extended dni list, please respect my decision that i do not want to be associated with people that fits the criteria below. you ponytowners weird as heeecckkkk

  • basic dni criteria
  • ex friends
  • whitewashes POC characters and use "style" as an excuse for itttt. like, don't even try to defend yourself with your style, you can easily make that character's skin darker with that style— but you refuse to.
  • defend or downplay the IvanTill kiss scene (it was sexual assault). i hate ivantill, i hate the shippers, i hate alienstage
  • are part of the AlienStage fandom (do not int unless i do, friends are exceptions).
  • harass or hate on others just because they like a ship or a character you don't.
  • anyone who supports Tamakuz
  • ship or romanticize abuser x victim, minor x adult, lesbian x man, gay x woman, or anything similar/associated with it
  • are a ValAngel, PolyVees shipper/enjoyer. not to ruin the "fun" or hate on any ship/shippers, i'm sorry i don't find it pleasing to ship an abuser with their victim, or a lesbian with two men!!! i do not care about your opinion and headcanon about Velvette being bisexual, it's just straight up weird headcanoning a canon lesbian character to be bisexual just so you can ship them with a man
  • are a Vox apologist, or just any of the Vees apologist in general
  • defend or excuse that the scene where Alastor had to watch VoxVal making love (Season 2, Episode 4) wasn't sexual assault/abuse. forcing someone to watch you engage in sexual activity without consent is considered a form of sexual assault/abuse, that's a non-consensual sexual act directed toward Alastor, even if he wasn't physically touched. you don't have to agree with my opinion, but this act is considered a form of downplaying sa victims— it's honestly weird if you defend it because of a certain ship ykwim
  • if you excuse sexual assault/abuse because "it's fiction"
  • if you constantly make NSFW or uncomfortable jokes
  • people who flirt, roleplay, or act familiar without permission
  • people who start unnecessary arguments or discourse

this list will be updated regularly whenever i encounter something unpleasant in my surroundings. the list reflects what i observe in real time


i generally do not initiate conversation in order to avoid engaging with anyone who falls within my DNI criteria. if i do happen to interact, i will discontinue further communication and avoid additional contact.

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Pub: 07 Nov 2025 10:31 UTC

Edit: 04 Dec 2025 07:54 UTC

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