π“œain ΒΉ Β² Β³γ€€Directoryγ€€Extended Graphic made by me. DNU
................................................................γ€€Suneater
Before you interact with me γ€€Just a few things I'd like to say about myself and what to be aware ofπ“ˆ’
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....... β€’γ€€important things to know
I am suspected to have BPD and AVPD, which will affect how I interactπ“ˆ’ I might be awkward at first and not talk much, but that doesn't mean I dislike youπ“ˆ’
........β€’γ€€Note that I'm not the type of person to interact
........β€’γ€€first unless close since I had hard time doing soπ“ˆ’
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Sometimes I'm not feeling sociable and/or dealing with something IRLπ“ˆ’ I will reply when I can, so please don't delete your messageβ€”it genuinely bothers meπ“ˆ’
Don't guilt trip me for not responding quickly eitherπ“ˆ’
I also tend to go offline for a while due to AVPD-related stuffγ€€...............................
γ€€π–₯”γ€€While I struggle with mental health, don't stigmatize or demonize me for having (Quiet) BPD or AVPDπ“ˆ’ I'm still responsible for my actions and will apologize or make amends if I've hurt youπ“ˆ’ So don't dismiss things as "me being mentally ill" eitherβ€”if something I did upset you, tell me directly and instead of gossiping or blocking / unfriending meπ“ˆ’
Other things to know β€’ ....... .... .....
Do not vent / trauma dump on me unless friendsπ“ˆ’ I might not be always mentally okay enough to listenγ€€....................................
I don’t have many boundaries aside from thatπ“ˆ’ I’ll only bring up another one if something genuinely bothers meπ“ˆ’ So if I ever set one with you, respect itπ“ˆ’
....... β€’γ€€If I make a boundary involving my dinterests, please
....... β€’γ€€take it seriouslyπ“ˆ’ Those sources cause me real distress,
....... β€’γ€€and I’ll only talk about them on my own accordπ“ˆ’
................................................................ Do not interact: Anyone under 16, if I fit in your DNI or your stances oppose mine, or if you’ve put any of my friends on your DNIπ“ˆ’
....... β€’γ€€If you’re significantly younger than me, please don’t
....... β€’γ€€make constant adult jokes or use explicit humor with
....... β€’γ€€meπ“ˆ’ I don’t mind if it’s part of a story or a genuine
....... β€’γ€€questionβ€”just keep it situational and not a constant
....... β€’γ€€topicπ“ˆ’ .. ...
I don't mind being your online brother, father, uncle, grandpa (as a joke), or whatever else, but do not call me your twin / best friend if we're not closeπ“ˆ’
Don't befriend me just to have a family dynamic with me or immediately pursue one if we just met without any mutual friendsπ“ˆ’ I prefer genuine closeness over forced closeness
....... β€’γ€€Do not call me your FP unless you genuinely mean itπ“ˆ’
....... β€’γ€€I'd rather not have that term used looselyπ“ˆ’
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Stances: pro-good faith identities, pro-mogai, pro-mspec & complex sexualities, pro-palestine, & anti endo

π–₯” Inspo is always okay, just don't copy texts and content or use the graphics I made for myself unless we're friends and you had my permissionγ€€........................................................

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