Goob's DNI && boundaries

DNI if you are:

basic DNI. racists, queerphobes, misogynists, etc
proshippers. darkshippers are on thin ice. anyone that posts darkship content publicly, DNI
pro-contact harmful paraphilias. pedo, necro, and zoophiles
people who romanticize grooming/being groomed
SH/ED communities, people who encourage unhealthy coping mechanisms and create a space for people to get worse
loli/shotacons, fujo/himedashis, any MLM/WLW/trans fetishists
if you will bitch about me being interested in a fandom/community, i cannot control what i am interested in and i will not throw away my love for a media just because you think everyone in that community is bad.
under 13
people who genuinely glaze vriska
vristav shippers DNI, spider8reath shippers are on thin ice
competitive/toxic fictkins + yumeshippers
alfred's playhouse glazers
DID/OSDD/system fakers, endo/willow systems, non-traumagenic systems and "systems" with no trauma/no (c-)ptsd
religious people are on thin ice. i dont believe in a god and i have had bad experiences with religious people && being religious. its okay as long as u dont mention it too much ^_^

My boundaries:

please be patient with me. i am neurodivergent !! i will not pick up on things as fast as others, nor will i act like a neurotypical person. i have mental health issues so i will not always respond quickly. i often forget to respond, or simply dont have the energy to do so :-( i am not ignoring you !! i am just trying to wait until i can give you an actual response, not a tired and low effort one
i am mentally ill !! i am very much still recovering and i have various mental health issues. i overthink, i have mood swings, and i can generally be unstable at times. please only give me comfort if you are able to handle it - dont sacrifice your own mental health for mine. if im ever dry or low mood, i may be having just a bad day or i may be overthinking a previous interaction. i likely will communicate it if it causes me more anxiety, but i am still learning to communicate properly...
i expect communication. i expect YOU to tell ME what I DID WRONG. i will not read your mind, i will not understand what i did wrong until you tell me. if you expect the same from me, i will expect it from you too. if i did something to upset you, and YOU didnt communicate that to me clearly, then that is YOUR OWN FAULT. i will not take the fall for something that could have been avoided if you actually bothered to communicate.
i dont mind sexual jokes !! i often will make sexual jokes about/towards you regardless of your age. i am a minor, and i will make these jokes about other minors and also adults. if these make you uncomfortable, tell me to stop. like the previous point, i will not be blamed for YOUR failure. ^_^
dont be competitive about my fictkins - it seems silly, but i use fictkins as a way of coping ^_^ they are not delusions. please dont compare me negatively to double fictkins or say i "dont seem like [character]", it seems childish to you but it may affect me more !! on the other hand, i love being compared positively to my fictkins. saying you associate [character] with me or treating me as the character i kin makes me happy !!
please dont be passive aggressive towards me. it can affect my mental health badly ^_^ just communicate.