important that you read this if you're a friend before you interact you need to know that we are highly possessive over our spinterests. our hyperfixations, not so much, but some can be. the spinterests on that link are only the ones you can talk to us about but if we ever mention somethings our spinterest and say it's not okay to talk to us about, then listen.

you will end up blocked if you don't listen. we don't care if you think that gatekeeping is bad or if we shouldn't be possessive over it or anything like that, especially if you're neurotypical or allistic, then we don't give a shit. we don't enjoy to be a gatekeeper but we are so there's not much we can do about that.

do not mention any spinterests i've told you about that're not on the list unless I've given you permission. it takes massive trust and/or anger for us to mention our spinterests and specific hyperfixations. if we do trust you to talk about them with, don't act like you know more than us. they're our spinterests, you don't know more than us, so stop it. it's ours. i will block you.

a big part for us is also that our hyperfixations and spinterests become so massive that it's our only identity so when you take that from me, you take our identity and meaning which is why we're so defensive. we're also even more defensive after sunnysneezy/wilbur (in dni), being our friend while being an ableist neurotypical, judging us for this.

my apologies for the rant but to sum it up, don't act like my spinterests are yours, because they're not, and be careful with what you mention. we will be blunt and honest if you've fucked up.

PLEASE NOTE WE DO NOT SUPPORT THE DSMP. I CAN EXPLAIN THIS SO MANY TIMES THAT NOBODY CAN CONTROL THEIR SPINTERESTS OR HYPERFIXATIONS. I HATE THE DSMP BUT FIND COMFORT IN SOME OF THE CREATORS, I APOLOGISE DEEPLY /srs

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Pub: 01 Sep 2023 11:09 UTC

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