BOUNDARIES & BYI

DNI not specified, we block freely
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BOUNDARIES
pings are fine, and oftentimes preferred
ask to friend request or dm
do not vent to us unless you're a close friend i know well
18-23 preferred bodily age range,
conversation with anyone outside of it is reserved for public servers and spaces exclusively
try to prioritize using "headmates", "alters", and "system" over "parts" or "pwDID"
do not use you& terms
do not request alters to front unless specified otherwise
we don't care whether you use tonetags on us or not, and our own usage of them fluctuates;
if you aren't sure of our tone, please just ask directly for clarification
we are always IWC as a base line due to being very symptomatic, and we cannot guarantee when our conditions may or may not impact our behavior; always heed with caution, we are disordered

BYI
we flip between "we" and "I" due to masking, but prefer using plural pronouns and would rather be considered a collective of multiple rather than a single pwDID
we are hyperverbal. this means we yap a lot, get into rambling spirals, and often talk ourselves in winding circles that don't make sense, or just has unnecessarily elaborate and confusing language; we WILL talk your ear off, and won't always make sense when we do. please ask for clarification if you don't understand what we say, and sorry in advance for being a yapper!
we are also disabled mentally and physically with stuff that impacts our ability to function and communicate in our daily life, please keep this in mind and be respectful about it
we have a bad habit of accidentally trauma dumping due to being so desensitized; if it becomes an issue, please tell us directly and we'll stop asap
we are very territorial over our defensive interests and nonsharing fictionkins, so much so it can be debilitating. we tend to avoid other fans and kins as a result of how severe it is, please do not take it personally if we're reclusive or avoidant because we see you share our defensive interests. we self soothe and avoid lashing out as much as possible; however, we still struggle to filter aggression or emotional turbulence out entirely in most conversation regarding our defensive interests and kins, and it may result in a flat tone or prickly attitude. we apologize in advance for this. avoid conversation about our defensive interests with us if you're uncomfortable with our intensity
we are not very open to new friendships unless we particularly like you. we have a wide variety of
mental health issues and empathy imbalances, all of which make trusting and emotionally investing in people EXTREMELY difficult. it's genuinely nothing personal if we keep distance



