my byi/dni
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if you take an issue with anything on this list, i do not need to hear about it. i don't particularly care and unless it's something factually educational or important (eg. objective misinformation) there's no need to text me about it, post about it, etc.
nothing obligates you to follow this dni, but i would appreciate it! thank you!
- BYI
- i reclaim slurs & i'm pretty foul-mouthed.
- i often confuse prepositions and misuse them in a sentence. this can lead to very confusing sentences and i apologise in advance, this is mainly because despite english being my first language i was raised hearing three different ones spoken at home (english, french and irish).
- i experience manic and depressive episodes that i have poor control over, along with paranoia related to stalking that can easily be triggered by new people - bear with me! i'll try to be minimally freaky.
- i block very liberally, it isn't personal. i will curate MY internet experience how i please, and if that means blocking you or someone you're friends with, that doesn't mean we're enemies from the get-go and there's no need for a personal vendetta or for witch-hunting. i don't have the time to hold grudges for that long and i'm generally not in the mood. internet beef makes me either anxious or just mildly irritated.
- i am NOT always a safe space for minors, particularly those under the age of 16. i don't mind minors interacting but if you're under 16 i'd prefer if you didn't.
- i am prone to periods of either low or heightened empathy so i apologise for any confusion caused by the switching between the two.
- i am coniditionally supportive of self-dx. it is on a case-to-case basis.
- i am extremely politically opinionated, and unapologetically so. if you're a middle-ground type of gal i will try and persuade you to form an opinion that is meaningful, and i will call you out on something i find morally unjust, regardless of how close we are. if you are uncomfortable with this type of discussion, let me know in advance or don't interact with me.
- i am outspoken and not good with social queues, this can oftentimes come off as blunt, rude, etc. it is your responsibility to communicate what is okay and what is not with me.
- i am extremely sensitive about discussions about ireland, our history, the term "pagan", and our culture. if you make any jokes about potatoes or alcoholism, do some research before talking to me because it's both offensive and blatantly shows your lack of education. feel free to ask me questions about these stereotypes (or other ones), but don't make these jokes around me unless i have specifically stated that i'm comfortable with it! which i probably won't unless we're already very close.
- i like toxic ships and controversial ship dynamics. despite this i do NOT support proshippers or comshippers. if you ship human/animal, child/adult, family/family, etc, get away from me i will leak all of your personal information on the internet without your consent. hope this helps! /nsrs /ish
- DNI
- chronically online
- proshippers, comshippers, etc
- syscourse/lgbt discourse
- bigots, nbsm, 32csm, conservative unionist, not explicitly pro-palestine
- fae/faer/faeself neopronouns or someone who supports them. explanation has been updated to be more in-depth.
- if you demonize/romanticize/infantalize ANY disorders (all cluster B disorders included)
- if you openly hate on any of my special interests/hyperfixations im sorry but if you're gonna be a party pooper i don't fw you aren't cool ur super boring and annoying