wen's boundaries / before you interact

1.) under any circumstance, do not sexualize me. i am fine with sexual jokes and such, but i do not want to be the object of sexualization. do not make jokes about s/a around me unless i've specifically stated that i'm okay with it.

2.) do not use tone tags on me. i am neurodivergent and i can misunderstand tone often. though i prefer to just ask to clarify your intentions rather than you using tone tags. i find it belittling. however, if you need tone tags, i will gladly use it for you.

3.) i am not a very empathetic person. i am not good at comforting or cheering people up. i am fine with people venting to me with or without asking, but please know i may not be able to provide the sympathy you need.

4.) i may come off as rude, dry, or blunt sometimes, but it is mostly unintentional. i am rather withdrawn with new people. i try my best to match others' energy; but if we aren't close, then i might seem awkward at first.

5.) i am fine with joke flirting as long it is obvious that it is a joke. i have no interest in being with anyone romantically at the moment. i am a naturally affectionate person, but please be mindful that all my love is platonic.

6.) it might take a while for me to reply to messages sometimes. i have my own personal life and responsibilities, and i have quite a low social energy except for very close friends. don't mistake it for me purposefully ignoring you.


i don't have a strict dni list. besides the basic criteria. as long you are a decent person, i am willing to interact.

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Pub: 10 May 2023 17:14 UTC

Edit: 28 May 2026 11:40 UTC

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