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the full complete list dni/byf criteria because idk man im just a little tired.

please read this before following me, if we are already mutuals assume this does not apply to you.

do not interact if:

  • basic dnf criteria (racism/homophobia/transphobia/etc)
  • believe that you cannot partially control your hyperfixations (in the circumstance of engaging with ""irredeemable media"")
  • mutuals with @fatuiharbinger , @schoenheitvil, @momosesunohara or any of their close friends
  • mutuals with @edastooth ( my ex girlfriend and groomer )
  • believe fiction does not reflect or impact reality, or mirror any usual "proship/profiction" talking points* including the comparison of marginalized people to fascism in all it's forms.
  • you call yourself a fujoshi but are neither asian nor mlm/nblm
  • unironically call yourself a "yandere", ESPECIALLY if you don't have BPD
  • involved in the mcyt community, dreamsmp in particular
  • loudly and proudly hate children for literally no reason
  • nonblack and get into black people's buisness
  • you joke about having a "nazi phase" or anything similar
  • you believe that your queerness comes before your whiteness (in relation to the last point)
  • support mspec lesbians ("lesbians" who are attarcted to men)
  • do not support he/him lesbians
  • use the toothpaste mlm flag
  • call strangers slurs, irl or online, its not appropriate
  • you fit any of the criteria to be a "selchwife"* , or claim to be a fan of the garleans (esp. if you are white)
  • you are a white "witch"

before you follow:

  • if i hardblock you or softblock do not 1. dm me about it unless we were previously friends, or 2. try to follow me or communicate with me through an alt.
  • i am neurodivergent, the only ones i list are autism and adhd, do not ask about my other conditions it is rude and invasive.
  • i do not always follow back, especially if we do not have any mutual followers. nothing personal.
  • just so we're all clear, i do talk abt discourse sometimes, more often than not it is stuff that does genuinely impact me, i will usually tag this, but if i don't and you would like something specific tagged, please let me know.
  • do not use tone indicators for me unironically, i use them sometimes as a joke, but if i cannot read the tone of something serious i will ask for clarification.
  • please do not ask me why certain people are included in my dni, i have my reasons and the people who need to know already know. i do not like discussing it with people.
  • i do reclaim certain slurs, but i tend not to use them much given my discomfort with the nature of quote-un-quote "queer humor", if they are used towards people, it is exclusively because i am friends with them and they are also personally comfortable with that.
  • please do not expect me to answer everything all the time.

astericks:
1./ i believe that dark fiction is necessary to a point, as the stories of victims and the marginalised need to be told, no matter how harrowing. what i am referring to here is the creation and engagement of this media from a kink angle, or without the proper respect and nuance it deserves. this more often than not means the creation of pornography of characters who are depicted as minors, the shipping of incest within fiction, publically shared rape fanatasies and the like. i do not believe creation or exposure to this content works in favor of victims and that it is in part responsible for the creation of more victims and it disturbs me as a survivor of csa and sa. this is not up for debate.

2./ "selchwives" refer to a collective of fans of the character emet selch, from final fantasy xiv, known usually to "woobify" the character despite his actions mirroring real world fascism.

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Pub: 06 Jul 2022 19:05 UTC
Edit: 08 Aug 2022 19:43 UTC
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