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𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐛𝐨𝐲𝐨: 𝐋𝐢𝐞𝐬, 𝐀𝐛𝐮𝐬𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐌𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐩𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧

  • Goodestboyo's Birthday: June 1st, 2007
  • Location: America

Disclaimer

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Summary

Goodestboyo is an 18-year-old male with a long history of manipulation, pathological lying, and self-centered behavior. He has groomed others and engaged in sexual activity with friends without clear consent, often with individuals 2–3 or more years younger than him. He frequently disregarded boundaries and exploited the trust of those around him. Others have mentioned he has had over 10 partners who experienced significant discomfort and conflict due to his actions, with at least two confirmed to have come forward. He also has a history of associating with individuals involved in harmful and dangerous behavior, including sexual predators, cheaters, drug abusers, alcoholics, doxxers, harassers, and people known for violent or threatening conduct. Attempts to involve Goodestboyo’s family and authorities have been unsuccessful. His mother has not seen the evidence, likely due to her spam filter, and his older sister is aware but dismissive. The police cannot act because only one victim reported the situation, and the victim lives in Canada while Goodestboyo resides in the United States.

Divider

𝐅𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐀 𝐕𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐦'𝐬 𝐒𝐢𝐝𝐞

  • Kaevy's Birthday: June 9, 2008
  • Location: Canada

My name is Kaevy, and I was one of the victims groomed by Goodestboyo. We became friends on a virtual reality game called Rec Room in 2022. We first met in one of my own games, as I was a popular game creator. He acted strange from the start. He would hump and kiss almost everyone he met in the game as a joke. After a few months of hanging out, we showed each other what we looked like and added each other on our personal social media accounts. We remained best friends until May 2023, when I decided to confess my feelings to him. I did not really want to be in a relationship, but I felt pressured and unsure of what to do. At the time, I liked him but did not want to date anyone. I also did not want him dating other people because it would make me jealous. I asked him out, and he said yes, beginning our online relationship. I was 14 and he was 15. I had a recording of me confessing to Boyo on YouTube. It’s private now, but back then it was public. After that, someone threatened to dox both of us, saying they put all our info on Dox Bin. I had an old friend check it, and nothing was actually there.

I had a friend group of about seven people on the game, and I hosted events every Friday where players could hang out and meet friends. One of my most popular games was a campsite map. Cuddling in VR was common, so we did that a lot. We were like a typical online couple. We matched profile pictures, I made him matching shirts on Rec Room, and I bought him games. He never gave me anything in return. Before summer break, I decided we should have a talk. Neither of us had told our parents about dating, and I was a transgender male at the time. I suggested we tell our parents, and he said I should go first because his parents were homophobic. I asked him to wait until I told mine, and he promised he would not say anything. I told my mom in the car the next day, and she was supportive.

However, he could not wait and told his parents before I told mine, which led to our first big fight. He called me in VR, and in an aggressive tone, said we could not date anymore because his parents did not support him being gay. I was extremely upset, and from what I remember, he was crying. He said we would be better off as friends. I did not text him for a while out of anger, but he eventually reached out and said it was okay to continue dating because he had told his parents I was transgender. The problem is that he outed me without my consent, which was invalidating. Some people, like me, do not want to be outed like that. I brushed it off at the time because I was happy we could keep dating, but it was a major violation of trust.

I was live streaming on Twitch one time, and Boyo often joined my streams. I was playing Red Dead Redemption 2 and joking about blood on the floor being poop, even though it was actually dried blood. Boyo typed in the chat that I had a poop kink, and people started believing it, which made me really uncomfortable. It turned into a running inside joke that people would use to humiliate me, but it eventually died down after a few months.

During our relationship, Boyo often ignored or avoided me, which made my feelings swing from really liking him to really hating him. These sudden shifts in emotion are called splits and they often led to fights and breakups. I do not have borderline personality disorder, but I show a lot of similar traits, which I believe I have had since I was seven. I also experience this with other people. If someone does or says something I do not like, it can trigger the same kind of split. At the time, I did not understand any of this, which caused conflicts frequently.

Eventually, Boyo got tired of my constant cycle of splitting on him. We broke up for the first time, but it was just supposed to be a break. Not even a few hours later, he met a boy online and started dating him. He even brought that boy to one of my Rec Room events and showed him off in front of me. I had a breakdown and begged him to break up with the boy. A few days later, he did, and we got back together.

As time went on, I noticed Boyo was becoming less patient and more on edge with me. He seemed more depressed and would snap at me for small things. Sometimes he even seemed aggressive. He started ignoring my messages and avoiding me more often. Whenever I tried to talk to him, he would either start crying or shut down completely and say nothing. He became colder and more distant throughout our relationship. Eventually, if I was upset or crying, he wouldn’t care or try to comfort me. When I tried to vent about my day or any drama, he would read the messages and ignore them for hours. He kept coming up with excuses like being at school, at work, or sleeping, but the timing never made sense. Sometimes he said he was grounded, which became a frequent excuse.

After that period, one memory stands out. Boyo messaged me saying his mom had told him they were planning to come to Canada to visit me. I was so excited I immediately started packing a bag with gifts for him. He said he would be coming on Friday, and my mom even took me shopping so I could buy shirts, candy, and other presents. I became obsessed with the idea of him coming. Every time I saw a plane, I imagined it was him. We talked about flights, hotels, where we would meet, and what we would do. He mentioned wanting to sleep with me, and at the time, I didn’t understand that he meant it sexually. On a video call, I showed him some of the gifts I had bought, including our matching shirts, and he looked disgusted. I felt hurt.

For a while, the thought of him visiting seemed to pause all the fights and splits. We didn’t argue for a while, and we grew even closer than before.

My Trauma

I was always curious what a penis looked like, as any other teenager is. I randomly blurted that out, and Boyo shot up and offered to show me his. i was very reluctant and taken aback, but he pressured me to say yes, so i did. he pulled out his penis and started wiggling it on call. he made me promise not to take any pictures of his private parts and i promised, because I'd never do something like that. he gave me a full 360 of it and he even made it throb on command. I remember asking how he was doing that out of curiosity and he said he could just do that. I still remember very specific details, like his tip beginning to get wet. He eventually put it away and told me showing me his penis made him feel powerful and confident.

A few nights later he needed to shave and he told me about it. He asked me if i wanted to watch him shave and i said yes without thinking much of it, I thought he meant his armpits or mustache. But after he put his phone on the bathroom counter and took his pants off, I knew it wasn't going to be his armpits. I sat there in shock as he told me to keep looking. His penis was fully erect and I can't get that horrible image out of my head. He shaved for at least 10 minutes and then stopped, put his clothes back on and acted like nothing happened afterwards.

This memory was actually locked away, but I just remembered it. There are a few times where he would need to take a shower, and he would force me to watch him on video call. He was behind a curtain and all I could see was his head or upper body, but I remember one of these times he moved the camera down a bit so I could watch him shower fully naked. I didn't enjoy or consent to any of this. If I ever told him no to these sexual activities or showed discomfort and it was obvious, he would end up breaking down into tears, punishing me for it by avoiding me for the rest of the day. I eventually developed a fear of saying no to him.

A while later, he came up with this lame inside joke where if I was on call with him and yelled "whip it out", he would pull his penis out of his pants for me and wiggle it around. All I remember is that I genuinely thought it was a joke. He also came up with another inside joke, but for me, where I would have to randomly show him my boobs for a second, and shout "flash!" when he gave me a specific look. He said he likes being flustered like that and I liked making him happy. I also thought this was a funny joke so I was on board with both of these. It was getting to a point where I was trying to force myself to like these sexual activities so he wouldn't abandon me.

He always made jokes about peeing around me. We were playing Rec Room one night and he told me he needed to pee. As a joke I said "no, please stay", and he asked if I wanted him to hold in his pee for me. I didn't know how to respond so I was like "what the fuck?", and he said he'll take it as a yes. I eventually forgot about it but a few hours later he ended up running off to the bathroom, saying he held in his pee long enough for me.

I don't remember if this was on the same night or if it was a different day, but he ended up video calling me in the bathroom asking if I wanted to watch him pee. I was caught off guard but I said sure because I really didn't want him to get upset at me for saying no, as usual. He ended up holding the phone in one hand, aiming at his penis. I remember he said he was trying to pee but he was getting embarrassed that I was watching. He made me cheer him on until he peed and i'm not joking. I watched pee come out of his tip, into the toilet. His camera was shaking which was a huge indication he was enjoying it, he always shook when he was horny. It got to a point where nearly every time he had to pee after that, he would call me and make me watch him. He started making sexual remarks about me and my body soon after. He told me he was watching some of my Tiktok videos and started jerking off to them. I privated a lot of my videos after that.

There was another time, I can’t remember exactly when, but I was having a really bad day and just wanted to be alone. Being dramatic like I usually was, I joined a VR call with nobody in it and left it public. After about an hour, I forgot I was still in the call. Boyo joined, and I yelled at him, telling him to leave me alone. Not long after, he hurt himself and sent me a picture to show it. I remember crying and apologizing over and over. When I asked why he would do that, he said it was because I yelled at him, and he blamed me for it.

This one is the most traumatic memory. I was on a video call with Boyo late at night. It was around three in the morning and I remember a very distinct detail, I had my green neon cactus lamp turned on and my phone was leaning on it. We were flirting back and forth as couples do. But things escalated really fast, and Boyo was horny. He took his phone to the bathroom with him and I asked him what he was doing. he said "you'll see", in a hoarse voice, and he pulled out his penis and started to jerk off into the toilet. I remember the details like it was yesterday. There was cum dripping out of his tip and into the toilet. There were yellow flakes coming out. He was squirting, moaning, talking about how much he wanted to get me pregnant when he came to Canada to visit me. He asked me to say stuff that would make him cum more, and I did. He told me to keep talking dirty. His penis was hard and red. I can't get the image out of my head. He told me he really wanted to shower with me. His penis was fully erect. I eventually slowed down on the dirty talk in hopes that he would calm down. It went for what felt like an hour, but he eventually stopped. He laid back down in his bed and we talked like nothing happened. He eventually fell asleep.

Around September, Boyo cheated on me a second time. He was going to a school dance and he told me he was going with a girl, who I will call M. I told Boyo I wasn't comfortable with him going to a dance with a girl, and I expressed that it would feel like cheating to me. I begged him over and over to not go to that dance with her, or at all. I gave him alternatives, like a VR date with the two of us. He ended the call and ignored me for the rest of the day. He went to that dance with her. He updated his Facebook banner to a picture of her soon after. I barely remember what happened after that. Everything was a blur. We stopped talking and I told my mom what he did. My mom proceeded to be a bit insensitive, and she told me boys are boys, they're going to cheat. She didn't care because it was an online relationship. I messaged Boyo's mom about what happened, i wished her well and she responded to me kindly.

Boyo never ended up coming to Canada. He kept saying he would come on Friday, but every time Friday came, he pushed it to the next one. It became a cycle that went on for weeks. He kept saying this during all of the events that transpired as well. He admitted that he was lying about it the whole time soon after he went to that school dance. The candy I bought for him started reaching their expiry dates, so I ate it myself, and I gave the clothes to my cousin. My mom had spent over a hundred dollars on gifts for Boyo and most of it went to waste.

I was full of anger and hate because he cheated on me, but I also still loved him with everything I had. I wanted people to know what he did, maybe even get some kind of revenge. I told my Rec Room friend group that he cheated, but everyone turned against me. Boyo had already told them I was abusive and that I was the one who cheated. I was exiled from my own friend group. Nobody would listen to me.

I remember crying in my own Rec Room game while Boyo was in another one crying too, surrounded by all of our old friends comforting him. People kept going back and forth between us, saying “Boyo said this” and “Kaevy said that.” He called me narcissistic, manipulative, and self-centered. He told everyone I threatened to kill myself if he ever tried to leave, which was not true at all. Boyo told all of his new friends that I couldn’t be trusted. He said the same things he told my old friends. that I abused him, cheated on him, and that I was narcissistic, self-centered, and a liar. They all believed him. Some of those people I’ve never even met, but they still hate me because of what he told them.

Me and Boyo hadn’t talked for months after that. I couldn’t stop thinking about him. He was my first relationship and my first breakup. I still believed he was going to come visit me, so every Friday I would sit outside and watch the sky, taking pictures of airplanes and convincing myself one of them was him. My obsession got worse over time. When my parents fought, I actually started planning to run away to America just to find him. He lived over thirty days away if I walked, but I researched what food I’d need to survive and how to get there. One night, after another fight at home, I even packed a bag and was ready to leave. I never did, but I wanted to more than anything. I dreamed about Boyo every night. the same dream, where I ran away and finally met him.

Drama

I eventually couldn’t handle being alone anymore, so I broke the no-contact rule. I added Boyo on a video messaging app we used to talk on called Marco Polo. I apologized for everything, and he forgave me right away. I asked if we could start fresh as friends, and he agreed. Something about him felt different, though. Not even five minutes into our first conversation after months of silence, he started saying things that made me uncomfortable. He mentioned craving to kiss a boy, which was strange to bring up so suddenly. Then he told me he had lost his virginity about seven months earlier at the time. He was acting overly cheerful about it, even making jokes. Later, when we talked again on another app, he said something extremely disturbing that left me in shock. He told me in his own words that he actually raped a child. I told him what he said wasn’t okay and asked why he’d even bring it up. He got quiet, looked guilty, and ended the call in tears. I immediately told his mom about it, and she said she’d talk to him.

I blocked Boyo after that, and his mom ended up talking to him. He went into a rage and told her that I was a manipulative piece of shit who shouldn’t be trusted. those were his exact words. I was furious deep down, and I started getting addicted to checking up on him. I wanted to know what he was doing, how he was feeling, everything. I’d look at his game statuses and his TikTok reposts almost every day. It turned into an unhealthy obsession, but at the time, I told myself I was just trying to catch him doing something wrong so I could use it as proof.

Before me and my last friend in the friend group stopped being friends, we were talking and i mentioned to them that Boyo told me he raped a child. i asked her if she knew about it and she said she knew for months, way before Boyo told me, but he told her a completely different story. She told me Boyo told her that he lost his virginity to Mae, that girl he cheated on me with, which is obviously a completely different story than what Boyo told me.

After Boyo and I broke up, he stopped playing Rec Room and moved on to a game called VRChat. I didn’t find that out until 2024. That’s when I discovered he was dating an adult, who I’ll call T. I added T and tried to befriend them. We hung out a few times, and they ended up telling me that they broke up with Boyo because he had cheated on them with around five other guys. About a week later, I unfriended T. They never really invited me to hang out, and they were a lot more emotionally mature than I was. They were also into some pretty sexual stuff that made me uncomfortable, and I didn’t want to be involved in that.

Not even a week after T broke up with Boyo, Boyo started dating someone I’ll call BX. As soon as I found out, I tried adding BX on VRChat so I could warn them about Boyo and his past, but Boyo had already told them about me. They had me blocked. I tried again on Discord using another account, and BX accepted my request. I warned them about everything Boyo had done, but they somehow figured out it was me. They told me to stop contacting them and said I was messing with the wrong person. It scared me, so I backed off for a while. By that point, I didn’t want to be friends with Boyo or date him again. I’d already seen who he really was. What I wanted was to warn his new friends and the people he might hurt next. I went to extreme lengths just to get close to him again. I deleted all the videos I made about him, stopped talking about him, and stayed quiet for a while. Eventually, he let me back into his VRChat friend group. We hung out a few times, but nobody there trusted me.

Boyo invited me to a VRChat world called Popcorn Palace. It’s a place where people can relax and watch movies together. He was there with his friend group, watching a movie and cuddling his new partner in a private room. When I joined, he greeted me and told everyone that we were cool now and not to bully me. He said I was welcome to join them, but made it clear that BX didn’t trust me. I noticed a few old friends from Rec Room there too, the same ones who had turned against me. One of them still held a grudge and made sure I knew it. I went into the private room anyway, and Boyo was wearing a matching avatar with BX. That’s something couples usually do in VRChat, and I’ll admit it made me jealous. I sat in the corner and basically watched them cuddle and make out in front of me the whole time.

At that point, Boyo had added me back on Discord, but we barely talked. About a month later, he broke up with BX, saying he needed to focus on school. It was pretty clear he’d just used them as a summer fling. BX was devastated, so I added them on Discord. They turned out to be a really kind person. I told them I was sorry for what happened and that I was there for them. We started hanging out more, and they even introduced me to my favorite horror game.

Boyo noticed how close I was getting to BX and told me I was “betraying” him. Whenever I tried to bring Boyo up, BX would avoid the topic, they just wanted to heal and move on. But eventually, they broke down and told me what Boyo had done to them and others. They said Boyo constantly flirted with his friends in front of them, had e-sex with people regardless of age or consent, and would try to cheat anytime they weren’t around. They told me they always had to keep Boyo away from his and their friends so he wouldn’t cheat. Other people had even warned them not to date him, saying he had a bad reputation and couldn’t stay loyal.

Around this time, Boyo wanted to have a chat with me because I was getting too close with BX. He invited me to a world and I joined, and he told me about how BX was threatening to rape him, which I can say is most likely not true. We ended up hanging out in Popcorn Palace again a while after, and Boyo was hanging out with a few friends. He invited me to join so i did, and he was humping one of his friends and moaning in their ear, right infront of me. They kept telling him to stop and he wouldn't.

A few days later, on a school night, I stayed up a bit past my bedtime to hang out with Boyo. BX ended up joining too, but I had to get off soon after since I had school the next day. The following day, BX sent me a video of Boyo having e-sex with one of his friends, right in front of BX. This happened while Boyo already had a new boyfriend, S. BX was really upset, and I was disgusted. After that, BX opened up to me even more about the things Boyo had done. They claimed Boyo raped them, but they had an online relationship with Boyo so I don't think they used the right word. They told me they have the same trauma as me, with Boyo jerking off to them without their consent. I was told that Boyo has a history of doing this with most of his exes.

I’m a content creator, so I often livestream to a large audience. Around this time, even though Boyo and I were on good terms, I started noticing his friends harassing me again. During one of my livestreams, someone joined with a profile picture of my face from an old birthday stream back in 2022, something only a few close friends had ever seen. My face had a filter over it, and their username included a slur for transgender people, calling me a “tranny.” I panicked, wondering how someone could’ve gotten such an old screenshot. Shortly after, another account joined and typed in chat, “Kaevy threatening to kill themselves when someone says hi instead of hai,” mocking me and implying I couldn’t handle tone or wording differences. Not long after that, a hate page appeared and began posting multiple videos harassing me and accusing me of things I never did.

I freaked out and didn’t know what to do, so I changed everything. My online name, identity, branding - hoping they wouldn’t be able to find me and would finally leave me alone. I unfriended Boyo because I knew he had some part in this. I told a few of my friends what happened, and one of them offered to talk to Boyo to get those accounts taken down. But Boyo kept dragging things out and stalling, and it took months before he finally told his friends to stop and take the accounts down.

He broke up with S and started dating a 14-year-old named Ghosty. The way I found out was really upsetting. Boyo was having a panic attack, and I wasn’t sure if he wanted me to join, so I changed my status on VRChat asking if he was okay. He ignored it for at least 45 minutes. Then he finally changed his status to “I love him <3,” and I completely lost it. I changed my own status to “Boyo, read my bio” and updated my bio with a passive-aggressive message basically saying I was going to expose him and tell his mom what he was doing online.

He saw it less than a minute later, which was ironic considering he’d ignored me for nearly an hour. Almost immediately, both Boyo and Ghosty sent me friend requests on Discord, and Ghosty added me on VRChat too. They both started panicking and trying to join me, spamming messages one after another. I hid in a private room in Popcorn Palace for about fifteen minutes while it all went on.

Eventually, Boyo stopped messaging and changed his status to say he was panicking. After a bit, I let Ghosty join me. When they arrived, they acted calm and gentle, speaking softly as they tried to convince me not to tell Boyo’s mom. They managed to talk me down for a few days. Ghosty said they’d try to hang out with me when they weren’t with Boyo.

During our talk, I told them Boyo was basically my only friend left, but they said they didn’t like people hanging around him. We ended up talking more, and I opened up about what Boyo had done to me, to BX, and to others. Ghosty told me they’d been a victim of grooming before by someone named T, and then, out of nowhere, they gave me T’s address, saying they’d doxxed him. They also mentioned knowing Boyo’s address and said they’d dox him too if he ever cheated. Finally, they said that it was their choice if they got groomed again. I'd like to add that T is the same person Boyo dated.

I felt like they were both using me because I hadn't recieved any texts or invites since, so I unfriended both of them on Discord, but they kept trying to add me back. Eventually, I messaged Boyo’s mom from an alternate Facebook account, telling her everything and including some of the evidence I had. That was late 2024, and she still hasn’t responded.

Boyo blocked me on everything that he could think of after that, Ghosty forced him to. I could still see his VRChat profile though so I often checked what new VRChat groups he could join. He joined a VRChat group called The P. Diddlers, and in the group description it said "Join if you diddle kids". he also joined plenty of sexual groups like "Masochist", "Voice Kink", "Switch", "Makeout With Me?", "Neck Kisses", "Give Me Attention And I'll Cum", "Bully Me And I'll Cum", "I Love Dominant Women", And he was in some groups about having a dog kink. He had a praise kink, degradation kink, puppy kink, piss kink, touching and choking kink, neck kissing kink, and he was a masochist.

More people have come forward about their experiences with Boyo as well around this time. One person said they have a personal experience with Boyo and wanted to see others, another said Boyo had e-sex with their cousin and they wanted to expose him, Another person also said Boyo might be one of their exes and they wanted to fact check that.

Boyos real life friend, who I will call A, came to me around this time on an alternate account and shared part of his own experience with Boyo. He knows Boyo in real life and has known him since they were kids, since they go to the same school. He told me they’re not friends anymore and that he doesn’t like Boyo, but at first, I didn’t believe him. Then A sent me a screenshot of a text message he had sent to Boyo, where he confronted him for groping him for years and making inappropriate comments toward his friends. He also mentioned that Boyo had allegedly watched him sleep during sleepovers more than once. A also told me that Boyo had been spreading lies about him to their mutual friends, saying A was mean. He didn’t give me much more beyond that, but said his parents are aware of everything that happened.

The document was made on March 2nd, 2025, by an anonymous group trying to expose me for things they claimed I had done. Ghosty was one of the people involved, along with a few of Boyo’s friends. The group said they had multiple collaborators. In the document, I was called out by name and accused of having a pattern of alarming behavior during the time they had known me. They claimed I had a long history of abuse, manipulation, fakeclaiming, guilt-tripping, love bombing, encouraging people to ship incest, promoting obsessive or violent media, gaslighting, and encouraging threats and self-harm. They said I once claimed to be “programmed” online by my ex and old friends. They also claimed I spread misinformation about the Japanese language, that I’m in denial of WPPOC privilege, and that I’m against the term “white-passing.” They accused me of using different names to hide who I really am. They said they had evidence for all of it but failed to provide anything to back it up. The document also said I had over ten partners who reported trauma and discomfort from being around me, and that some friends felt pressured into relationships or into giving me things to avoid being guilt-tripped. It ended by saying they wanted to see me held accountable for everything they believed I caused.

The majority of what was written in that document isn’t true. Some parts have bits of truth, but a lot of it was exaggerated or taken out of context, and I can explain most of it. I’ve never physically, emotionally, or verbally mistreated any of my friends. They accused me of “fakeclaiming.” I’ve never faked any disorder, if that’s what they meant. They also accused me of guilt-tripping, which I admit I can do, but it only happens when I’m having an episode or emotional spiral. They claimed I encouraged people to ship incest, which is absolutely false. I strongly dislike and condemn proshippers and anything related to that community. That claim was added purely to make me look worse. As for promoting obsessive or violent media, I don’t believe I’ve ever done that, and I’d like to see proof if anyone’s claiming otherwise. They said I gaslight people, which is partly true, but it’s never done to manipulate. When I feel deeply misunderstood or pressured, I sometimes unintentionally minimize or distort what’s happening because I panic. It’s still harmful, and I acknowledge that, but it’s not malicious. They also accused me of encouraging threats or self-harm. I want to make it clear that I never do that deliberately. They wrote that I claimed to be “programmed” by my ex and friends. I don’t even fully understand what they meant by that. If they mean I was influenced or manipulated into thinking a certain way, that’s true. They also accused me of changing my name often to hide who I am. That’s true, but the reason is safety. I’ve had to change my name and identity about ten times because of ongoing harassment, stalking, and doxxing from Boyo, Ghosty, and others. It wasn’t to deceive anyone, it was to protect myself.

They claimed I spread misinformation about the Japanese language, though they never specified how. I’ve never mocked or misrepresented Japanese language or culture. They also accused me of denying “WPPOC privilege”, meaning white-passing people of color, which isn’t true either. I suspect Ghosty wrote that part. Ghosty frequently used racial slurs to appear edgy and claimed to be Native. From what I understand, Native people can’t use the N-word, and one of my Native friends confirmed that, as have several others. Finally, they said I’ve had over ten partners who claimed I made them uncomfortable or treated them poorly. That’s false. Boyo was my first and only partner, and I haven’t dated anyone else since. I’ve never pressured anyone into a relationship. If someone told me they weren’t interested, I respected that and moved on.
Ghosty went on Twitter claiming that I lovebomb and cheat on all my exes, that I’m a gaslighter, narcissistic, manipulative, a bigot, and more. Around that time, I also found out that Ghosty and Boyo’s friends had been stalking me in my community server for months using alt accounts. My old server had originally been made in November 2024. Ghosty even posted screenshots from that server on Twitter.

The screenshots showed three messages where I had vented about one of my old friends leaving me. I said things like, “Luckily I didn’t know him long so I could get over him easily,” and “my friend abandoned me.” I said those things out of pain, that’s how I cope. But Ghosty used those messages against me. They started harassing me on TikTok, calling me a narcissist and an abuser, and over time, they managed to turn a lot of my friends against me. I blocked Ghosty on TikTok, but they kept showing up on alt accounts. Eventually, I went to Twitter and replied to them with a screenshot of the document, telling them to stop harassing me, especially since the doc itself had been edited to say they had the wrong person. But instead of backing off, Ghosty replied to my tweet and called me a narcissistic lovebomber again.

I Was Doxed

March 24th, 2025, was the day everything in my life and career started to fall apart. A week earlier, I had announced that I planned to release a YouTube video exposing Boyo. The video was around 50 minutes long and included screenshots, videos, and my full story about everything he had done to me and others. I made sure to let everyone know the video was coming, and Boyo found out. I can only assume he panicked. I suspect that Ghosty asked Boyo for my personal information so they could dox me on Twitter, because the day before the video was set to premiere, Ghosty did exactly that.

Before I even realized I had been doxed, I was talking to my old friend and a few others in my Discord server about everything that had been happening. I told them about a comment Ghosty made seven days earlier. While checking my filtered YouTube comments, I found messages from Boyo’s friends sending me death threats, and calling me narcissistic. Among them was an aggressive comment from Ghosty on an alt account, saying they had all my personal information. my city, full name, and even my face, and that they were going to dox me soon. I didn’t see it in time.

When I told my friend about what Ghosty said, they replied with, “about that.” I checked Twitter, and there it was. two photos of my face, taken when I was 14, posted publicly along with a town close to where I live, and several accusations. Boyo had saved screenshots from my old personal TikTok account back in 2023, shortly after we broke up, to use against me if I ever tried to expose him. That had been his plan all along, and I hadn’t realized it.

They have my full legal name, my mom’s full legal name, my deadname, my city, and possibly even my address, though only my face has been posted so far. When I pieced everything together, I realized Ghosty had doxed me once before, during that TikTok livestream situation a year earlier. In their tweet, Ghosty said I lived in Edmonton, which isn’t true. They clearly know the exact city, but I’m at least thankful they didn’t say it publicly.

Under that same post, Ghosty also said they were working on a document to expose me for “everything I’ve done.”. I still haven't seen any documents posted about me since they've said this, and I plan to ignore it regardless. About thirty minutes after I was doxed, I panicked and kicked everyone from my Discord server. But then Ghosty managed to rejoin through the application system. The moment they joined, they said they needed to “preface” that I was a racist bigot. They also used my birth name, which only Boyo knew aside from my family. Ghosty told me I didn’t deserve respect and accused me of using the term “hypersexual” incorrectly, even though Ghosty, Boyo, and tyhe majority of Boyo's friends have all openly described or hinted at being that way themselves. Then Ghosty said they’d love to “educate” me and claimed they could use the N word because they were “aboriginal” or “native”, their words, not mine. They told me nobody would believe me and that they were only there to get the “victims” side, using air quotes.

Ghosty lied and claimed they had never actually dated Boyo, even though they had said otherwise many times before. Then they used my full legal name, including my middle name, and repeated the same hateful accusations. They said I “whitewash cultural experiences” and “invalidate victims of sexual assault.” They also claimed to have all of my personal information, along with everything I had ever documented about Boyo, stored publicly in their own Discord server.

They demanded that I prove what Boyo had done, to me and to others, and then said I never could and never would. They told me I would never have a case. They accused me of trying to dox people using tech IP grabbers and said they had screenshots and videos from 2022 of me calling my old friend “Mommy.” Ghosty also denied ever hearing Boyo say he loved them, even though there’s a video of the two of them flirting and making out that clearly shows otherwise.

They said they didn’t feel bad at all, they said they weren’t sorry. After that, they shifted the focus to themselves, talking about being hypersexual in the past and bringing up unrelated health issues, before ending by saying they were autistic. I was terrified. They had my full legal name, my face, and my personal information, and I didn’t know what they would do next. After that, I removed all of my accounts. Once again, I was forced to change my name, my identity, everything.

On March 25th, I had school, but at five in the morning, I went upstairs crying. I told my mom that Boyo and his friends had doxed me and showed her the screenshots. I told her how unsafe I felt, but she seemed surprisingly calm. She told me I should’ve been more careful on the internet, and I broke down screaming and crying. My dad woke up and came into the computer room wondering what was going on. I told him I got doxed. I told my mom I had a video I needed to show her, one where I explained everything Boyo had done. I said I’d have to put it on the TV because it was fifty minutes long. My dad sat with us for a few minutes before leaving for work, and my mom watched the entire video with me. When it ended, she said she would contact the RCMP for me.

I got to stay home that day, and the next morning, she reached out to the RCMP. But they said they couldn’t do anything about Boyo because it all happened online. Ghosty is Canadian too, but since everything took place over the internet, the police said there wasn’t much they could do about them either. So I handed everything over to a group of predator catchers I was working with. They said they would be making a video on Boyo soon, after his eighteenth birthday. I even tried reaching out to Boyo’s mom and told her that her son leaked my information and got me doxed, but, as usual, I got no response. I deleted my message and blocked her. She doesn’t care about what her child has done, or what he’s put me through.

Ghosty claimed that I used to call my friend “Mommy” all the time and said it was weird and made my friend uncomfortable, so I want to explain how that actually started. Back in 2022, Boyo made a running joke that everyone should call my friend “Mommy.” I went along with it, thinking it was just a harmless joke and that my friend was fine with it. My friend actually thought it was funny at the time. Both Boyo and I kept calling my friend “Mommy” because that was literally their nickname in Rec Room, they changed it to that themselves. That is why Boyo made the joke in the first place.

If my friend did not like it or thought it was weird, they never said anything. Neither Boyo nor I were told to stop. We did stop once they changed their username back to normal, but for the few months they used that name, everyone in our friend group called them “Mommy.” It was not just me and Boyo; it was an ongoing inside joke among all of us. They still openly enjoys being called “Mommy.” They were in VRChat groups that specifically advertise it, including one called “You Can’t Uncall Me Mommy.”

My old friend, we’ll call them J, sent my other old friend screenshots of the Discord server that allegedly contains my information and evidence. The people in the server include multiple friends of Boyo. Sour is the owner of the server, and Ghosty is the one adding my information and evidence into it. They also had other people gathering screenshots. Ghosty tried to counter a lot of the evidence I had and what I was saying about Boyo. They claimed I said Boyo had harmed two people and groomed several minors, and that Boyo hadn’t, because he is a minor himself. I never said he harmed multiple minors or that he assaulted two people, and Ghosty is fully aware of that. They claim everything he did in real life was consensual but provide no proof. In another screenshot, they said it has been “officially proven” that I am discriminatory and claimed that I said Boyo assaulted Ghosty, even though I never said that. The screenshots they provided contain no actual proof.

Ghosty also accused me of falsely claiming rights I don’t have, which is true in their case because they are not part of a marginalized group. I firmly believe they do not have the right to use certain racial language. Multiple people have confirmed this to me. Ghosty appears to be white or at least light-skinned, based on their social media. Ghosty then accused me of being homophobic, even though I am genderfluid, queer, and have been part of the LGBTQ community since grade 2. They sent “proof” that is unrelated to the accusations. I am also not discriminatory, nor do I hold extreme political beliefs. Ghosty claimed I do not care about others’ safety and tried to involve Alex in the drama. They said I would post faces, addresses, or other personal information of people defending Boyo, which is untrue. I have never shared anyone’s personal information. The only information I shared was Boyo’s face and first name with a few trusted people, who never misused it.

They claimed I argued that humor typical of teenagers is strange and that I accused Boyo of using offensive language even though he did. Ghosty argued that Boyo is allowed to use certain words, but they ignored the context, he was using inappropriate language with much younger people. They called me a hypocrite for raising concerns. Finally, Ghosty said I used a 15-year-old as leverage, but the 15-year-old allegedly said it was fine without proof. The person who provided me the screenshots confirmed the 15-year-old was actually not okay with it.

Someone who I will keep anonymous came into contact with me shortly after regarding what Boyo and his friends had been doing and saying about me. They sent multiple screenshots from the Discord server that Ghosty and Boyo were in. It was confirmed that Ghosty had doxed me in the server, and it was also confirmed that Ghosty did in fact know my city, though they listed Edmonton on Twitter the day I was doxed for some reason.

In the server, many feet pictures were sent; I could not confirm if they were Boyo’s. There were several videos of Boyo filming in a bathroom, shirtless and wet from the shower. I also received confirmation from some screenshots that Boyo and Ghosty were still in contact with T, who is another individual with a history of grooming Ghosty, and also one of Boyo's exes as mentioned previously.

One screenshot showed someone named EJ calling another person derogatory names and telling them to send explicit photos. Another screenshot I obtained showed Ghosty and Gambino making fun of someone for their self-harm scars. Gambino called them offensive names and claimed they were pretending to harm themselves. Ghosty stepped in, mocked their self-harm scars, and asked why they used what they called a poor-quality photo. Several screenshots I received showed people in the server using racial slurs or making generally racist comments. In one out-of-context screenshot, someone in the server commented about a racial term and another person replied they did not care about the race and would still use it. I later saw a screenshot from the server showing that someone had turned the dox of my face into an emote and added it. one of my old friends who added it pinged everyone with “@everyone new emoji!!”.

The predator catchers I had been working with eventually retired and stopped communicating with me for a few months. I left their server and abandoned the video they had planned to make. I had also considered remaking the video exposing Boyo, but at that point, I just wanted to move on from what had happened, and it seemed Boyo wanted the same.

After I thought all of this drama was over, apparently Ghosty could not let it go. September 2025, I was doxed again on Twitter. I had been calling out Twitter for their lack of moderation. I did not even name Ghosty on Twitter, and then they leaked two pictures of my face from my personal TikTok account that only forty people were following. I had decided to make that TikTok account public a few weeks earlier for my community because I was tired of hiding my face, and besides, I was nearing adulthood and should not have had to fear for my safety because my face was public. I had absolutely no idea they were still stalking me at this time, and I was disgusted.

I would also like to add that fifteen days before I was doxed again, Boyo added me on Bigscreen VR, a VR app where people could watch movies together. We had frequently played on this app back in 2023 when we dated, and we often watched YouTube together there. I accepted the friend request but did not engage with him. I told my mom about it, and she told me to block him. Ghosty also added me shortly after on Discord, and my mom told me to block them too.

They ended up making another hate account targeting me on TikTok, claiming I was still stalking Boyo. I had not stalked Boyo since late 2024, and I was shocked they were still obsessed with me. They also photoshopped my Tiktok bio to say "I love minors". They made this hate account, I believe, back in August, a bit before they doxed me again, but I did not see it until a few days after the second dox.

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Pub: 17 Oct 2025 04:20 UTC

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