BOUNDARIES
I'm not comfortable with sexual or romantic remarks towards me, this includes jokes. You can make ROMANTIC (and sexual, if we're VERY close) jokes about me and my girlfriend's relationship. Outside of that don't make sexual jokes about me EVER. Don't excessively make sexual jokes (in general) around me either
Don't send me disturbing images or jumpscares at random without warning, I will kill you with my mind
I don't block over kin or selfship "doubles" I don't think they even exist (You can have boundaries with that it's just my opinion). You aren't me, I'm not your double. We love our f/os in our own way. Shrug. Just don't try competing with me or I will block you
While I have DID I prefer you see me as one individual and don't refer to me as more than one person ("you guys", "ya'll", etc) when talking about me. It makes my identity stability worse. (It's fine when my girlfriend does it though, I have a few exceptions)
You can ask who is fronting if you want to but don't fight it if I refuse to tell you. I usually only tell very close friends because making it known doesn't really matter to me
Respect my identity and pronouns. You should mainly use my neopronouns on me
Back to the romance, I'm not looking for another partner EVER. I'm monogamous, fuck off if you have non platonic intentions. I love my girlfriend so much and I'll never love anyone as much as I love her lalala
Don't compete with me over my interests. They are very special to me, we can both like it
Do not be parasocial with me. I would appreciate if you didn't act like you know me so well after interacting with me only one/a few times. I don't know you—I feel uncomfortable being put on a pedestal compared to other people in terms of "how morally good or trustable I am" if you barely know me. /lh (These don't apply if we're friends or close mutuals obviously just don't be weird)
Okay squeak I know that was a lot but I don't care. Yapfest is over for now though
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