/detco ♡ — about me extended

DNI
keep in mind that DNIs goes both ways, so you're free to block / ignore me etc if i happen to fit your own DNI o7 no need to tell me!
- basic dni
- pretty self-explanatory.
- doubles of my nonsharing yumes.
- if you happen to have them as your favorites (not crushes, yumesidering, or likes them romantically) that's fine, especially if i know you already!
- also, please do not trying to befriend me hoping that i'll 'tolerate' you with my nonsharing, iffy or selective sharing yumes, only because they have certain exceptions to it. it'll result in an instant block.
- apologists & consumes problematic medias
- (DSMP, okegom, ranfren, vivziepop's works etc)
- despises yumes / rarepairs.
- just block me atp because i don't shut up about my sillies. what are you here for?
- often engaged in any kinds of discourse or dramas #IDGAF
- i'd rather finish detco in one night rather than engaging in these shit bro. bffr
- this is not an exhaustive list. i block freely. be normal and we're good.
- oh, also — don't ask why you're blocked. we don't owe anyone an apology nor explanation, figure it out on your own.
BYI
- always interact with extreme care / caution (AIWEC) as my mood-swings is fucking messed up lately, and i get upset & sensitive even more easily nowadays. yeah. just don't be a dick i guess
- funny how i could get upset over nothing, college really beats me up huh?
- i'm 90% AFK / offline most of the time due to my college schedules. if i happen to 'ignore' you (which is likely not intentional), simply bump our DM or reping me. don't spam nor spam ping, i'll get to you soon.
- never think it's personal when i accidentally ghost you, it's not, just so you know. some people that i cut off in the past keep thinking i ignore them on purpose, it's ironic, really.
- i overyap often, especially when it comes to what i like or love in general (e.g. special interests & yumes), only god knows what's or who's able to shut me up. (spoiler: nothing and no one ever could)
- technically, you can tell me to shut up, but i don't think i will LMFAO
- ask to friend request, or only add me when you need to DM, especially if we have no mutual servers (i.e. from netlify). otherwise, i'll unadd you after that. i don't like having people rot in my friend list when we never really talk or barely even close, but friends are exceptions for this. hi sillies!
- silly thing i'd like to add: if we interact often in a server, that means we're friends. no doubt.
- i'm ill and sick as hell in the brain (AKA neurodivergent — shocking, i know). i won't disclose what illnesses i'm suffering from, but i'm sure you can figure it out easily, as i don't mask how i act online at all.
- of course, this heavily affects how i interact with people at all. but i promise i'm nice!
- i make NSFW jokes sometimes (suggestive, sexual etc), but only those i'm close with or if i know you're okay with it. you can tell me beforehand, though, i don't mind.
- this is funny because i'm aegosexual LMAO but i don't think it matters much tbh :p
- i usually use tonetags just for my own sake, albeit most of my tone is otherwise impossible to be interpreted as anything other than silly intonation or joking. i appreciate them being used while talking to me, but they're not needed 24/7. don't hesitate to let me know if you don't appreciate it!
- i love the silly tonetag so much. reminds me of how unserious i am most of the time :3c
- due to being a system, we occasionally switch from plural to singular pronouns for ourselves. e.g. i/me/myself (will wood /ref frfr?) & we/us/our etc!
- although, of course, this also applies to context as well. for example, i'll only use "i, me, myself" for my own stuff (terms, prns, identity), and for collective stuff (system, alters, boundaries) we'll use "we, us, our." this is especially helpful if i'm talking about myself or my system in general.