⠀i love my wife so very much don't genuinely flirt with me if you're not her⠀ i'm a leftist but don't⠀/⠀can't heavily get involved in politics⠀i'm alternative but i don't label my style⠀ i prefer it/its but i don't mind he/she just don't use they/them on me⠀i'm an intp-t and a gemini if that stuff matters to you⠀i am white and only speak english, i can pick up basics from some other languages but nothing major⠀i block freely but basic dni please dni⠀ i reclaim slurs and use them as labels, let me know if you're not comfortable with me reclaiming them in other situations but i will not stop using them as labels⠀i don't like participating in online discorse over anything but i will on rare occasion⠀i'm sort of one of those man hating lesbians (not really i just get annoyed by them SUPER easy) AND i am scared⠀/⠀nervous around them at first basically always (sorry)⠀i rant sometimes without thinking, if you want me to stop let me know⠀i believe in separating the art from the artist and i am critical of my interests⠀i adore my friends, if you do them dirty i WILL hate⠀/⠀dislike you. there are rare exceptions to this (such as if it happened years ago, was minor, and the person changed)⠀i heavily suspect i have bnpd and auadhd, i owe you no information on my illnesses or disorders but you can ask about them if you want⠀i lose my shit spiraling ⠀/⠀splitting sometimes, it's almost always irrational and don't take what i say during those times to heart please⠀