BYF/EXTRA INFO

-if you ask me to call i will most likely say no, either i genuinely cant or its because of my social issues. its not that i dont like you or that i necessarily dont want to call, its because i struggle to say things in vc, if you dont talk about things then it will just be awkward and quiet, most likely occasionally broken up by a meow here and there, and im usually only comfortable vcing with a certain one or two people by themselves (if you say you dont mind any of this when we vc, i do mind so please if i reject your calls every time maybe dont ask that much)/nm/nbr/ndir

-do NOT ask me for pics of myself... esp if we just met

-please dont make fun of my interests

-please dont dm me and say youre bored.... IT REALLY PEEVES ME LIKE SO BAD. if you want to do something just say it or ask to do smth

-please dont talk to me about your sh if we js met.. if u need to vent just ask but its still kinda weird that u would tell me allat if we've known each other for a day

-you can be a dick to me if we r close but after a while theres a certain point where it will get to be too much and i will probably make it evident that i dont find it funny anymore

-tone tags are appreciated but not required most of the time

-please try not to be dry with me, it js makes me not wanna talk to u and makes me feel gross. when you use caps in a positive way and match my mood it makes me happy ^^

-im rly bad w talking and stuff esp w my voice so im sorry if we call and im awkward and dont talk much, + it would make me rly happy if u tried to include me into convos in any way!!

-im sorry if i say meow a lot, its a response for anything mainly when im not sure what to say. its also super fun and makes me feel comfortable

-joking about my problems/trauma is how i cope, just because i joke about my issues doesnt mean its okay for you to also joke about MY issues unless given permission

-im very open about most things with people i am close with/trust (might overshare)

-i have inferiority complex? basically i feel like most if not all people are better than me in all kinds of ways for whatever reason + i get jealous pretty easily (ex 1. when i introduce you to a game im good at and you begin to get better at it than me. ex 2. when i play a game and you talk about something you got in that game that i really like that i dont have. it will make me upset so please be wary and if you think it would make me upset or i start being dry just kindly stop talking about it pls)

-i have slight/small trust issues, with links and stuff like that especially if we're not friends

-please do NOT call me fat or make fat jokes directed towards me unless we are close

-i sometimes use an unironic typing quirk (only with certain friends)

-please try not to ignore stuff i say, esp if its about myself, something i rly like, in dms/when im talking specifically to you, etc. it makes me v upset and makes me feel like u dont care. i dont say stuff for the hell of it, i say stuff because i want to tell someone and have them talk to me about it and stuff (even if u dont care pls at least try and act like u do) + i barely talk about myself to anyone by themself (BECAUSE OF THE FEAR OF BEING IGNORED), so if i do start opening up about myself and things i enjoy it means im comfortable around you and/or youre special to me

-PLEASE DO NOT SERIOUSLY CALL ME BERRY UNLESS WE MET WHEN THAT WAS MY NAME

-i make kms and kys jokes, please tell me if you are uncomfy with me making these jokes to/around you

-i do say slurs that i can reclaim, such as the f slur, so once again please tell me if you are uncomfy with me saying slurs around you