boundaries regarding mydei
here are some boundaries i would like you to read before interacting/befriending me, especially if you're into hsr specifically amphoreus and you like to mingle with the fandom, have any kind of attachment towards amphoreus characters, and/or have tendencies to talk about amphoreus (world building, lore, characters).
⚠️ this page is LONG. only read if you care enough or you are one of the bolded part above.
note: gw lumayan lenient sama temen deket, but pls bukan berarti lu sembarangan crossing my boundaries ya tolong
sharing status: STRICTLY NO SHARING
- i (obviously) do not accept any kinds of romantic/queerplatonic mydei yume, anyone who has him as their kami/saioshi, oshi with romantic tendencies, and hardshippers of his canon x canon ships.
- i do not accept platonic yume; in which i do not accept if there is even just the tiniest hint of romance and i do not accept any form of platonic yume where you specifically made an oc for him, very close relationship, and familial relationship. i also absolutely, utterly do not want to see your oc being drawn with him alone even platonically. platonic relations (where your oc/sona has interactions mostly due to circumstances in the lore) are ok.
- very selective for oshi only as i often have unhealthy tendencies where i do not like seeing anyone except for myself talk about him on my timeline.
- i am very selective if you used to have mydei as your oshi, but i MIGHT accept if you never had any romantic tendencies towards him and never had any (romantic/qpr/platonic) yume with him.
- i prefer not to befriend anyone who is close with and has a bias towards another mydei oshi/yumehito.
boudaries
please be warned that i am quite sensitive about anything regarding mydei. if anything in this list makes you uncomfortable then feel free to avoid me! use the snooze/unfollow/unfriend/restrict/block/mute feature properly, please.
- while i do not label myself as a riako/gachikoi, my feelings for mydei are real and i truly do love him and see him as my lover. cringe? maybe. perceive me however you want. i do not care.
- for now, i would prefer if you do not talk about any of my other romantic yume oshis in a romantic context TOWARD ME specifically. if it's directed to my ocs, it's fine. but me? please don't. example:
- "tidur atau nanti lu ditidurin keito" / "semangat elli biar dicium cyno" ❌❌❌
- "keikure tubar gas" / "ok sekarang ayo cynonaya ciuman" ✅✅✅
- for now, i would prefer if you do not talk about any of my other romantic yume oshis in a romantic context TOWARD ME specifically. if it's directed to my ocs, it's fine. but me? please don't. example:
- REFRAIN FROM MISPELLING MY YUMESHIP NAME OR MISTAKING THEM WITH OTHERS' YUMESHIP. it makes me uncomfortable. if you don't know my yumeship name (it's deneia btw), please ask first. don't assume. it's annoying to see other's mydei yume being brought into my space.
- i do not want to see any other individuals in my timeline talk about him in a romantic/sexual context, lovemail him, or talk about any romantic tendencies of mydei with other characters (both canon and oc). in cases where i encounter such posts, i will simply hide it, but if it becomes too much, i have the right to snooze, unfollow, or even unfriend you.
- in cases of mydei x canon, i will be more lenient, and i won't hold it against you as long as you don't shove it into my face.
- hard exception for myphaidei: I HATE THIS SHIP AND I DO NOT WANT TO SEE THEM AT ALL. i can seriously get into a crash out (/neg) from it, so seriously, i will block you if you shove them into my face. also, for fb fl, it would be preferred if you EXCLUDE ME from any myphaidei-related posts.
- my only exception for mydei x canon is mydei x tribios. my only otp for mydei.
- in cases of mydei x canon, i will be more lenient, and i won't hold it against you as long as you don't shove it into my face.
- i am not comfortable interacting with you if i know you have a bias towards another mydei oshi/yumehito to the point you associate mydei with them/their oc. it does not sit right with me knowing that you associate mydei with another person and you're still interacting with me (when i'm openly THIS crazy about him), especially interacting about mydei. i am sorry in advance if i avoid you for this reason.
- related to the point above, i am not asking anyone to be biased to me nor my mydei yume. i have no means of restricting anyone's relationship, but i will restrict my own interactions, so please understand. i don't mind interacting about other stuff tho!
- with that said, regardless of whether you have any bias towards another mydei yume or not, HAVE SOME DECENCY TO NOT MENTION ANY MYDEI YUMEHITO'S NAME IN MY RADAR. that includes: on my post, on a post you shared from my post, in our pm. thanks.
- i am not comfortable interacting with ANY kinds of mydei yume and every mydei yumehito.
- i do not mind if you are an artist/author and you post a commissioned work of his yume, but please DO NOT CROP/CENSOR MYDEI'S IMAGE/NAME FROM YOUR WORK SO THAT I CAN AVOID IT.
- if it's censored per client's request, please tell me beforehand or give a warning on the caption so i can avoid it.
- relating to this, i am also not comfortable seeing art created by other mydei yumehito. i can hide them myself in fb, but for twt mutuals, please PLEASE always include their name/usn in your tweet so that it can be filtered out from my timeline.
- with that said, please do not take any offense with the fact that i WILL NOT interact with your contents created by/with another mydei yumehito. that includes: commissioned work made by another mydei yumehito, double dates/collaborations with another mydei yumehito (even if the content isn't related to mydei), your octp with another mydei yumehito.
- please do not hesitate to tell me if you're going to post ANYTHING related to another mydei yumehito beforehand.
- i do not mind if you are an artist/author and you post a commissioned work of his yume, but please DO NOT CROP/CENSOR MYDEI'S IMAGE/NAME FROM YOUR WORK SO THAT I CAN AVOID IT.
- if you ever grow any romantic feelings for him and/or suddenly want to yume him, TALK TO ME /srs. i am not comfortable if you're doing it behind my back and yet you still interact with me. i value friendship first and foremost so please do not hesitate to reach out. unless, of course, you do not value me that much as a friend; just immediately unfriend/block me, it's fine.
- i WILL unfriend you from Penjilat Keringat Mydei (fb) and/or bub you from @mydeiarest (twt) (and my privs if we're mutuals there), but i don't mind us befriending somewhere else. although, if you still want to be friends, at least BE TRANSPARENT ABOUT IT.
- i do not mind talking about mydei as long as i know you harbor NO romantic/sexual attraction towards him, but DO NOT force your interpretation about him to me and NEVER act like you know mydei better than me. it annoys me.
- if you have yumeship with/romantic feelings toward mydei and we've talked it out, please have some decency to NOT comment on anything related to mydei on my posts. that includes asking about merch. go find out yourself. (sorry.)
- i do not appreciate you talking to me about mydei while projecting him to another character. mydei is mydei, and while he might be inspired or have the same vibes as other character(s), please just don't constantly bring that into my space. (this also applies to both carneia and deneia.)
- if you lovemail/fangirl mydei on MY POST, i will NOT hesitate to unfriend or even block you.
- my personal preference: switch/top!mydei, but the 'switch' is dom-leaning and mydei as a sub* only applies with women (not like i ship him with any male characters anyway, so we're not talking about that). important note: I HATE SEEING HIM DEPICTED AS A BOTTOM.
- * by sub i meant the woman taking the lead. he won't actually completely submit.
- DO NOT COPY ANYTHING RELATED TO MY OC CARNEIA AND MY YUMESHIP DENEIA, even if we have different oshis or fandoms. this applies to every single one of my ocs and yumes as well.
if you made it til the end, congratulations! you've unlocked another level of elli's cegilness! that said, thanks for reading and thank you from the deepest of my heart if you can just respect my boundaries. have a nice day!