welcome to my extended!!!
i advise that adults stay cautious because i am a minor , if you're an adult, you don't want minors interacting with you, and i'm following you, please for the love of god block me for your own sanity
៸៸ i don't have a dni but i heavily hate the following : racists, homophobes / transphobes, radqueers, ableists, xenophobes, maga and more. if you're any one of these and you willingly interact with me, 9 times out of 10 you will be blocked. if i block you and you DON'T believe in the things or AREN'T part the things i have a heavy hate for, i'd be happy to explain why!
៸៸ regarding the adhd part, it affects the way i interact with others and my actions. take note that i'm NOT trying to use my disorder as an excuse for the things i do but as a partial reason explaining the way i act. " oh mel! adhd isn't THAT serious of a disorder, you're lying about your disorder affecting you!! " see that??? see what i just wrote??? if you think like this then the door is RIGHT there. disorders affect people in multiple different ways. for example, somebody with autism is different than the next guy that has autism. same disorder, but they don't act the same. not all people with the same disorder ACT the same way.
៸៸ unless you're a friend or somebody i know ( and yet this still applies,,, guelp ) i won't always be the one to talk first in a conversation and it may take me a while to say something. mainly cause i get anxious when talking to others but also because it takes me some time to think about what to say and PRAY that it comes out right. there has been too many scenarios where things i say are taken outta context 😭 other than that i really like talking to others and hanging out with people!! i'm just a liitle shy
៸៸ i am sensitive to an extent.
i'd rather you 𝐧𝐨𝐭 try to test my boundaries to see where i draw the line, mainly because i can just straight up tell you if i don't want to talk about a certain topic but because it's kind of like a spectrum?? if i had to say so myself?? i get mad over small and big things i don't really know how to word this
៸៸ i 𝐰𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐲𝐨𝐮 if i have any sort of resentment or anger towards you. i try to keep it to myself as i don't want to strain any friendships or relationships but i feel like if it's going on for long enough it'll be really easy to realize if i'm uncomfortable with you or not. this is slightly related towards the "i am sensitive!!!" part of this extended as certain behaviors or things others might do affect me,, however it's often very short lived unless it's a thing that's been happening VEERRYY consistently. this is NOT AN INVITATION FOR YOU TO ASSUME WE DON'T WANT TO BE FRIENDS!!!!! as much as this sounds like this is an "oooh spooky warniiinnggg unfriend me before it's too laaaatteee" kind of thing, i do value my friendships and relationships!! do not let my pent up dispair affect you.