this is the original list, i just made it here on rentry too cause its personally easier for me to read it here


do no interact if you apply the basic dni criteria
what does the 'basic dni criteria' consist of? well, this could differ depending on the person but i'd say it's mostly a do not interact if you're:

  • racist, anti-black , against blm, all/blue lives matter
  • nazi, alt-right
  • antisemitic, islamophobic
  • xenophobic
  • map or 'minor attracted person', a pedophile - basically
  • fujoshi , fetishize mlm relationships/pairings/etc
  • himedanshi , fetishize wlw relationships/pairings/etc
  • romanticize abuse or mental illnesses
  • ableist (this includes people who are against self diagnosis too!)
  • lgbtphobic (lesbiphobic, homophobic, biphobic, panphobic, transphobic, exclusionist, etc)
  • use slurs you can't reclaim
  • believe in/are a bi/pan lesbian (here's a helpful carrd about it btw!)
  • believe fiction doesn't affect reality or you're pro-ship/anti-anti

do not interact if you're transphobic, this includes:

  • against xenogenders, neopronouns
  • against lesbians who use pronouns that aren't she/her, the same applies for gay men who use pronouns that aren't he/him
  • against any sort of non-binary identity
  • make fun of the way people identify? it's not only plain rude, but also extremely transphobic
  • trans-exclusionary radical feminist or any branch of feminism that excludes trans women or claim that trans women are not women or that feminism fights for trans men too
  • the feminism you are part of has a transphobic community or ideals, and you don't actively call it out/do anything against it, this applies to you too, people who are 'neutral' about transmisogyny and transphobia are transphobic as well
  • do not have a problem interacting/being friends with people who are transphobic, it's harmful and if you can be okay with people who refuse to treat trans people like people, then this, as well, applies for you

do not interact if you believe fiction doesn't affect reality, this includes:

  • joke about or justify incest in any form, including families who aren't related by blood (step-siblings, adopted family, etc)
  • joke about or justify pedophilia in any form
  • justify or participate in the sexualization of minors
  • justify abusive or unhealthy relationships

it isn't necessarily a 1:1 thing but it's still important to acknowledge how it affects our lives


notes (also important)
please be critical of your interests, nothing is inherently perfect or good, so be mindful of the source material, humans are inherently political, and so is the media we consume in one way or another

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Pub: 22 Jan 2022 17:24 UTC
Edit: 22 Jan 2022 17:40 UTC
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