anusha, chaitanya, or others. 21 (july 3), any prns, taken, repulsed asexual arospec genderfluid lesbian. full time uni student, mixed nepalese & bhutanese, practicing tibetan buddhist ⠀ ⠀ ⠀.✦ ݁˖
diagnosed system but please refer to me as a singular person. i have autism, bpd, ocd, & other illnesses that affect the way i behave & interact, please be mindful and give me grace when needed. i switch between nepali & english frequently, you can ask for translations but my willingness to give them depends on how lazy i am.
i have a really bad memory due to my disorders, please be patient with me! i also have a really bad stutter and often get upset at myself if i stutter too much, once again please be patient with me.
i'm not great at dms. i'm a full time uni student, president of and in several clubs, and i work 24/32 hours weekly so i often don't have the energy to reply or just don't want to. if you spam me because i didn't reply to your dm i'm just gonna block you, i don't mind spam messaging me if you're talking about smth but don't spam me with "why aren't you answering" or some shit.
you can bump your dms because sometimes i open a dm and forget to reply. i'm in the us eastern time zone, keep that in mind when expecting replies. also my discord always says i'm online/on dnd but most times i'm away from my computer or busy with school. don't rely on that.
i don't care for online discourse or drama, let me state again: i am twenty one. i'm a grown man, i'm far too grown to care about what randos online are arguing about. don't drag me into any kind of drama / discourse i sincerely don't give a fart.
i have low empathy and am not the person you would want to vent to, i offer more solutions than i do comfort. this does not mean i can't be empathetic though, it just means i put in a more active effort into doing so.
my interests can be found here, kins here, hoard here, main here, directory here, amd boundaries here