BOUNDARIES & BYI

not listing DNI because it's basic criteria really, just don't be shitty or weird and we won't block you idk

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BOUNDARIES:
• pings are fine
• ask to friend request or dm
• do not vent to us impromptu
• 18-23 preferred bodily age range,
conversation with anyone outside of it is reserved for public servers and spaces exclusively
• prioritize using "headmates", "alters", and "system" over "parts" or "pwDID"
• do not request alters to front
unless specified otherwise
• we don't care whether you use tonetags on us or not, and our own usage of them fluctuates
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BYI:
• we flip between "we" and "I" due to masking, but instinctively prefer using plural pronouns when self referencing if able to in any given situation
• we have a bad habit of accidentally trauma dumping due to being so desensitized,
if it becomes an issue, please tell us directly
and we'll stop asap
• all of our pseudo memory trauma is how our brain processes the body's trauma;
our pseudos are a direct result of actual trauma we've endured of similar themes,
it is not "source trauma", do not discredit it as being that—especially when said "source memories" are objectively worse and more horrific than the canon source material entirely
• we are not very open to new friendships unless we particularly like you;
we have a wide variety of mental health issues and empathy imbalances,
all of which make trusting and emotionally investing in people EXTREMELY difficult,
it's genuinely nothing personal if we keep distance
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