- relationship trust importance
- dont hide how you feel from me. if something I did upset you, tell me. Open up. I cannot magically know when my actions make someone feel bad or not unless informed.
- dont hide how you feel from me. if something I did upset you, tell me. Open up. I cannot magically know when my actions make someone feel bad or not unless informed.
- regarding discord (Chatting & Calls)
- NEVER start streaming something If I am already streaming something. If I'm not streaming on discord, go ahead and do what you want! However, if i am streaming on discord? Don't just start streaming without asking if Im okay with it or not.
- Limit repetitive noises please. Repetition of the same thing stresses me out (Also applies to commands && such).
- Please don't go quiet on me / suddenly leave the call without mentioning as to why. If you have to go, just please mention that — I don't like being left hanging.
- I have an extreme fear of silence && being alone with my own thoughts. Please do not go quiet on me. If we are in a voice call, I expect at least some conversation.
- Always reply ping me. Do not double ping / ping with proxy. Ping me separately for images or text walls.
- The yellow hurts my eyes if I stare for too long. Reply pings needed, but Please spare my eyes from the yellow with those Giant images.
- I get stressed and overthink a lot when seeing people type for too long / see a text wall even if the contents are not about / to me.
- Also, for VCs, please don't speak over people (or myself). It tends to get me overstimulated.
- regarding certain jokes and stuff
- limit ragebait, or at least make it glaringly obvious you're ragebaiting / joking with me. I might take it too literally.
- I don't really like jokes about ongoing issues in the world without "backstory" to the joke.
- DO NOT infantilize nor parent me.
- u h8 being parented I h8 being infantilized ❤
- I utterly fucking despise feeling infantilized, joke or not. Do not do this shit to me ever again I will block you. There is no reason for you to infantilize me after me stating many, many times I am not to be infantilized nor parented. Yes yes, I'm a minor, but *does that give you the right to cross my boundaries just to prove your own right of mind?
- I can talk about serious situations and topics, learn about what is right and what isn't, and that's what I say about myself. I can handle these topics, and I can say when to stop / when I am uncomfortable with such. You are not, were not, and never will be my parent.
- Never call me "immature" / try to belittle me with it. Yes, I can be immature, I meant "oh you're so immature for your age" and comments like those.
- Nick / Pet names ++ "nickname reservation"
- Nick / Petnames are personal to me and I prefer keeping certain nicknames to certain people. "You cannot call me xyz until I say so, but this person can call me that" , ok?
- move up da friendship ranks to call me some of these lawl (joke)
- move up da friendship ranks to call me some of these lawl (joke)
- For the love of God:
- Do not try to purposefully trigger my own paranoia and make me spiral.
- Do not just randomly shit talk me in front of me nor leave it somewhere I can read it. Keep them thoughts && opinions 2 urself gng 🙏
- Friendship, Personal, ETC.
- My immediate circle is not what you say or think they are. If they happen to be awful people, provide evidence of such. Never make baseless accusations, or I may not believe you.
- " [OOMF] is racist and homophobic ban him " only for the dude who said that to be transphobic AND a inconsiderate jackass 🤣 #OOMF STAYS WINNING (I was in VC with the oomf who was accused and they were never being rude to the person who accused them).
- I love all my friends. A lot.
- I am protective of my friends and especially with the ones I consider apart of my immediate circle (HMMR + CSMMN 🥹). I will not let you shit talk my gang in my face yo 🤬 dat
my fam right there
- I am protective of my friends and especially with the ones I consider apart of my immediate circle (HMMR + CSMMN 🥹). I will not let you shit talk my gang in my face yo 🤬 dat
- OCs
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boundaries might change / be deleted or added to in the future.
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