this resource is made by two intersex people
the first part is made by doki doki while the second is made by plastic ono band
we are going by majority opinions and our own knowledge as tma people
There is a big debate over which pronouns are open to use or intersex exclusive. Many pronouns that are considered intersex exclusive are now being considered open by some intersex people who a spreading this rhetoric as a fact in which you cannot disagree. There is a resource going around that has been promoted in a server known to have harmful owners/mods && opinions which claims certain pronouns are not exclusive and that by saying so you are the problem.
First of all, if people are saying that anything is closed the best thing to do is treat it as such rather than risk doing something harmful && inappropriate. This applies to everything.
Second of all, these pronouns were coined/claimed by the intersex community as a way to take back from things that have hurt them and been used against them in some way like being discriminated not fitting into certain gender binary / gender "norms" and terms like shemale
and hemphordite
. Claiming that they are open is insensitive to those that were called similar pronouns && had them used against them. These pronouns were claimed with pride and you are taking that away and taking away a way for intersex people to identify comfortably by claiming them open to all.
while shy/shyr hy/hym isnt a exclusive pronoun any variation of he
or she
replaced with a letter or symbol is it makes intersex people feel like they don't have to go in any binary not even the a- , demi or libra catagorey like using "they" or "it"
Here is a list of all intersex exclusive pronouns:
prns here
"intersex falls under the non - binary umbrella"
i think, this is the stupidest thing ive heard in a while. while intersex individuals can identify as non - binary it is NOT a gender it is a sex
caused by hormones or genetalia appearing ambiguous in no way is it a label someone can identify as by choice.
"you cant be afab and intersex / theres no such thing as a afab intersex tfems"
i heard this getting passed about by certain well known people and oh my fucking god does it piss me off. this is medically incorrect most people who are open as intersex have been condition to think they fit into the idea of being perisex and even then many signs dont show up until puberty due to hormones. these starements also feel really misogynistic as many afab intersex folk identity as transfem and it doesnt matter if they grew up feminine they can be tma imtersex individuals with other labels.