hi this is just a shitty extended im making at 2am soo ya
for starters hi hello im velvian, bene, valentine or whatever name you call me
i use any pronouns/terms as long as they arent masculine
im a quioromantic polyamorous trans-woman (full list of my flags here)
im a fictionkin, splitroject and copinglink
i identify myself as benevolent_day tho
(my list of kins, clinks and sources can be found here)
my personality type is entp-t 5w6
im diagonsed with udd c-ptsd asd and dyslexia
im extremely blunt sometimes and it can come off rude so sorry in advance
i dont handle it well when people flirt with me, even if its jokingly
i dont use tonetags and dont prefer people using them with me
i have my moments where i can be extremely mentally unstable, if i am i most likely will be auto piloting everything because im already as is drove by anxiety so keep that in mind and give me my space
alongside i have an anxiety disorder (selective mutism) so i dont enjoy talking to people outside my comfort zone so please know if i randomly go silent, its because im having such extreme anxiety and distress in a situation that i cannot speak
i am not very open to making new friends so if you wanna be friends just know that i am most likely scared of you
i have problems with sleeping so some days i cant sleep at all some days i over sleep, i have cfs and insomnia so im going through it LMFAO feel free to shoot me a message and as soon as i see it i'll reply
i wear all my beliefs on my sleeve, if you dont agree with them dont make a fuss over it i dont think its a lot to ask
i dont disclose my age anymore and if u know my age dont out me please thank you
i dont have much of a dni just dont be a degen and for the sake of my sanity dont use a typing quirk with me
i current have a husband who i love ever so dearly he is my fated soulmate and im not actively intrested in dating anyone else sorry in advance (not really)
im very hyperfixated on the days union and i talk about it 90% of the time (pls ask me abt tdu pls)
(i do have other intrests tho that can be found here)
people associate me with a lot of things and if u care the full list is here
ummm i guess thats rly all the more u get to know me the more u'll be told so ya