@BOUNDARIES 
I will update this page as I am able to clarify my boundaries better.
Failure to respect my boundaries willautomaticallyland you on myblacklist.

[]:➤ I avoid people who attract, interact with, or are a part of circles that perpetuate a lot of drama and
participate in personal, public peer-to-peer discourse. This is for my own mental health.
ex: in large groups/calls, outside of DMs, in a private server's public setting, or anything similar
These environments heavily trigger me.
Your personal problems and issues with another person do not need to be in the news.
╰┈➤ This does NOT apply to issues regarding any individuals who
exhibit behavior that falls under ANY of my
BYF/DNI!!
[]:➤ Please do not vent to me about your problems unless I have explicitly said it is okay.
╰┈➤ Please do not take my advice or opinions as a diagnosis, or treat me as a therapist.
[]:➤ I am professionally diagnosed with CPTSD, ADHD, and MDD, and my own struggles with these disorders
make it extremely difficult for me to hold and initiate regular, frequent conversations
with those I do not know personally. Please respect my late responses.
╰┈➤ In general, I am also busy with my personal life.
TLDR; don't take my absences personally.
[]:➤ Do not involve me/bring me into online drama or any public discourse if I am not actively a part of the situation.
╰┈➤ I refuse to participate in any and all online discourse in the artist/furry community,
and instead encourage others to communicate with me personally if there is an issue
with anything regarding/mentioning me (behaviors, actions, etc).
[]:➤ I am not a mind reader. If you have an issue with me please communicate it clearly and directly to me!
╰┈➤ I recognize it's easier for some people to communicate upfront about their issues with me versus others,
but the key thing about this point is that I cannot know what bothers you if you do not tell me.
[]:➤ I refuse to water down my feelings to make others more comfortable. *
╰┈➤ I believe the worst thing a person can do is hide or lie about what they feel.
I will always try to express myself openly when possible, and will openly communicate if
I need time to sort my feelings out during a conversation to calm down.
[]:➤ Please do not make any sexual jokes that could be construed as advances,
or hint at any form of sexual/romantic bond with me if:
we have not discussed boundaries about it prior
OR are not EXTREMELY close.
[]:➤ If you have an issue with any of my friends or the people close to me, please don't reduce who I am
as a person to the opinion you have about those people. I am not them. *
╰┈➤ I do not believe others are an extension of the people they hang around & expect to be treated with that same respect.
If we have not had more than 3 independent or personal conversations
without the lead or initiation of someone else, please do not insinuate you know how I am as a person.
[]:➤ I refuse to be a mediator of any sort. If you have issues with my friends, take it up with them.
Do not EVER ask me to be a messenger to any of my friends you have issues with.
Problems/Issues between peers are best solved between those peers.
Close friends know and respect my choice not to mediate their issues with others.
╰┈➤ TLDR; I believe direct communication is the most efficient way to solve problems.
Do not drag me into your issues if I am not directly involved in them.
[]:➤ I am not nearly as public about my practice as I used to be.
Please do not pry into when I mention a spell/tarot reading
unless I offer the information to you. Please do not ask me
to perform a spell/reading unless I offer it to you. **
[]:➤ My sense of humor is very sarcastic, and often can be self-deprecating in nature.
If that type of humor makes you uncomfortable, please tell me ASAP
so I can avoid making those jokes around you. /gen
[]:➤ When asked, I am a very open and honest book. I always
strive to be as honest as possible about my experiences.
If you want to know something from my perspective of things, just ask.
╰┈➤ I do not believe there is ever one "true" side to a story/situation.
I try to hear all sides of a situation before I voice an opinion.
If you have an issue with this, I'd advise you to not interact with me.

*business inquiries are an exception to this point, however,
PLEASE NOTE :
any chatting that isnot commission relatedwill beminimized
with any client that i have not previously spoken to
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**if i offer to do a reading for you i will not accept any money in return.
any attempts to send me money in return for a reading
or any attempts to persuade me to do one for you
when i have not offered will get you on myblacklist.