nonhuman terms ONLY (thing, creature, beast, etc) + blunt, apathetic, & tone deaf + severely disordered & disabled + don't assume things or believe rumors + don't take inspo off us + don't use ableist language on us ('aggressive,' 'hostile,' etc) + don't point out typos + don't say you like our interests more
yes: tone tags, compliments
ask: DMs, FRQs, touch / PDA
no: c2f, pet names, reality checks