don't seriously flirt with me if you're not my beautiful beloved girlfriend, please!!! i'm monogamous and genuinely not at all interested in being in another relationship whatsoever. if you do it after i continuously tell you to stop you're getting blocked lmao (and if it's irl i'll avoid you)
i am very inclined to give people second and even third or fourth chances and will likely be very forgiving if you do anything wrong or cross my boundaries. depending on the severity of the situation i'll likely just forgive and forget about it
i NEED people to communicate with me. if i've crossed your boundaries i most likely have no idea that i did. please tell me if i ever make you uncomfortable or cross any of your boundaries. do not just use it against me later without telling me upfront as soon as it happens, i will get upset with you. also don't ever ignore me on purpose, it makes me incredibly upset especially if we're close. just communicate with me. please!!!
i have been working on black and white thinking, spiraling/splitting, my anxiety, and a couple other things recently and i've been trying to back away from screens and take a break whenever i can tell i'm upset and i've been figuring out coping mechanisms but despite all of this i may still get upset with you and say hurtful things when spiraling or splitting, please keep in mind that in those situations i'm thinking irrationally and i don't actually mean any of the things i say
i'm cupioromantic and aromantic. i rarely ever feel genuine romantic attraction but i still would like to be in a romantic relationship. i'm also pangender (i see myself more as a girl, but idc what other people see me as). as well as being a futch, which in my experience i align with both the femme and butch labels. i'm a lesbian and monogamous as well, but if you don't know what these things mean please just look them up. i struggle with recognizing whether i'm romantically or platonically attracted to people and it can take me months to actually figure it out (if i figure it out)
i have a life outside of the internet (shocker) and will often be with my family or be doing schoolwork if i'm not at school. i'm almost never genuinely trying to ignore anyone!!! i may just take a while to respond. another reason i might read your message and not reply is my social battery being super low and not feeling like responding to anyone. i'll probs explain after i feel better that this was why. or i just forget in general but i try my best to always respond to messages! i'm in the est and when i go to sleep varies a lot but it'll usually be before around 11pm at LEAST on schooldays but not always (i do try to maintain somewhat of a schedule though even if it's a little fucked up)
i'm very very bad at talking to new people. if i think you're cool i likely also think you're intimidating which'll make it harder for me to get comfortable with you but i swear i will try my best! it's never the person's fault, i just have trust issues due to certain people from my past and it takes me a while to get comfortable. once i get to know you and know you're genuinely not trying to cause me harm or anything like that we'll be alr :3
I'M STILL DISCOVERING THINGS ABOUT MYSELF!!! i am a teenager who doesn't know everything about myself yet even though i am fairly self aware. i still discover new things about myself and the people around me all the time! i will continue to change and grow. don't expect me to stay the exact same, especially like, a year from now. a lot can change in that amount of time! just for those who need a reminder of that...