We hate being apologized to and view it as you deprecating yourself if it's not needed. We have and probably will again cut someone off because they won't stop apologizing. It makes us uncomfortable, puts everyone in an awkward place, and 9 times out of 10 isn't needed. If there's a conversation that you'll need to apologize in, we'll have it behind closed doors and make it clear that either a boundary has been crossed or that we've been hurt. If not, please just don't. - In the same vein, please don't overexplain yourself if we correct you.
It's for a similar reason as above. We're not your higher up, we're not your boss at work, and unless it's a formal conversation it's most likely not appreciated. If you've been told to stop something or to not, it's because we're very quickly drawing a line in the sand on what we will and will not tolerate. We have a tendency to, in that headspace, take any explinations as you continuing to stay over that line for longer than nessecary. We also struggle with and don't appreciate important talks, and take explinations as a part of heavy conversations. Overall, we will make it CLEAR if an explination is needed, namely because we will ask you directly. Otherwise, acknowledge it with an "Alright" or something similar and move on. - We will not comfort people if we don't want to. Do not expect faux sympathy.
We are not able to pretend to care about most people's issues. We will not placate you by acting as if we care, we will not make you feel better with fake words of affirmation, and we expect as someone who is reading this to understand that it should be a comfort that we aren't putting on a fake face to appease you. - You should NOT be using us as a place to vent. Leave us out of your issues, we have enough.
Unless you're Pack, you need to ASK before mentioning triggering topics. This is ESPECIALLY true if you know our Simply Plural hasn't been updated or you don't know exactly who is in front. We're relatively good at masking, but there are days where frustrating or upsetting topics can lead to full episodes, which is always the last thing we want. It's important to realize that you are talking to someone outside of the norm at all times, and even if we'll attempt to pass as "normal" or nontraumatised, we ARE, and we will ALWAYS have days where topics (especially common sense no mentions such as animal cruelty, parental mistreatment, illness, death, or anything similar) will hurt us. We are not in the wrong for not talking to you if you decide to vent unprompted, and we also are not in the wrong if we confront you about it. - We are Alterhuman (and generally neurodivergent as well) and it will affect the way we speak to others.
This Document was written by an Admin with input from a Host and covers general system rules. Specifications vary alter-by-alter.