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Before you interact with me
γJust a few things I'd like to say about myself and what to be aware ofπ
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I am suspected to have BPD and AVPD, which will affect how I interactπ I might be awkward at first and not talk much, but that doesn't mean I dislike youπ
........β’γNote that I'm not the type of person to interact
........β’γfirst unless close since I had hard time doing soπ 
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Sometimes I'm not feeling sociable and/or dealing with something IRLπ I will reply when I can, so please don't delete your messageβit genuinely bothers meπ
Don't guilt trip
me for not responding quickly eitherπ
I also tend to go offline for a while due to AVPD-related stuffγ...............................
γπ₯γWhile I struggle with mental health, don't stigmatize or demonize me for having (Quiet) BPD or AVPDπ I'm still responsible for my actions and will apologize or make amends if I've hurt youπ So don't dismiss things as "me being mentally ill" eitherβif something I did upset you, tell me directly and instead of gossiping or blocking / unfriending meπ
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Do not vent / trauma dump on me unless friendsπ I might not be always mentally okay enough to listenγ....................................
I donβt have many boundaries aside from thatπ Iβll only bring up another one if something genuinely bothers meπ So if I ever set one with you, respect itπ
....... β’γIf I make a boundary involving my dinterests, please
....... β’γtake it seriouslyπ Those sources cause me real distress,
....... β’γand Iβll only talk about them on my own accordπ 
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Do not interact: Anyone under 16, if I fit in your DNI or your stances oppose mine, or if youβve put any of my friends on your DNIπ
....... β’γIf youβre significantly younger than me, please donβt
....... β’γmake constant adult jokes or use explicit humor with
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....... β’γquestionβjust keep it situational and not a constant
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I don't mind being your online brother, father, uncle, grandpa (as a joke), or whatever else, but do not call me your twin / best friend if we're not closeπ
Don't befriend me just to have a family dynamic with me or immediately pursue one if we just met without any mutual friendsπ I prefer genuine closeness over forced closeness
....... β’γDo not call me your FP unless you genuinely mean itπ
....... β’γI'd rather not have that term used looselyπ
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Stances: pro-good faith identities, pro-mogai, pro-mspec & complex sexualities, pro-palestine, & anti endo
π₯ Inspo is always okay, just don't copy texts and content or use the graphics I made for myself unless we're friends and you had my permissionγ........................................................