i want to preface this by saying i have read svsss fully!

reasons why bingqiu is nasty but not very in depth because i dont have the energy to give every single plot point about how it's bad but we'll just start with the obvious stuff:

shen yuan literally watched binghe grow up - you can probably attack this and say that during the time binghe was learning demonic arts shen yuan was not watching over him, however, it cannot be ignored that shen yuan literally watched him grow up from a young age, and binghe knows that he was practically raised by shen yuan after his mother died (i believe binghe joined the sect at age 7 but i could be wrong)

the relationship itself is toxic - while they do settle their past together in the books, that doesn't mean the ship is still not toxic because of it. those things still happened. just because shen yuan apologised for how he treated binghe does not mean he should be dating him! (the way he says he treats binghe physically abusively so he grows strong is also literally an emotionally abusive and manipulative tactic btw way to go shen yuan! /sarc)

their relationship resembles more of that of an abusive father and his son - the way mxtx wrote their dynamic honestly just seems more like that of a father putting his son through immense abuse and wanting to atone for his sins when he realises he's no longer dead

again this isnt very long obviously but i just wanted to bring it to all danmei enjoyers' attention that shipping bingqiu does, in fact, mean you are a proshipper! (proship - being pro shipping, even if the ship includes problematic themes such as toxic relationships, incest, abuse, pedo, loli, shota, etc. )

also take these so you know i'm not alone in knowing it's toxic and just starting a witch-hunt for bingqiu shippers lol if u ship it u disgust me and kindly block me but not before reading them please ;)

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Pub: 14 Apr 2024 06:17 UTC
Edit: 14 Apr 2024 06:41 UTC
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