BOUNDARIES:
i dont like any jokes about stealing jake from me and on that same note i dont want to hear about jake being SA'D by jane or aranea (unless i bring it up first) it upsets me alot.
please do not use mean humor with me or joke about leaving me (kasp , sienna , chloe r exceptions) most people dont know my limits and it just causes me to split and freak out.
i have autism and need blunt honesty , i am horrible with social cues and if i have upset you just tell me instead of playing mind games with me.
do not attempt to comfort me when i vent (kasper is an exception to this rule because she knows how to do it in an effective way...) because no one really does it well , if you want to help just talk to me about my interests and try to redirect my attention instead.
BYF:
diagnosed OCD, MDD (major depressive disorder, treatment resistant.) ASD (autism spectrum disorder) suspected BPD (not allowed a diagnosis yet) + more i dont feel like listing, always interact with extreme caution.
i am hypersexual and have pretty bad sa trauma , i also have really bad hormones because im 15 (terrible mix) , i will try to keep it under control but things do slip sometimes.
i have very low empathy for whoever i deem unworthy (which is most people and its constantly changing) and can become avoidant and hostile very quickly if you upset me.
i am bad with responding to messages if we are not close, sometimes even if we are - if i dont respond to something you send me i probably saw it and just forgot, it is not personal.
SUPER IMPORTANT NOTES:
do not talk to me about my mental health if you are going to try and change anything about me , i promise you i have tried so many things and numerous professionals have told me i will never truly get better from what i have - i have been hospitalised, i have been on so many meds and i have been to many professionals. I'VE TRIED EVERY FRUIT!!!!!! if you are only trying to mould me into something tolerable to you then go away, i don't need anyone to save me. some people can handle me and some can't, if you can't then go away now because i don't owe you anything and i frankly can't deal with any more of you types.
i don't really have a dni my one ask is just don't interact w/ me if you are close with any of my exes or ex's friends , really just dont wanna deal with that