hai this is here for ppl who like rlly wanna know how to int with me and keep things in mind u arent like. forced to read thru this yap its purely for those who wanna ENSURE my comfort lol
- im a sensitive person due to the inability to regulate emotions, please do not intentionally try to fuck with my emotions
- i break down like a lot, if im ever upset in vc ill probably go quiet and via text say that im breaking down and thay im leaving. the least u can do for me is to try to be empathetic, ill either push u away or seek u out for comfort it rlly depends on 50/50 chance
- do not pressure me to talk to u if i am stressed oh my god u will just make me angry
- i tend to get really upset after hurting or making someone uncomfortable do not take this as "oh its ur fault u set a boundary" no i just fucking hate being bad to others its one of my biggest fears. just reassure me and leave me alone my mood will get better within an hour or so
- PLEASE reassure me if i ask if u wont leave me i have the worst fear of abandonment
- DO NOT and i seriously mean DO NOT go behind my back to shit talk about me if i did something wrong. id like to be dmed and gently hold accountable for my actions
- u probably noticed me saying that u should be gentle abt everything which yeah, i panic really badly if i notice someone is extremely upset with me
- a lot of my behavior is caused by my disorders (unable to get medication and actively trying to seek out therapy) keep in mind that despite how awful everything is, i am still trying my hardest to be a good person
- usually headmates arent around or are at the very least co conscious. im front stuck atm and DONT. REALLY?? KNOW WHAT TO DO??? HELP WHERE IS EVERYONE
- speaking of if i do ever get out of this hell please treat my headmates with respect
- i jokingly bully my friends just be clear abt ur boundaries and tell me when to stop cuz im an obnoxious piece of shit lol