@BOUNDARIES

I will update this page as I am able to clarify my boundaries better. Failure to respect my boundaries willautomaticallyland you on myblacklist.

[]:➤ I avoid people who attract, interact with, or are a part of circles that perpetuate a lot of drama and participate in personal, public peer-to-peer discourse. This is for my own mental health. ex: in large groups/calls, outside of DMs, in a private server's public setting, or anything similar These environments heavily trigger me. Your personal problems and issues with another person do not need to be in the news. ╰┈➤ This does NOT apply to issues regarding any individuals who exhibit behavior that falls under ANY of my BYF/DNI!!

[]:➤ Please do not vent to me about your problems unless I have explicitly said it is okay. ╰┈➤ Please do not take my advice or opinions as a diagnosis, or treat me as a therapist.

[]:➤ I am professionally diagnosed with CPTSD, ADHD, and MDD, and my own struggles with these disorders make it extremely difficult for me to hold and initiate regular, frequent conversations with those I do not know personally. Please respect my late responses. ╰┈➤ In general, I am also busy with my personal life. TLDR; don't take my absences personally.

[]:➤ Do not involve me/bring me into online drama or any public discourse if I am not actively a part of the situation. ╰┈➤ I refuse to participate in any and all online discourse in the artist/furry community, and instead encourage others to communicate with me personally if there is an issue with anything regarding/mentioning me (behaviors, actions, etc).

[]:➤ I am not a mind reader. If you have an issue with me please communicate it clearly and directly to me! ╰┈➤ I recognize it's easier for some people to communicate upfront about their issues with me versus others, but the key thing about this point is that I cannot know what bothers you if you do not tell me.

[]:➤ I refuse to water down my feelings to make others more comfortable. * ╰┈➤ I believe the worst thing a person can do is hide or lie about what they feel. I will always try to express myself openly when possible, and will openly communicate if I need time to sort my feelings out during a conversation to calm down.

[]:➤ Please do not make any sexual jokes that could be construed as advances, or hint at any form of sexual/romantic bond with me if: we have not discussed boundaries about it prior OR are not EXTREMELY close.

[]:➤ If you have an issue with any of my friends or the people close to me, please don't reduce who I am as a person to the opinion you have about those people. I am not them. * ╰┈➤ I do not believe others are an extension of the people they hang around & expect to be treated with that same respect. If we have not had more than 3 independent or personal conversations without the lead or initiation of someone else, please do not insinuate you know how I am as a person.

[]:➤ I refuse to be a mediator of any sort. If you have issues with my friends, take it up with them. Do not EVER ask me to be a messenger to any of my friends you have issues with. Problems/Issues between peers are best solved between those peers. Close friends know and respect my choice not to mediate their issues with others. ╰┈➤ TLDR; I believe direct communication is the most efficient way to solve problems. Do not drag me into your issues if I am not directly involved in them.

[]:➤ I am not nearly as public about my practice as I used to be. Please do not pry into when I mention a spell/tarot reading unless I offer the information to you. Please do not ask me to perform a spell/reading unless I offer it to you. **

[]:➤ My sense of humor is very sarcastic, and often can be self-deprecating in nature. If that type of humor makes you uncomfortable, please tell me ASAP so I can avoid making those jokes around you. /gen

[]:➤ When asked, I am a very open and honest book. I always strive to be as honest as possible about my experiences. If you want to know something from my perspective of things, just ask. ╰┈➤ I do not believe there is ever one "true" side to a story/situation. I try to hear all sides of a situation before I voice an opinion. If you have an issue with this, I'd advise you to not interact with me.

*business inquiries are an exception to this point, however, PLEASE NOTE : any chatting that isnot commission relatedwill beminimized with any client that i have not previously spoken to ------ **if i offer to do a reading for you i will not accept any money in return. any attempts to send me money in return for a reading or any attempts to persuade me to do one for you when i have not offered will get you on myblacklist.

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Pub: 28 Jul 2025 09:51 UTC

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