Before You Interact
I have disorders but quite frankly it isn't anyone's business but mine. All you need to know is that I'm neurodivergent, have memory issues, tend to phrase things very poorly, misspell a lot and my empathy tends to fluctuate.
You will rarely see me messaging first, I'm also not active in servers. I prefer groupchats with friends over DMs.
I love my friends a lot! To the point that I am incredibly and egregiously queerplatonic with my closest ones. The lines between traditional romance and friendship is very blurred, so if you're think I'm dating someone just because I call them my bf/gf and am very flirtatious towards them then I'm probably not. Just aroace and autistic.
I cannot read minds, I am very bad at picking up on tone and social cues. Tell me if I did something wrong so I can apologise and fix my behaviour.
I don't do well with deadlines; do not expect me to reply quickly all the time as my social battery has been fried beyond bits. It's very easy for me to become drained. I'm not trying to be mean or rude, it's most likely because I do not have the energy. This goes both ways, I do not care about how long it takes for you to respond.
I'm a naturally very friendly person, don't take it as me thinking we're close. I'm probably just like that with everyone because being dry is hard for me.
I'm either free all the time or not at all. It mainly depends on my energy levels and who you are. There is a specific group of people I can handle hanging out with every day. hi beaniebc :3 hi losers of my life :3
I don't really have a filter when it comes to jokes, set boundaries or fuck around and find out. I obviously don't joke about things like S/A though. I also don't make kys or self harm jokes, just kms!
I have really bad memory and am also just really bad at retaining information. So, sorry if I don't remember things or forget to respond!
Read my boundaries!
"damn bitch this is long!" yeah it's for my discord lawl
Do Not Interact
I'm quite loose with this, and I'm more than willing to interact cordially if you fall under these categories (some... not so much) but don't expect me to be your friend. I don't really block, I'll just avoid talking to you if I don't like you.
Basic DNI criteria. Proshippers, or whatever you guys call yourself. Zionist. If you're terribly insecure / an overthinker to the point it impacts our friendship. If you often keep a tab on what games I play and obsess over what I do, constantly track my status, etc, you know who you are :) please stop, let's use our thinking caps and be normal! If you're gonna come to me for constant reassurance, venting, etc. TCC.
i really dont care for the most part. just be normal and not a borderline stalker thnx!