i'm a pseudohost cause i don't consider myself one even though front basically drags me to it like a magnet... doesn't help i'm made of metal! being ex-host does a lot, and the front room basically making you its bitch is a factor. besides pseudohost i'm also very much a dissociation holder and in general a experiencer for most dpdr episodes.
i'm married to vinny in helmspace, he's a collective soulbond and internal partner! we love him dearly!
friends can use they/them on me helmmate specifically i also identify as transbivergo, bigender, gaybian, dysrose, and various misceverse terms such as miscetronian, miscebot, botscented, and as a xi