i made this while on my second coffee oh my god im gonna die early of heart problems :sob::broken_heart:

moved to /hyutill



Hi I'm Jian. I use She/He pronouns (P.S. don't exclusively use She/Her cos I don't like it), They/Them is fine as well cos I don't #care about what you call me. I am bigender and cupioaroace. Idk anything else. Any terms are OK! I am taken as well!

Additionally I am a yumejoshi but I don't make the list public I guess you unlock at friendship Level 10.


I struggle with tone!! If I don't know you I can get easily anxious and think you're mad/upset at me even if it's not serious or deep. For friends I always assume it's not serious unless you tell me! Also, if I actually do something wrong, don't tell me a few hours or any time past 'late' about it to me. It automatically makes me mad at you and self-conscious of myself.

I can be kind of explosive/sensitive sometimes and easily upset so interact with care. I don't lash out or take action or anything just for my comfort. I think I'm pretty kind, though.
I mostly prefer to be alone and I'm semi-inactive on all social medias, so please don't think I'm ignoring you.
I have a really bad habit of cursing a lot too FYI :broken_heart:

I don't really like associating with Rentrycord (or any community that ends with "-cord") (or Rentry/Sntry communities in general) that much so I am only in one Rentry server and it's only to trade so I guess you can catch me there sometimes.


  • DNI (But I hate using that term)
    • You associate with my ex or his friend*
    • CSAM/"CP" jokes they make me uncomfortable, sorry*
    • You talk about gore a lot*
    • Support Melanie Martinez or Diddy*
      • ^ Or you make any jokes about Diddy, or just any horrible person
    • Say slurs you can't reclaim*

IDK anything else just don't be weird
Not apart of the "DNI" but I lowkey do not like Yu-Gi-Oh fans. It's just an iffy to me cos personally I think "DNI if you like this..!" is chronically online (some exceptions).

Not much about boundaries but I hate being called shit like "hoe", "whore", or "slut" (some exceptions if we're close).

  • FRQ or DM = Ask
  • Bullying = No. Teasing is fine as long as you limit it!

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