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Direct. Main. Contact. Extended.
Clarion's Boundaries.
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࣪˖ 𓈈 These are my boundaries, and I would appreciate it if you do not go out of your way to break them, no matter how close we are. Everyone is free to interact with me and I will give everyone a chance. However, do not force any connection with me if you believe we would not be great friends. Both you and me will thank you for not wasting our time.
Let's get the obvious out of the way. I value my friendships. Do not reach out to me if you have issues with anyone I am affiliated with, because I will not serve as the middle man or any third party. I am not interested in your self-proclaimed tragedy, so leave me out of the conversation. I do not live on drama as you do.
I hold a special hatred for people who love to frame others with disorders, especially cluster B disorders, as abusers. I will not reach out to you unless absolutely necessary. Do not villainize disorders in general. Also do not contact unnecessarily contact me if you like to invalidate alter egos. They are very real to me and I deal with them on a daily basis.
Some of my coping mechanisms include joking about suicide and self-harm, daydreaming, purposely trying to relive pain, and gatekeeping defensive interests. If you are uncomfortable with jokes, please let me know so I can stop bringing it up. If something is listed as a defensive interest, then please do not talk about that interest around me as I will get competitive. If I am daydreaming or trying to relive something, try not to bring me back into reality. Do not waste your breath telling me my coping mechanisms are unhealthy.
This is an odd one but it is important to me. Do not message me under any circumstance if my status is anything in Mandarin Chinese. I cannot care about how cheery Xiamo is. Just refrain from messaging me. My reasons are personal.
We would not be good friends if all you do is talk, and never listen to others. The Cambridge Dictionary defines "listening" as "to give attention to someone or something in order to hear him, her, or it". Even when you think you have just fooled me, I can always tell when you are not listening. It really is that obvious. Sometimes ask yourself "why does everyone seems to know everything about me but I know nothing about them?" If you got upset, then perhaps you are guilty. If the shoes fit, wear it Cinderella.
This ties in with my last point; do not spam me unless it is an emergency. I love listening to everyone (though sometimes, I do run out of things to say), but I will ignore you if you become that of a blabber; add some extra points to you if you do it the moment I am online, you are really annoying. Only my best friend has this privilege. I do not care for double texting, that is fine.
I do not use tone tags. But I am more than willing to use them if you need. Do not be scared to request!
Do not confess to me, or try to start anything with me. I do not believe in online dating. I will never say anything in with a romantic intent. Everything we have is strictly platonic.
Lastly, for all of the love that is holy, do not copy me. I know and will notice. I promise you that you will not die if you embrace yourself.
I will add the text decor later, I cannot be bothered right now.
