
hello my names vivian and i wanted to give a more in depth explanation on what "anti harassment shipper" means in the context that i use it
basically its. just as the name says. i dont condone harassing anyone (yes this includes adults who darkship) over what they ship. i believe harassment is way too normalized and watered down nowadays, its fucked up to harass someone regardless of their actions. i am not pro-fic, i am a firm believer that yes, fiction can impact reality very heavily as its been proven to me myself and through various other ways. i believe darkshipping can be helpful to certian indivuals. and before you come at me with your victim complex telling me "oh but it didnt help me!", you do realize not everyone will cope the same as you, correct? everyones trauma is different, through minor things or darastic things. and even if someone went through the exact same trauma as you, they are not you, therefore different things will help them cope. you cannot say "oh well if it didnt work for me it means every victim will have the exact same reaction as me!" because first off, you do not know every single victim of sa/rape, and two thats just. not how logic works. everyone copes with things differently, no one is gonna cope the exact same way you do. we are all different in our own ways, instead of death threating, rape threating and telling traumatized teens, kids, adults etc to "get help" or anything akin, why not leave them be?? i do believe yes, if you are gonna post it then you should put a warning as again, fiction can impact reality. but nonetheless i am against posting darkship content unless its on an account specifically stating the content that viewers will be getting into, because beyond that point theres nothing else you can do, if said viewers know that content is a trigger or find it upsetting, how is it their fault if you are actively waving big red flag saying "hey im posting this and that if you dont like it please block me"?? if you wanna call me a proshipper then go ahead im not against the term i just dont use it because of the backlash it would get me but its not like im gonna hunt you down and slaughter you if you refer to me as a proshipper. im willing to answer questions on my views on this topic via my strawpages, however if you're just gonna be ignorant and say im a pedophile (?? which isnt possible im a child, pedophilia is adults attracted to kids, and last i checked 16 is not an adult LOL) i will ignore you.