
kams
boundaries
001. please do not start any drama with me or involve me in it. please always speak to me privately about any problems you or others may have with me. i am very open to discussion and try to not be disrespectful to anyone. if i do something to upset you tell me and we can figure it out!
002. despite being okay with all terms please keep any masculine language in reference to me to a minimum! i dont mind it, but it is my least favorite of it all.
003. please don't flirt with me even jokingly, im aromantic and i have very little patience for dumb shit like that. i also ask you don't dog on my special interests around me, they are basically extensions of me and i will view it as a personal attack on me.
004. i suggest you follow your own dni criteria since i dont really have one myself, except for like.. sh/ed twt, people who harass others who don't share their view on subjects as mundane as ship discourse, pro-israel, and old friends/lovers! nothing against you, i promise, i just want to move forward with my life. following up on that, i am generally anti-endo and radqueer, im not a fan of proshipping or whatever, im neutral on goodfaith identities (it doesn't affect me so i dont care as should you and we as a community have bigger issues) and anti-censorship, otherwise i dont. really have any opinions about the sort of shit i see drama about online. no hate to sh/ed twt accounts i personally get queasy at it thats it hope ur day is well
005. do not impersonate me. i understand people rubbing off on one another, trust me it happens to everyone, but do not go out of your way to try to be me in any way shape or form. it makes me extremely uncomfortable.