boundaries

please do not:

  • dm me to vent or to ask for advice (unprompted) / trauma dump ghost stressed
  • flirt with me
  • give me pet names
  • friend request me /dm if you're under 16
  • make fun of my typing (i am disabled, bare with me)
  • ask for free art
  • call me slurs / derogatory shit unprompted (like offhandedly calling me a fag or a dyke, especially when we don't know each other is a major no no)
  • badger me to reply to dms
  • call me aggressive / be passive aggressive when you don't know what my tone is
  • do not talk to me or send nsfw ANYTHING unless you are or over 20+.

bristled cat do not interact:

  • basic dni (racists, pedophiles, zoophiles, lgbtphobes)
  • ddlg / race play supporter
  • if endogenic system
  • if proshipper / anti-anti
  • if you attack people for their interests in any capacity or think interests define people 100%
  • uncritical about your interests
  • if you're going to demand i use tone tags for every single thing i say
  • if you demonize those who have 'scary mental illnesses' or have low empathy.
  • discourse oriented (aroace discourse , mspec gays/lesbian discourse ... etc)
    • i support contradictory identities even if i don't understand them. (solidarity forever man) kissy ghost
  • advocate for lgbt separatism (you're doing the feds job atp. we have more important things going on. )
  • super parasocial either negatively or positively about ccs

preferences:

  • do not use they/them for me EVER, even when referring to me plurally, just use it or xey/xem.
  • i'd prefer you'd just refer to me and my system singularly as "raven/ted" and instead of "you all did this thing" just say you. call me raven, teddy, or corvid - especially when you don't know who is fronting. unless we're close.
  • tell me straight up when you don't know what i was trying to communicate. i can be cryptic and confusing at the best of time because of brain damage.
  • ask to dm / friend request, and ping sparingly. if we already have a dm open that's fine. ghost peek

disclaimers:

  • i am incredibly avoidant - this leads me to disappear for days, weeks, or months on end. (and i really don't like dms. . ) of course, this is different if we have business, i will do my best to respond to that in a timely manner!
  • i am more likely to be active in servers. if you are really worried about me feel free to check in! but i'm probably fine. if i haven't replied to a dm or something i either have forgotten because of memory problems, or because i have a low social battery. ghost gloom
  • i am disabled and suffer from a plethora of Issues and Problems (for free!) but most notably i am blind + photo sensitive. i use a screen reader sometimes. because of this my typing can be ~ spicy ~ so like. if i make a typo just ask me wtf i meant.
  • i do not like venting to people privately. if i am going through something, and you are worried- i will reach out to you if i am comfortable. do not push me to do so.
  • i like mcyt (yes dsmp included), homestuck, and other "controversial" media. if that bothers you: either don't talk to me about it or block me and leave. i am not hiding my interests anymore. i am insanely critical of all media i consume and if it really matters no i am not a dream fan.

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Pub: 31 Jan 2023 13:34 UTC
Edit: 05 Aug 2023 22:24 UTC
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