
Fefe's Boundaries
i am strict with my own boundaries and if you break them on purpose, I won't hesitate to block you, close or not. (it is expected if you don't respect me as a person, I won't respect you either.)
🦴 Hard No | Thin Ice | close only | note✦
Basic Dni; irls, homophobic, transphobic, sexist, racist, ableist, heavily religious, 13- & 25+ years olds, Ex friends (if we ended on bad terms.) Boundaries breaker, yumeshippers, yall make me uncomfortable (if close, don't mention ur yume around me). therians, I have nothing against yall, just uncomfy being near one. if you don't like my friends or i show no interest in you after you repeatedly try to interact with me.
Fandoms dni ; Dandys World, Forsaken, Bad Things, South Park, Object Shows (cfmot being an exception), Dream Smp, South Park, The Freak Circus, Any HoYoverse Games, Pressure.
Regis dni ( PT ) ; Past YBP, CM, and SPD members. Crayon Circus, Vibrant Tempest, Radiant Force.
Heavy dni (ppl) ; TalocanLex/Leafler, vernotsappen, d4zed, c7pid. , Winniepng, fusdoll, xav3r0735, valorenet.
Boundaries / byi
byi ; I have Bpd, anger and trust issues & very paranoid so expect me to be an ass / cautious during first meeting. I also unfriend people a lot if we aren't close / barely talk at all. and please don't introduce me to ur friends, I do not like that. I have minor epilepsy aswell so be mindful of that. I intend to get uncomfortable with sexual/racist jokes unless you're super close. I am closed off and does not like interacting so don't expect me to always ask to hang out first. please iwc at all times.
Boundaries
Ask ; Play with me (usually a no unless we're friends) Nicknames, Friend Request, Dms / private message, taking inspo off my stuff (avatars, pt ponies, etc), venting (be aware I cannot offer you the comfort youd probably need.)
Hard No ; Taking inspo off my stuff without permission, Uses Nicknames on me that isn't on my pronouns list. DM / Ping me with no reason, Sends Fast flashing / Eyestraining gifs / images without spoiler or proper warning to me, Flirting (Jokingly or not, I have a bf) Saying Slurs to me as a joke if we're not friends. Interacting with me even if im on dni in my status. using they/them on me even after I corrected you or only uses they/them on me if we're close.
Pt Only [No] ; Runs over my pony on purpose, Repeatedly flashes ur horn light at me at night, Spam boop me, Copy my ponies or post them online, randomly add me or follow me around.
Roblox [No] ; W + Sing me, grief/target me specifically in games, steal my cosplays, roleplay with me when I'm in a cosplay. (I'll genuinely ignore you)
i am completely open for Matching but not on discord as I will match with my bf only.
byi - venting
Be aware that I cant comfort you when you vent to me or at least offer you the comfort you'll need as I also have my own problem to deal with. Yes, you can vent about self-harm, suicide thoughts and etc but put a warning if you're gonna talk about sa/cocsa/etc. Im a good listener but a horrible responder so don't get mad at me if I don't respond much, I promise I do listen to what you say. no, I won't give you advice if you don't listen to them and I won't be deciding on what you should and shouldn't do with your relationship with someone and no I won't take side even if I heard the full story.
If you somehow missed my pronouns page